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    Duh If I hear one more time..

    That I'm not sexy or naughty just because I don't do anything extra on the Dance floor I'm going to flip out! I can't stand it that most men think oh she looks naughty or sluttty maybe she will do something to get me off. I'm sexy and naughty for fantasy not to actually do the deed. I explain to them that I don't do stupid shit. I do porn and I have to be safe so I don't take anything back to that community because that's the other half of my livelihood. I mean I swear just because I'm not nasty doesn't mean I'm not sexy or naughty I've done shit they probably wouldn't do but just because I wouldn't do it with them doesn't mean that I'm not sexy. I'm sorry i had to vent or I wa gunna freak out. Has anyone had anything similar to this happen to them??

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    Default Re: If I hear one more time..

    I get this a lot-you're a good girl, or a nice girl simply because I don't do extras; my shows are great but clean. Most guys enjoy themselves & extend, but there's always going to be one or two guys looking for more than you are willing to give them. These guys are frustrating, but for everyone one like this there is also a guy who just wants to enjoy a dance/spending time with a beautiful woman. There's a lot more skill in being a clean dancer & the clean gals are good hustlers & mostly make more than those doing extras because of it.

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    That's just how men are. They think women are always competing against each other so they say subtle things to make us feel like we aren't as good as the other women. I think they start learning this skill when they're, like 9. They obviously already think you're sexy if they want you to do more. They're just trying to make you feel like you have to, and you don't. Just laugh it off and take control of the situation. Oh, and I think it's best never to explain or give reasons for anything. They just use what you say to come up with an argument against it. Just keep smiling and tell them that you know they think you're sexy & you LOVE dancing for them but nothing more than dancing. If they think you're hot they'll take whatever they can get even though they really want more, because they know that OTC they couldn't even get you to make eye contact.

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    I get guys who are like "and what are you going to do for me" or "and what happens in the dance" at this point i just tell them they are cheap basterds and not worth my time, then i point to the craked out club extras girl and tell them they might find what they are looking for with her. sometimes they leave the club right after and sometimes as i get up to walk away they ask if they can take me upstairs SOOO all i say is dont tolerate their shit.
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    You know what my favorite line is?

    It completely ends the chance that they will pester me for extras. When I can tell they are leading the discussion toward "will you do x, y, or z for me?" I always say "I enjoy my job. I don't work often anymore, I've been in the business long enough that I now have my money working for me. The good news is I never have to do anything out of desperation".

    That always ends in them saying "Oh, I wanted a blow job but nevermind" or "I wasn't looking for anything besides a dance". It's a great way to weed out the time wasters and you don't seem bitchy or rude, just forward about your "business practices".
    If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


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    Default Re: If I hear one more time..

    It also sucks when you're saying no and every other girl is saying yes for basically the same price of a few dances. I feel like I am one of the few girls in my dive club not hooking right there in front of everyone (or otc) and I'm paying for it by having to put up with these entitled assholes.

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