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    I know it's normal to get alot of freeloaders and rude people in free chat. But today was the worst of it for me, and ended the best that it could. I was about 10 minutes into free chat when a member came in my room and called me a bitch. I ignored him. But then, he kept going. He then called me a fucking whore. Instead of banning him, I asked him what his problem was. He told me my prices (3.99/minute) were too high and that he would not pay a prostitute that same amount of money that I was asking for. I told him to fuck off. He then started spamming my room like crazy telling everyone that my private shows are horrible and that they should go watch someone else, when this member has not even been in one of my shows! I then banned him and everything was going fine until about 5 minutes later. Another guy came in the room and started calling me a coke whore because of my rates AGAIN! He didn't spam but he told me that the only reason I cam is to support a "cocaine and meth habit." He then left right before I could ban him and started popping in and out of free chat copying and pasting various cuss words into the chat. I spent 5 minutes trying to ban him then gave up. This is where is got nasty. I finally could not take it anymore and started CRYING on cam! I sat there in front of the cam with tears running down my face as well as mumbling and begging for him to leave me alone. I know this was very unprofessional that I let something like that get to me, but I just couldn't handle it! Anyway, about a few seconds into the nervous breakdown, someone took me EXCLUSIVE. He told me I didn't even have to undress or play with myself! He just wanted to chat and he told me how important it was to ignore people like that because it will always happen every now and then. He also told me that I was worth more then my rates. You will not believe this, we ended up staying in exclusive for 45 MINUTES!!! That's $180!!!! HE ALSO TIPPED $50 GOLD! WHAT IS THIS GUY LOADED?!? I immediately went back into free chat with a smile on my face and a confident attitude and literally one minute a flock of people from the previous free chat session came into free chat and one of them clicked into premium and immediately almost HALF of everyone followed and started tipping tons of gold.

    This just proves that sometimes the freeloaders can be beneficial.
    Try and use those freeloaders to your advantage.

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    I'm so glad that it ended well for you.

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    Freeloaders didn't help you out though - I honestly didnt see a freeloader in your whole story. I see jerks that deserved an immediate banhammer (they werent asking you to show anything so not freeloader), a (paying) white knight who rescued a damsel in distress, and the floods of guys throwing tons of gold within seconds were just paying cam customers.

    Maybe it is your enthusiasm but the whole thing sounds like a fairy tale or

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    immediately went back into free chat with a smile on my face and a confident attitude and literally one minute a flock of people from the previous free chat session came into free chat and one of them clicked into premium and immediately almost HALF of everyone followed and started tipping tons of gold.
    an Aesop's fable.

    But right on to a banking day / picking up a personal lesson





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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    Freeloaders didn't help you out though - I honestly didnt see a freeloader in your whole story. I see jerks that deserved an immediate banhammer (they werent asking you to show anything so not freeloader), a (paying) white knight who rescued a damsel in distress, and the floods of guys throwing tons of gold within seconds were just paying cam customers.

    Maybe it is your enthusiasm but the whole thing sounds like a fairy tale or



    an Aesop's fable.

    But right on to a banking day / picking up a personal lesson
    The real moral of the story is log off if you are about to cry! LOL!

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    Dont let people like that get to you. Words are just words coming from some kid behind a keyboard. I bet he'd never even dare to say those things to you in real life because hes a pussy.

    But glad you made lots of dollar out of him... i bet he doesn't even make 2.99 a hour in his shitty shelf stacking job.

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    I'm trying to figure out why you cried. Was your day going bad up until then?

    Next time Just ban them, why respond? My ass laughs, and blocks, that gives me power.

    After all, WE control our own room.

    I get called black monkey gorilla bitch ..., ghetto , all that negative shit. I laugh extra hard, because you always see my profile before entering my room, so you went in to see this HOT ghetto monkey gorilla bitch!

    Anybody not paying me is irrelevant as hell, and can never make me cry, id make them cry first

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    Wow!
    Im happy it worked out, I know its tuff when shit like this happen.. but...........
    Please dont do that again.....
    Freeloaders are only beneficial when they are mean and a whale happens to be there to rescue you.......But WHAT IF no whale is there... ?!?
    u will then taste the bitterness of it all.
    These people do not care.
    They feel bad like when they see an accident happen, but 5 min later they go on with their lives and you with yours.

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    $3.99 is not expensive! It's fair.


    "If you don't stand for anything, you'll fall for everything"

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    SMH ....... How many times do i have to tell you .....Crying is the magic bullet on MFC!
    I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"


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    It wasnt about your rates - some men just hate women and get an ego boost from intimidation and bullying - he probably would have berated you if you charged .50 a minute - it' wasnt about you its about his low self esteem and trying to make you feel bad so he can feel good - I only take verbal abuse in exclusive for 4.99 a minute - if you dont want to pay to call me names then you get " BANNED "

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    So glad that one ended well! Keep smiling babe.

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    This reminds me of a girl I saw on MFC. I was just looking around to see what everyone did in their free rooms came across this girl, (sorry I don't remember her name), but she was crying hysterically, sobbing, rolling around on her bed etc every now and then she would look up into the cam, eye's red and puffy, make up streaking down her face, her room was packed! All the guys were being really sweet trying to calm her down etc, she never spoke, never explained why she was crying and yet she was having tips thrown at her left right and center! I swear she took 1000 in the 5 mins I was there!

    So was it a ploy or was she genuinly upset about something? I really don't know and if you recognise yourself from this hun Kudos!

    Just goes to show you girls.

    Now on the subject of nasty keyboard bullies, I get them too, been called whore old bitch hag etc usually I ban em, a lot of the time though they go before I get a chance, but I copy and paste the convo into notepad, which I have open whenever I'm on cam, as soon as I see his sorry ass again I get him before he hits his keys! Occassionly I will laugh at them and come back at them, get involved in a winding them up, but I have found this usually ends up with the rest of the guys in my room ganging up on the scum too Can be fun. I have learnt to develop a very hard skin over the years and never let them get to me.
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    They just want to make you feel you are not worth the prices you are asking....

    FUCK THEM.

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    Oh yay for happy endings.

    Sell pics/vids+hourly contest+tips!

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    I'd rather shit in my hands and clap than let some annoymous pricks see me cry on cam...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CyberAshley View Post
    I know it's normal to get alot of freeloaders and rude people in free chat. But today was the worst of it for me, and ended the best that it could. I was about 10 minutes into free chat when a member came in my room and called me a bitch. I ignored him. But then, he kept going. He then called me a fucking whore. Instead of banning him, I asked him what his problem was. He told me my prices (3.99/minute) were too high and that he would not pay a prostitute that same amount of money that I was asking for. I told him to fuck off. He then started spamming my room like crazy telling everyone that my private shows are horrible and that they should go watch someone else, when this member has not even been in one of my shows! I then banned him and everything was going fine until about 5 minutes later. Another guy came in the room and started calling me a coke whore because of my rates AGAIN! He didn't spam but he told me that the only reason I cam is to support a "cocaine and meth habit." He then left right before I could ban him and started popping in and out of free chat copying and pasting various cuss words into the chat. I spent 5 minutes trying to ban him then gave up. This is where is got nasty. I finally could not take it anymore and started CRYING on cam! I sat there in front of the cam with tears running down my face as well as mumbling and begging for him to leave me alone. I know this was very unprofessional that I let something like that get to me, but I just couldn't handle it! Anyway, about a few seconds into the nervous breakdown, someone took me EXCLUSIVE. He told me I didn't even have to undress or play with myself! He just wanted to chat and he told me how important it was to ignore people like that because it will always happen every now and then. He also told me that I was worth more then my rates. You will not believe this, we ended up staying in exclusive for 45 MINUTES!!! That's $180!!!! HE ALSO TIPPED $50 GOLD! WHAT IS THIS GUY LOADED?!? I immediately went back into free chat with a smile on my face and a confident attitude and literally one minute a flock of people from the previous free chat session came into free chat and one of them clicked into premium and immediately almost HALF of everyone followed and started tipping tons of gold.

    This just proves that sometimes the freeloaders can be beneficial.
    Try and use those freeloaders to your advantage.
    I am glad that you ended up smiling and making good $$$
    Next time don't cry ! these guys are unworthy of your tears, but I understand you, I would feel so bad if it was me..

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    Quote Originally Posted by KrystleX View Post
    I'd rather shit in my hands and clap than let some annoymous pricks see me cry on cam...


    Agreed. I get shaky, I log the hell off. My pride is immense.

    To the OP: I'm glad the lemons turned to lemonade, but never let 'em see you sweat! The white knights who spoke with their wallets were great, but the trolls won and they may very well return when there are no customers with their heads screwed on straight present...

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    It's really nice that there was a guy with a padded wallet there to make your night better and I'm happy it ended so nicely for you.

    Here's the thing, though. This wasn't using freeloaders to your advantage. Why would you even let someone sit in your room and throw insults at you, let alone to the point where you're crying?

    Next time somebody types "bitch" in your room, don't let them stay and have a convo with them about why are your rates too high, why does he feel this and why does he feel that... When you see that first "bitch", put your nicest smile on and just silently click the magic ban button.

    There's enough things in the industry eating away at us that we can't affect, I see no reason allowing at least those we can prevent.

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    I once saw a girl on mfc arguing with her boyfriend over the phone and she was bawling and also making really ridiculous arguments compared to his, but her room was packed!!

    Whenever assholes get to me or I am having a slow day, I get frustrated to the point of wanting to tell everyone to fuck off for even daring to say stupid shit like "feet bb!" but I never do. Sign off, take a short break and come back on. I know these men dont know me, why should I take their bitter comments personal? Theres nothing they can say to insult my looks either, I think Im just too sexy Never let em see you crack!!!

    I have a regular, this older guy who doesnt always hang in my room but hes always watching my cam lol, hell send tips often or sometimes randomly when someone is being a moron, along with a reminder that Im wonderful. It helps ease the sting haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CyberAshley View Post
    I know it's normal to get alot of freeloaders and rude people in free chat. But today was the worst of it for me, and ended the best that it could. I was about 10 minutes into free chat when a member came in my room and called me a bitch. I ignored him. But then, he kept going. He then called me a fucking whore. Instead of banning him, I asked him what his problem was. He told me my prices (3.99/minute) were too high and that he would not pay a prostitute that same amount of money that I was asking for. I told him to fuck off. He then started spamming my room like crazy telling everyone that my private shows are horrible and that they should go watch someone else, when this member has not even been in one of my shows! I then banned him and everything was going fine until about 5 minutes later. Another guy came in the room and started calling me a coke whore because of my rates AGAIN! He didn't spam but he told me that the only reason I cam is to support a "cocaine and meth habit." He then left right before I could ban him and started popping in and out of free chat copying and pasting various cuss words into the chat. I spent 5 minutes trying to ban him then gave up. This is where is got nasty. I finally could not take it anymore and started CRYING on cam! I sat there in front of the cam with tears running down my face as well as mumbling and begging for him to leave me alone. I know this was very unprofessional that I let something like that get to me, but I just couldn't handle it! Anyway, about a few seconds into the nervous breakdown, someone took me EXCLUSIVE. He told me I didn't even have to undress or play with myself! He just wanted to chat and he told me how important it was to ignore people like that because it will always happen every now and then. He also told me that I was worth more then my rates. You will not believe this, we ended up staying in exclusive for 45 MINUTES!!! That's $180!!!! HE ALSO TIPPED $50 GOLD! WHAT IS THIS GUY LOADED?!? I immediately went back into free chat with a smile on my face and a confident attitude and literally one minute a flock of people from the previous free chat session came into free chat and one of them clicked into premium and immediately almost HALF of everyone followed and started tipping tons of gold.

    This just proves that sometimes the freeloaders can be beneficial.
    Try and use those freeloaders to your advantage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CyberAshley View Post
    I know it's normal to get alot of freeloaders and rude people in free chat. But today was the worst of it for me, and ended the best that it could. I was about 10 minutes into free chat when a member came in my room and called me a bitch. I ignored him. But then, he kept going. He then called me a fucking whore. Instead of banning him, I asked him what his problem was. He told me my prices (3.99/minute) were too high and that he would not pay a prostitute that same amount of money that I was asking for. I told him to fuck off. He then started spamming my room like crazy telling everyone that my private shows are horrible and that they should go watch someone else, when this member has not even been in one of my shows! I then banned him and everything was going fine until about 5 minutes later. Another guy came in the room and started calling me a coke whore because of my rates AGAIN! He didn't spam but he told me that the only reason I cam is to support a "cocaine and meth habit." He then left right before I could ban him and started popping in and out of free chat copying and pasting various cuss words into the chat. I spent 5 minutes trying to ban him then gave up. This is where is got nasty. I finally could not take it anymore and started CRYING on cam! I sat there in front of the cam with tears running down my face as well as mumbling and begging for him to leave me alone. I know this was very unprofessional that I let something like that get to me, but I just couldn't handle it! Anyway, about a few seconds into the nervous breakdown, someone took me EXCLUSIVE. He told me I didn't even have to undress or play with myself! He just wanted to chat and he told me how important it was to ignore people like that because it will always happen every now and then. He also told me that I was worth more then my rates. You will not believe this, we ended up staying in exclusive for 45 MINUTES!!! That's $180!!!! HE ALSO TIPPED $50 GOLD! WHAT IS THIS GUY LOADED?!? I immediately went back into free chat with a smile on my face and a confident attitude and literally one minute a flock of people from the previous free chat session came into free chat and one of them clicked into premium and immediately almost HALF of everyone followed and started tipping tons of gold.

    This just proves that sometimes the freeloaders can be beneficial.
    Try and use those freeloaders to your advantage.
    (((hugs))) sorry you had a shitty day....but yay that you got dollars in the end!!!

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    I know that there are guys with a real crying fetish - I can see why they would pay big money to see it....and I think that this ties into guys wanting to see the "real girl" - you can't fake crying!! On top of that - guys love to feel needed and like big strong white knights! It all ties in, and there is definitely money in it....though I feel like mfc would be the best place to be doing this! Sites that don't have a tip option (or where it isn't common) would be harder to pull it off in free chat...

    Glad that it worked for you!!
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    so nice...good for you

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    I'm glad you had a good end to your day

    My husbands ex-bestfriend was a troll on SM. He would tell us all sorts of stories to which I would laugh (I honestly didn't believe there was any money in this business) but now as a camgirl I don't find it funny. But he taught me a lot about how to protect myself to avoid guys like him haha. I am semi-afraid one day he's going to find me on SM but I'll probably just earn some $$ out of it since he knows me. But... the moral of the story is that he was just a single depressed guy who had nothing better to do than troll the camgirls. He was not ever going to go anywhere with his life and his opinion doesn't matter... and I'm sure every single one of those trolls has a similar story.

    Seriously, this guy would hide in his apartment all day and never see daylight. He would only come out at night. He ate hot cheetos and watched porn and trolled camgirls. Then he would complain about how awful his life was to my husband but refused to do anything about it.

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    This is really ironic but as I was typing that last bit I got a troll on skype who is trying to bother me but I'm just saying stupid things back to him.

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