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Tone it down? Would you end up not enoying the sex? I say don't. If this guy really likes you you two should be able to talk about it and explore all aspects of sex. If the guy is just a lay, forget about it and move on. Bad sex makes for a bad relationship.



If he's never seen something like that before i can understand him acting weird. The best solution would be to get him used to it![]()
"Well done. Here are the test results: You are a horrible person. I'm serious, that's what it says: 'A horrible person.' We weren't even testing for that."
What?! You'd think with all the squirting in porn nowadays that he'd be into it and all proud of himself that he made you get really uncontrollably wet. I don't understand how he could possibly be weirded out/upset by that. Guys make a mess every time they cum. Instead of being worried about his bedsheets he should be patting himself on the damn back!
Gosh men are so weird sometimes, lol.


Why not ask him directly? If he is uncomfortable then he has other issues IMHO




Lol. If he has a problem with you being too wet, what's going to happen when he wakes up in a blood puddle at some point? Sounds like dude has some issues.
Unfortunately vadges do all sorts of interesting things that an adult in a sexual relationship has to deal with.
Would he have this issue if it had been him cumming all over the sheets? Guarantee that's happened before.
Dude has like a sexual holygrail who is excitedly and willingly having sex with him and he is freaked out?
That blows. Maybe he has a stupid Vrigin/Whore complex hangup. Either way there are too many sexual peter pans out there - this scenario sucks no matter how you cut it.
He needs to cuddle up with Our Bodies Ourselves.
Get a mold of his penis as a parting gift?
Wow, the fact that he was actually bothered by that is mindblowing. Sounds like an immature guy who doesn't know much about the female body and doesn't deserve to have you fuck him again.





awww my college boyfriend and i had this exact issue! perfect positioning, enormous puddles (i didn't care but he thought this was some sign from jesus that we were both going to hell)....
and then we both came out of the closet.
I honestly kind of think this guy is just inexperienced or been with some really boring girls in the past.... he's a doctor so I'm surprised that he reacted like he did..... he was all like wow that's the best sex I've ever had.... then he looked at his bed and drove me home.
I feel embarrassed, and I'm pissed at myself for feeling this way. Why can't all men just be sexually open and uninhibited like me?




Play it cool. If it was the best sex he's ever had, he's going to have to man up.
Geez, what an immature dumbass. Hello? Women can ejaculate too! He has to medically know that.
*eye roll* do NOT get all self-conscious. I would just text him a couple days from now with a link to
a site about female ejaculation and ask him if he's over it yet.
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Personally I would have took the sheets as a badge of glory. But that's just me.




hmmm.....
on the one hand, I say play it cool and say, "sure." I mean, you're only hear for a little bit before leaving for a month or longer, right?
On the other hand, I wouldn't want him looking at me weird again, so I'd say, "hey, just to be clear, the fact that I cum harder than other women you've been with isn't going to be an issue, is it? You made me pretty self-conscious last time and I didn't like that."
Then I'd expect him to grovel and then go on and sex it up![]()
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You should not be embarrassed at all, period. You had a normal bodily reaction and if he didn't like it then it's his issue, not yours. A guy that sleeps around needs to be a little tougher than that. Squirters, girls who make weird or loud noises or even cry when they orgasm, crime scene like period sex, and lots of other things all come with the turf. He's being awful squeamish and if he wants to keep sleeping with you then he needs to get over it.
IMHO you should just be straightforward and talk to him, over the phone preferably. Tell him that you enjoyed your time with him too but that the way the night ended was a little weird for you. You should be clear with him that you were a little surprised that he suddenly hustled you on home at 4:30 in the morning and make him explain himself.
What he did was kinda' crappy so I would not let him off of the hook without explaining himself, which will also put him on notice that pushing you out the door in the middle of the night is not acceptable treatment.
Anyway, good luck with this.
Last edited by rickdugan; 10-15-2011 at 05:59 PM.









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I LOVE a woman's juices, in all their forms (prefer cum to blood). If I were a man lucky enough to meet you, (not asking for a date, not even PMing you) and the same happened, I would be spending as much time with you, showering you with care and everything cool. There would be no greater gift you could give me than leaving a big mess! He's an idiot.
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