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    Hi Ladies,

    I have just joined MFC and I am struggling with the format - How do you ladies manage to sit there for hours on end - Looking gorgeous - and chatting to a room full of guys that either don't talk or just ask you to get your pussy out !? lol

    Some guys are really nice and chatty - but most just sit there and don't respond - but I also have another guy who constantly PM's me - he helped me out in the room on my first day - encouraged guys to tip me - and now he wants to have "private party time" with him - and he will tip me on payday - I have said no but he is getting naughty now and saying I am just like the others only after tokens and I am a bad person - trying to make me turn off for the night with a promise of 1000 tokens on sunday and that I owe him for his help !! WTF ??

    how do you deal with these guys ???

    x x x x

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    Default Re: MFC - Such Hard Work and Guys who want to Help You and get weird ?

    Ewww screw him. It was very nice of him to help you out but you never promised him any free or discounted services. You owe him no more than a thank you. Unfortunately he thinks he has a right to ask these things of you and try to make you feel bad. Lots 'of guys like to come down on us like we are bad because we are there for the money. That's the most ridiculous thing in the world to me. No where on any of these sites does it say FREE DATING SITE. We are here to have fun AND make money. I wonder if he would be willing to do his job for free. I doubt it. Don't let him get you down. Its one guy who went from being nice to rude and every now and then you run into those kinds of guys. I would just thank him for his help and is he's persistent about the fact that you owe him something point out that it is rude too expect free service but thanks again for his help. Done. He doesn't deserve your time.

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    Default Re: MFC - Such Hard Work and Guys who want to Help You and get weird ?

    Quote Originally Posted by JennaFoxx View Post
    Hi Ladies,

    I have just joined MFC and I am struggling with the format - How do you ladies manage to sit there for hours on end - Looking gorgeous - and chatting to a room full of guys that either don't talk or just ask you to get your pussy out !? lol

    Some guys are really nice and chatty - but most just sit there and don't respond - but I also have another guy who constantly PM's me - he helped me out in the room on my first day - encouraged guys to tip me - and now he wants to have "private party time" with him - and he will tip me on payday - I have said no but he is getting naughty now and saying I am just like the others only after tokens and I am a bad person - trying to make me turn off for the night with a promise of 1000 tokens on sunday and that I owe him for his help !! WTF ??

    how do you deal with these guys ???

    x x x x
    Yeah, a lot of the guys are like this. They NEVER pay up too. Just forget about him. You should even ban his ass for 2 days or however long you like. I hate these losers that come into my room and say "oh hi, I don't have money for u bb"... "u guyz shuld tip her"

    "i have it some other day"...
    They are always 100% freeloaders with 0 tokens every time. Only one of these types ever bought tokens for me. Don't trust/care about what these men say. They are usually lying and trying to cheat you. I don't expect everyone to have money, but I just don't want to hear it when I'm there only for money/fun.
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    Default Re: MFC - Such Hard Work and Guys who want to Help You and get weird ?

    Oh god - Yeah I've loads of those guys. tHEYRE LIKE
    "I have gone to the lounge and told loads of guys to come in ur room" (everyone ignored him anyways)
    "u should set ur topic to this .. cause u'll get loads of tips then.." (u change it and still get no tips)
    "you should get naughty with me in PM so that the customers will get turned on and start tipping" (giving free shit isnt gonna make no1 tip)

    these guys are sooooooooooooooo lame

    this one guy even said all of the above ^ and then said "i never buy tokens its such a waste of money - i only bought tokens to get premium and now i just go around helping girls to get tips - they all love me and say how amazing i am - but they'll never get tokens off me just my help"

    I LOLLED SO HARD. I didn't take any of his shit advice I just left his PM's flashing at the bottom of the screen and read them later for a laugh. What a wanker.

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    There are still guys that try to "help" me out and it's best just to ignore them. They're trying to trade a "service" for a service and seriously over inflating their own value! If you HELP someone, you're not expecting something back in return! Ugh. I had one guy who was sooo willing to coach me through MFC... talked to me a bunch but never tipped or took me to private. Eventually he started to say things like, "I think we can both agree there's something special between us" (just before trying to have a free wank session with me). Yeah right. I haven't talked to him since then and I've been doing pretty dang well without his "help"!

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    You dont owe his cheap ass shit..... block and keep it moving honey! $$$$

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    Default Re: MFC - Such Hard Work and Guys who want to Help You and get weird ?

    what jerks! I keep my pm's turned off because it is annoying.

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    Dude sometimes MFC is just lame like that. I can be sitting in a room of 300 people and still not have people talking. Theres somedays when really ill have a room full of people and will be like yo, is my cam working...and no one will respond, even when i know it is. I've tried a lot of things but theres some days when people are just not responsive. Ill usually leave and take a break. I dont want them messing up my mojo.

    I cannot stand guys like that. There's always going to be guys that help on MFC. Whether they encourage guys to tip, or tell them to rate and admire, or just tell you sweet things. One guy in my room calls himself his hypeman. Its nice at first, if you're trying to help but after a while it gets annoying when they start to want to be ackowledged for it and thanked. I mean of course i thank them and appreciate it, but when they start mentioning it all the time like.. look at how much i help, im looking out for you blah blah... Like no, you're doing it because you have no money and you want to be in my good graces. I let it go because it does help and it's not causing problems. But when they start to want to get rewarded for it? Thats ridiculous. Your reward is that you have no money yet i let you hang out in my chat room all day. You dont ever owe nobody nothing on here. Not even for tips. Someone can tip me 500 tokens in public chat and write show me your pussy. I might if im feeling nice, but i really dont have to and wont feel obligated to at all. Tips dont roll over either. I had some guy argue with me when he asked me how much for friend add. I told him 100 tokens. He started reminding me of how he tipped an equivalent to 100 tokens the other day. LOL like no, i thank you for those tokens you tipped, but you tipped those for whatever show i was doing and tips dont roll over to the next time im on. Needless to say, i didnt add him and ill know that this guy is a scrub who will remember and count every token he gave me (adding up to a worth of 5 whole dollars) and feel like he deserves more than i gave him for 5 bucks.
    You have to command the respect of your room, they'll treat you how you let them treat you. If everyone sees that people are getting away with a lot more in your room, they'll all take advantage.

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    I LMAO at those who call me a gold digger or a money hungry whore, after all they are being "Dirty old men" are they not?

    They are on there to use us to get off, as if they had honorable agenda.

    You do NOT owe them a thing. Providing them with a good time, means you should be compensated for it. Comes down to how much to do you value yourself, your time & energy.

    Ban them, ignore PMs unless they are tipping. Why waste your time on someone who isn't paying for it. Time is money. Ask him for the address of where he works, see if you can come there and hang out all day WHILE he is at work. See if his money wouldn't be effected. How would his boss feel if he loafed off all day talking?

    Your bills are your boss. My landlord doesn't care about how big their dick is or if they are horny. My landlord doesn't accept compliments for rent. The people in the office don't care how much I love living in my apartment, once a month they still want money.

    Men who want to jack off and have your attention for free have NO respect for your time, your body, you energy. Why give it to them for free?

    They dont give a shit if your homeless, have nothing to eat. ALL they want is to get off, so why give a fuck about them.

    Guys who ask me to work for FREE, piss me off. To say they gave me advice & now are due something is rediculous, did you ask for the advice? Did you make a deal with them? NO! So you don't owe them a damn thing. What are they a PIMP? Trying to con you into thinking you owe them over and over again for a little bit of typing. Really?

    Those kind of dudes are on the con, trying to get you to feel guilty about something you shouldn't.

    I get guys in my room who think because they have jacked off to my porn that I owe them. Makes me LMAO. They got to cum multiple times to my videos & pics, yet I owe them....

    When a man tries to make you feel guilty, he is on the con. Plain and simple. Turn it around on him, if he is so much of a nice guy, would he be tipping you & taking you private all the time. ONLY a loser will sit in a room for hours at a time, not tipping or taking you private. Who is this world has that kind of free time but an unemployeed loser? A business man with a full time job, logs on, finds a model he likes, tips or takes her private, jacks off and then gets back to work.

    Men with lots of free time are LOSERS with NO JOBs, you will never make money off of them.
    SO why waste the time feeling guilty, when most of them live off of their wives, girlfriends or mothers.

    Smooches,
    Sam

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    thanks Sam.
    That actually woke me up. I've been having trouble with "regulars" who at one point spent money, or barely spend money but show up for hours everyday expecting me to talk to them, watching me have bad days while even having tokens and not contributing, just expecting to be regular fixtures in my chat room on a daily basis with out putting in their tokens worth. I was feeling a little guilty because i wanted to ignore these guys. It made me uncomfortable to know a buncha guys were "addicted" to my chat room as their own personal homie hang out. They'd even justify it by saying things like, i just came here to chat... not jack of (or tip neither). Well chatting doesn't pay my bills, and liek you said.. your landlord isnt going to waive your rent fee for a good chat. Chatting is a feature that goes along with my whole cam package of sales, whether you jack off or chat. Its hard when you spent a lot of time building up regulars and they stop spending money but think they still should show up in your chat everyday and deserve the same attention that you always gave them. I was letting this affect me so much like what do i do, i cant just drop these people i worked so hard to build, and who are so loyal to me. Mmmmm well after reading your post, yes I can. LOL I appreciate your loyalty, but come back when you have tokens and can participate in what im offering. These people really dont have respect for your time, even if they're being your best friend and trying to help you make money. If you dont have money, you shouldnt be on an online pay-per-play porn sites. And we shoudlnt waste time on these fools either.

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    OMG Ahmen to you Ladies ! .. thank you so much - you have just given me a huge kick in the arse to be a stronger person .. sometimes camming really gets me down and my husband is as understanding as he can be ( bless him ) but it is so good to listen to other women who go through the same thing ...

    If anyone wants to add me to msn to chat . be friends . help each other then pm me and I will giveyou my addy x x x

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    This guy IS mfc. If you're going to work there, that's what you will get 95% of the time. The other 5% are the ones who get it and are going to actually tip.

    I got so sick of wasting my time with guys like this and their BS, and like others have said the guys just sitting there saying nothing at all expecting you to do shit for free. Fuck it. I'd rather know I'm getting paid for what I do.

    Good luck putting up with MFC!
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    Every resteruant, every casino is a private property, they have the right to kick out or refuse service to anyone they choose. Just because it might be a 24/7 business, does NOT mean you can hang out there and live 24/7 without spending a dime.
    I love Morton's steak house, doesn't mean no matter how much I love the food that they owe me a free meal or even a discount. You are a service. A true friend would tip, not sit in there for hours calling it a friendship.
    Can NOT stand it when they say they want to be "friends" or get to know the 'real me'. Just another con as far as I am concerned, the real me can't stand men who are attempting to use me and call it a "friendship". Where is the benefit for me?
    Under their definition, does that mean if they work at a car dealership, since we are friends I get a free car to drive all the time and NOT have to pay for it.
    Used to know people like that when I waited tables, want free food and drinks because we were now friends. Yet, I still had to wait on them and pay for that food & drinks myself. USERS-NOT FRiends as far as I am concerned.

    Business is Business. If they are such good friends then can I stop over and meet the wife, parents, their other friends. Or am I a secret? A secret that they are a horny dude wanting to use us to get off? These guys are NOT your friend.

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