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    I have been seeing one dancer exclusively for several years. I am a very loyal, good and generous customer. In the last month I have gone to the club twice with friends when she was not there. I did not get any dances during these visits. On each of my next visits when she was there, she was very upset with me and ruined the visit. I explained to her that she was acting unfair and unreasonable. Am I wrong?

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    As a customer you have the right to go as often as you want and spend whatever you want on whomever you choose. No one owns you, and you control your wallet. So no, you're not wrong and her behaviour is not acceptable. Personally I'd be waiting awhile before I went again, if I went to see her again at all.
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    Default Re: Another question for the dancers???

    Quote Originally Posted by victor2 View Post
    I have been seeing one dancer exclusively for several years. I am a very loyal, good and generous customer. In the last month I have gone to the club twice with friends when she was not there. I did not get any dances during these visits. On each of my next visits when she was there, she was very upset with me and ruined the visit. I explained to her that she was acting unfair and unreasonable. Am I wrong?
    Obviously, she thinks you spent money on your visit that would have ended up in her pocket had you gone when she was working or she might just be concerned that she will be unseated as your favorite dancer.

    While her concern for the situation is understandable, she really isn't "entitled" to anything. You don't "owe" her an explanation about how you spend your time and money, whether she is in the club or not. Any level-headed dancer with several years experience realizes this. She's either unbalanced herself or is merely trying to manipulate you. The fact you have to ask this question makes me think the latter applies.
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    Default Re: Another question for the dancers???

    You are a customer, not her spouse. Find somone else.

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    You owe her nothing. Way too many customers and dancers make the mistake that they owe each other something and in reality they only owe each other things when together (he owes her money and she owes him dances). The fact is many regulars change often. I've lost many regulars and gotten other dancer's customers.

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    Default Re: Another question for the dancers???

    Like others have said, you owe her nothing. It's a business arrangement both ways - not a mutually exclusive dating relationship. This is not a singles bar. We spend so much time telling that to clingy customers, sometimes I forget that dancers can behave just as poorly out of jealousy... Your money is yours to spend as you please, when you please, on whoever you please. I've lost many people who started out as my regulars when they went to somebody else. It happens. It's an ego-blow, but it's bullshit to try to guilt a customer about it. Tell her she needs to cool it or you won't want to spend time with her anymore, then go about your business.

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    Is this the same dancer that your other threads were about? I think that it is time for you to cut the cord! Get dances from other dancers at the club or better yet go to another club. You don't owe her anything, you owe yourself some sanity. Run victor2 run, don't look back.

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    No dancer owns you, your money or your loyalty. I was just having this discussion earlier this afternoon with a fav of mine in regards to another dancer who recently left her club. She was canned for causing trouble in the dressing room by arguing with the other dancers about customers...
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    Quote Originally Posted by victor2 View Post
    I have been seeing one dancer exclusively for several years. I am a very loyal, good and generous customer. In the last month I have gone to the club twice with friends when she was not there. I did not get any dances during these visits. On each of my next visits when she was there, she was very upset with me and ruined the visit. I explained to her that she was acting unfair and unreasonable. Am I wrong?
    This is what I refer to as the "wife experience". It's bad news.

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    Default Re: Another question for the dancers???

    No dancer in a SC owns any customer. I seen a dancer exclusively for several months and decided it was time to move on and see other dancers. She would call me every week to chit-chat and see if I was coming into the club that week. When I started seeing other dancers the calls stopped. My suggestion is to move on and become a customer to the club and not a specific dancer, if that is what you want.

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    Why would you continue to see a dancer who acts like a jealous wife who owns your money? Behavior like that coming from other dancers utterly disgusts me.

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    Default Re: Another question for the dancers???

    Maybe she was acting unfair and unreasonable as a way to control you.




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    Holy shit, have ya'll read this other guy's posts? He has been paying a dancer about $3K a week, or ~$200K a year, not including travel and shopping..to basically spend a few hours in the afternoon lounging with him and not giving him dances.

    That's a hell of a whale, a fucking blue whale. If my life was so easy street, I would do whatever manipulation it took to keep that cash flow going. This has been going on for over 7 years. Bitch is a millionaire by now. I = jealous.

    Obviously the poster likes the games and has some type of submissive masochist streak because this has been going on for ages.

    No one "needs" $3k a week, or deserves it for sitting on their ass. If she was such a wonderful person, then why would she behave this way?

    He likes it and just wants attention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Holy shit, have ya'll read this other guy's posts? He has been paying a dancer about $3K a week, or ~$200K a year, not including travel and shopping..to basically spend a few hours in the afternoon lounging with him and not giving him dances.

    That's a hell of a whale, a fucking blue whale. If my life was so easy street, I would do whatever manipulation it took to keep that cash flow going. This has been going on for over 7 years. Bitch is a millionaire by now. I = jealous.

    Obviously the poster likes the games and has some type of submissive masochist streak because this has been going on for ages.

    No one "needs" $3k a week, or deserves it for sitting on their ass. If she was such a wonderful person, then why would she behave this way?

    He likes it and just wants attention.

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    This is a manipulation tactic. I known other girls in the past that do this to their regular customers -they get jealous or get in a fight w/ them on purpose. It's so they can lure you in further & make it seem like more of a real relationship w/ you. Because real girlfriends & real relationships have emotions or fights -so this is a manipulation tactic on her end. I've al.so seen these women use it in their favor. Buyer Beware.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kdogg247 View Post
    This is what I refer to as the "wife experience". It's bad news.
    Exactly! We are supposed to be fantasies not your real life your supposed to be escaping from for the evening. Even the GFE "girl friend experience" is an escape -not the wife experience. Cut your losses. She's manipulating u further into the game than you realize & she doesn't want to worry about losing her whale either, dear.
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    Damn! Too bad you're in AZ

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    Damn! Too bad you're in AZ
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    i am available to fly in. fuck all that, i will take that $3k/week and keep you happily emasculated or whatever weird fetish is going on here. if your friends all like to be entertained, i believe we could arrange a meetup party of sorts where there is talking sans dancing of any kind. i am fairly flexible about things though i prefer german dessert wines and the hyatt. i think rock and republic has gift cards but i'd have to double check. pm box is open!

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    Hey - this guy can come see me anytime!!! (for the record, victor2, PM me and I'll give you my cam address...will travel!)

    And hon - I'm guessing that she is manipulating you - trying to make sure that you are never in the club without her, so that you can't meet someone else that you might like more, or spend money on any one else and lose your dependance on her. She's a lucky girl! You....maaaybe not so much ; )
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    would everyone stop making this businesswoman out to be some kind of monster? we all deserve presents and adoring customers. game recognizes game. i see the hustle and i applaud it. several years of a consistent, good reg? again, my pm box is open.

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