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    I was watching the , and for those who didn't watch it there was a couple at the end with a younger wife who was deeply upset by her Husband watching porn.

    I found the segment to be a bunch of LOLZ so I made a comment on my Facebook page saying, "Oh god, this Dr. Phil episode kills me. WHY are there Women out there who have deep-rooted issues with Boyf/Husband's watching porn and masturbating. To me it just says that they (Women) have major trust and insecurity issues. LOL."

    My deeply religious cousin left a long-winded response on that status that completely enraged me. (He recently got married a month ago and has an air about him that he's the bee knees on God and relationships)

    "Its saying that a man isn't satisfied with What he has. That he needs more than the one he loves.

    (Hayden), when your in a relationship where your Guy wants you and only you and doesn't need some encouragement from a girl or Guy on a screen. Wouldn't that be better? Can you really believe that a relationship will be its best with porn in it?

    The Bible says that just thinking of your neighbors wife with impure thoughts is the same as adultery. A man maturbating thinking about another woman is the same as cheating. How do you know that he's not imagining another woman when he's with you? I can fully understand why women feel insecure. They should!

    Love is all in or all out. Its body and soul if he can't give both its a waste of time. That's what those women are looking for. I'm ashamed that men treat women like they're just the next way to get off. Women should be protected by a man.

    My wife is my best friend and a gift. Why would I want to give that gift back? When you find a man that will protect your spiritual needs as well as your physical needs you will understand. Real men don't need porn."


    I'm sure everyone has a family member or friend who has thrown religion into a sensitive subject, and I knew it might happen because he's done this before. But it still irritates the hell out of me. My problem is intolerance and acting like the negative act either does not exist entirely or that I'll be damned to hell.


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    That's like all my family. To each their own. But I do believe there is way more evidence that says we came from aliens than there is saying we were magically created by a god we've never met (perhaps "gods" = aliens? )

    If they bother you or harass you, cut them out of your life. If they don't, ignore them or act indifferent. Sorry, but I'm way too selfish to waste any energy on someone I don't care that much for. Most of my immediate family I no longer speak to because they believe if you aren't married with children by like age 20, then you're a lesbian who will be punished for "sinning" LOL

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    No offense I am not religious at all but I kinda agree with the guy

    Real men do not need porn

    he is fucking right man! The vast majority of guys I see on a day by day basis have serious mental issues, illegal or really f-d up fantasies, dark sides, secrets their wives do not know about and the list goes on...these are not real men! They are liars, cheaters, dillusional, cyber bullies and/or sick in the head.

    I am not saying all guys viewing porn fit into this category of course, but in all of my years of camming going on 10 now I have not meet 1 REAL MAN. All of the people i have come fit into the above categories.

    I really do agree with the guy there. A real man does not need porn.

    I would not want my future hubby to be addicted to anything including porn.

    Now when it comes to couples mutually engaging in viewing porn, that is different.

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    ^^^ There is a huge difference between watching porn, and being addicted to it!! Any addiction is a bad thing, but just watching the odd bit of porn is no problem, to my mind.

    I'm definitely aware of people who take this view on porn - that it suggests that you are not satisfied with what you have, and I have to disagree. I like watching porn if I am masturbating (or, more commonly, reading porn). It just helps speed the process along and makes it a little more intense and enjoyable. I think that if you are using porn during sex, then you are probably doing it to intensify the experience...in which case, great! If you are watching it while you are masturbating alone, I'm guessing that your partner is simply not around at the time, and you really want to get off!! No big.

    I do have an interesting personal perspective on this right now....this week, I had a fight with my partner about the fact that we were not having sex, because he said he had a "low sex drive right now, work is so stressful its just killing my sex drive completely" but he was still watching LOADS of porn. That is a different situation, I think....after all, I don't care how much porn my guy watches as long as he is still doing me!! If porn is taking over a relationship, or damaging a relationship, then it is an issue..

    (And if anyone is interested - we actually sorted it out....he basically said that he thinks that maybe the porn is killing his sex drive, but hes watching it because hes just been a cam fanboy for so long that its a bad habit he has got into. So, he's decided that he won't be watching any more until our sex life is back to normal, and then he can add it back in as long as it doesn't start affecting us again.)
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    I only see porn as a problem if the guy is spending everything he has to have it.. I don't see a problem with it but if the guy lies about being sick so he can get out of sex with his lover, loses his job cause he was viewing it at work, forgets to pick up the kids or to even buy food for the house. I see that as a problem.

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    Lol... I'm pretty sure after bedtime prayers are done n dusted, he's tip toeing back downstairs to bash one out (or "rip the heed aff it" as we say in Scotland)

    Maybe the missus was peering over his shoulder and offering advice on what to write at the time, heh.

    I can totally understand your anger though, hun. It's frustrating when trying to debate with extremely narrow minded people. No matter how well you make your point and back up your arguments, it will always be pointless when the other party is utterly closed minded

    Pfft send him to redtube, I say!

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    Isn't the idea of what a "real man" is completely subjective anyway?

    I know my SO watches porn, and I do too. I guess I care more about the women in the porn being women I find attractive too. The reason that's important to me is that it's important that my SO has good tastes in women, and doesn't objectify them, especially because our similar tastes is something we've bonded over. Considering all of the women he's shown me have been crazy alternative and covered in tattoos my first thought is, "Ooh, good find!" as opposed to any jealousy.

    I wouldn't like it, however, if he was watching shitty porn, because I don't like the idea of him getting off on shitty porn. Because that's just insulting. Not all porn is created equal.

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    I'd also like to add that I like to think that both of our porn-viewing habits give us ideas that we can incorporate into our mutual sex life, and that's awesome.

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    Otherwise I am pretty much in agreeance with you in this topic, I understand where you are coming from as well, what personally frustrates me is when people are religious when it is convenient for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cyberstripper View Post
    No offense I am not religious at all but I kinda agree with the guy

    Real men do not need porn
    Men are hard-wired to like variety in addition to younger girls because they are the most fertile. Obviously there are exceptions to the rule, but generally that's the case. Just like how majority of women have that maternal urge to have a baby. Obviously again, there are exceptions, but its generally hard-wired in our genetics.

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    Hell I'm watching porn right now! *fapfapfap*



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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    A man maturbating thinking about another woman is the same as cheating.
    I agree with this. I've known men to dispute it "At least I'm not cheating" but you ask their wives what they think.
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    I'm currently reading "The Ethical Slut", a book about alternative relationships and even they say the it takes two people on the same wavelength to make it work and above all, 100% honesty and open communication, which sadly enough is something many relationships don't have, no matter how ethical, monogamous and hetero they claim to be.


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    Quote Originally Posted by kittykrane View Post
    I'm currently reading "The Ethical Slut", a book about alternative relationships and even they say the it takes two people on the same wavelength to make it work and above all, 100% honesty and open communication, which sadly enough is something many relationships don't have, no matter how ethical, monogamous and hetero they claim to be.
    Agreed completely, but I think a lot of people have unrealistic expectations in the relationship to begin with, and that's ultimately why people cheat. Obviously if you're a man and you promise your new wife that you'll never cheat and she's the only one for you forever, you're probably being unrealistic because at some point, that man will no longer be attracted to that woman. Or at least, he'll be more physically attracted to lots of other women in a couple decades because he's hard-wired to want the young, fertile girl.

    Then, if the perfect opportunity presents itself, he'll likely cheat. Especially because his relationship is no longer new & exciting, and he just may not be getting what he needs anymore. Women, a lot of the time, want all this time and affection, yet they won't have sex with their husbands (that's pretty much equivalent in their eyes). What if your husband only gave you affection once a month? You'd be pissed right? So... yeah. Marriage and relationships take work. If you aren't willing to keep up that work forever, then just don't do it. Or expect it to fail at some point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RebeccaT View Post
    I agree with this. I've known men to dispute it "At least I'm not cheating" but you ask their wives what they think.
    I don't agree with it, I think a man doing something his wife doesn't know about is cheating , I don't understand any other definition of it . If you asked my husbands wife, she would certainly agree with him when he claims he's not cheating ...

    The very definition of 'cheat' is to 'trick' ... If both parties are in the know, no trickery is involved. If my husband tells me he's off to screw another woman and I decide to stay with him , more fool me , but it's not cheating on me , if he sneaks out to fuck another woman , or even take her for a drink - ... Well that's a whole other ball game. Cheating doesn't come down to anything but crossing a line of honesty , and every couple has that line in a different place.

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