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    I just recently started back dancing. At my old club we usually made most of our money on stage. At the new club I work at it's more about private dances n VIP rooms. I'm am not a hustler n I suck at starting a long lasting conversation. I have a friend I go with n she usually brings home a great amount. I've tried using the same things she says, but it just doesn't work for me. N if we go around together I look like her sidekick that never talks. Someone please help me start conversations n know what to say to get these guys to spend their money on me. Any advice is greatly appreciate.

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    Find something the two of you have in common and the conversation will flow more easily. VIP rooms are mainly about the conversation, so you have to show the customer he'll have a good time and the hour (or whatever time interval) isn't going to drag on while you go through predetermined conversation topics. Start off simple, like asking where they're from and what they like to do for fun, and then a common interest should come up - or even one that you can feign if you know enough about the topic! Get the customer to tell you stories and make sure you come off as very interested in them, asking follow up questions and such. Make them feel important and wanted and the money will start flowing!

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    Default Re: I need help with the approach

    In the initial approach, smile a lot when you introduce yourself, shake their hand and tell them it's nice to meet them, and show off your most beautiful feature. Guys always tell me I have great eyes, so I play it up by batting them or giving bedroom eyes or whatever. If your best feature is your legs, for example, sit next to the gentleman and brush your legs on his or caress your leg so that you're drawing attention to yourself there. As far as conversational topics I have a few standard questions I ask (not in this order) that will usually lead to other topics as well...

    1. Are you from around here?
    2. What kind of work do you do?
    3. Have you been here before?
    4. Do you travel much?
    5. What kind of music do you like?
    6. (If you feel comfortable enough and have gauged the situation,) do you have any children?

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    This is something that will get easier the more you do it. Read through Hustle Hut, do some searches for lines to say (I made a list I read through before work), and just keep at it. It will get easier and you will get better.

    You have to find what works for you. I have a friend I travel with who makes crazy money. By working with her I have been able to improve my game, but I can't just copy what she does and expect it to work for me, because we have different looks and personalities. You have to find your own style of hustle that works and feels natural to you. But all of this takes time and practice. The more you do it the faster you'll learn.

    One more thing. Sometimes it matters less what you say, but how you say it. Use your body language to flirt with the guy.

    hot flirting tips 2k13: tell him, “I’m not like other girls,” then pull down the secret zipper at the back of your neck to reveal your true reptilian form


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    Default Re: I need help with the approach

    you are not trying to make a long-lasting conversation. you are trying to sell dances. and there are 38493284932843 threads on how to do this.

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