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    Dizzy Please look at my pictures and tell me the truth

    Hello everyone

    first of all I want to think anyone that took the time to read my post. I must be honest with my self .I am a 38 year old women and am really interested in becoming. I know I have a lot of work ahead of me. I know I must loose weight but please be honest. Look at my two pictures and tell me. Do you think i have a chance if i loose weight or do you truthfully think I m too old at this point and should move on. Any comments that is meant to help me would rally be appreciated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brebre123 View Post
    Hello everyone

    first of all I want to think anyone that took the time to read my post. I must be honest with my self .I am a 38 year old women and am really interested in becoming. I know I have a lot of work ahead of me. I know I must loose weight but please be honest. Look at my two pictures and tell me. Do you think i have a chance if i loose weight or do you truthfully think I m too old at this point and should move on. Any comments that is meant to help me would rally be appreciated.

    thanks

    Your age is less important than your health and fitness.

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    Default Re: Please look at my pictures and tell me the truth

    Anyone can do fine if they have a killer body, that's not the same as just "losing weight" though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Your age is less important than your health and fitness.
    Agreed. There are MANY hot 38 year old (and older) strippers.

    Boils down to how bad do you want it? How motivated to take on the diet and exercise?

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    hey you i guys i have to agree.

    I am totally motivated to diet/exercise and get myself in shape. I know its a work in progress but I'm going to give myself three months and maybe join weight watchers.

    you know its funny, all my life I have been told i was cute. And even with the weight men still approach me so i was really thinking maybe i can get away with a little weight as a stripper. I guess i was wrong

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    Do camming. It pays better at this point, and you don't have to deal with some asshole manager telling you what he thinks you look like. Also you don't have to deal with drunk guys slobbering germs all over you, wearing 7 inch heels all night, and the commute to and from work... I did enjoy stripping ... once
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    You do have some work in front of you. As you work toward your weight loss goals you till be able to work at certain clubs where thickness is appreciated. I have to ask though, why do you want this so badly? It's just that 38 seems like an unusual time to decide to become a dancer so I'm curious as to your motivation ...

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    Age isn't anything but a number as Aaliyah said, but don't lose sight of the reality of the situation. You're competing against nubile barely legal 18 year olds. Not saying you can't do it but you're going to have to bust your ass and work 3x as hard. That means sweating your ass off diet and excercise wise. You're probably gonna have to shell out serious cash for beauty and possibly plastic surgery.

    I'm 26 and I'm at the ripe end of the spectrum. I'm already eyeballing botox and other shit. Ask yourself how badly you want this and if you still want it go for it. Expect the best and prepare for the worst.

    From what I can see you look pretty. What is it you're wanting to do camming or stripping?
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    I am assuming you are in NNJ? There are a few girls on this board from that area. I think you have a very pretty face and amazing smile. Those two things are great because diet can't get you those!

    I do think that Gorean's suggestion is a good one. Camming is wonderful. If you are happy with the way your body is now there are thousands of guys wanting your body type.

    Good luck!

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    Hard to judge a stranger's body based solely on the top half sometimes. I think you should be fine as long as you're comfortable working in a non-fancy club, especially if you've danced in the past and have some feel for how things work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Age isn't anything but a number as Aaliyah said, but don't lose sight of the reality of the situation. You're competing against nubile barely legal 18 year olds. Not saying you can't do it but you're going to have to bust your ass and work 3x as hard. That means sweating your ass off diet and excercise wise. You're probably gonna have to shell out serious cash for beauty and possibly plastic surgery.

    I'm 26 and I'm at the ripe end of the spectrum. I'm already eyeballing botox and other shit. Ask yourself how badly you want this and if you still want it go for it. Expect the best and prepare for the worst.From what I can see you look pretty. What is it you're wanting to do camming or stripping?
    Ugh...I know what you mean. I look around the club and feel OLD.


    Brebre,
    You're pretty enough, but you do need to lose some weight and definetly body fat, and gain some muscle. Tempest really hit it head on. I've been doing this for about 7 years, and have seen girls come and go. You need the looks AND the hustle skills and personality to really make it. There have been drop-dead triple-take gorgous girls drop out of my club/stripping because they couldn't hustle and talk to guys. I've seen other girls that are so-so be top earners. But a too-heavy girl, no matter how great a personality she has, just won't make it in most clubs.
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    Of at least 2 dozen girls I have known beyond their mid 30's only one or 2 of them were happy about the idea of continuing to dance in the future. All of them wished for other opportunities. Its sad to have watched all of them go from not sitting down the entire night to going from table to table trying to drum up business and getting far less dances than they used to. Much like pro athletes your income potental declines with age. Whatever body type you have at 38 there will be a 25yo with the same type with less stretch marks, wrinkles, a fresher face, and more energy.

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    OP: Go for it but just be aware that this business is all about near perfection and you are constantly being scrutinized. Thanks to HD and Photoshop men now expect that and accept nothing less.

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    i disagree about you being too old. 38 is not old at all and you do not look old.

    and if you're committed to getting your body into great shape, then do what you need to do so you can do what you want to do.

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    thank you for all that responded.

    Like i said I know I've got alot of work ahead of me. I knew I needed to lose weight after my kids, when i put my pictures on this site I knew complete strangers would tell the truth like it or not. I"m seriously going to start weight watchers this weekend to start the weight loss process. And as far as exercise there is a new pole dancing class that opened near where I work and I think that is a good place to start.


    oh and to KAT W, who ask my why would i want to do this so late in my life. That was an excellent question.

    I've been working in corporate America for over 10 years and always had a "safe and respectable job". there is no real excitement in what I do every day. I always thought that exotic dancing, when done professionally can be very exciting and inspirational. I think when real exotic dancers perform (not poppin your ass or booty shakin) but really working the pole I find it very inspiring.

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    Your face doesn't look your age. Find a good personal trainer and start eating healthy

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    Quote Originally Posted by brebre123 View Post
    oh and to KAT W, who ask my why would i want to do this so late in my life. That was an excellent question.

    I've been working in corporate America for over 10 years and always had a "safe and respectable job". there is no real excitement in what I do every day. I always thought that exotic dancing, when done professionally can be very exciting and inspirational. I think when real exotic dancers perform (not poppin your ass or booty shakin) but really working the pole I find it very inspiring.
    Woot, good for you!

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    Most of the top earners that I know are in their mid 30's and beyond, but they take immaculate care of themselves. I'm talking gym, tanning, plastic surgery the whole 9 yards. Age has nothing to do with it, it's maintaining yourself. I was at another club and saw a 20 year old pudgy doughball chowing down on a greasy ass slice of pizza.
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    Well I think you are GORGEOUS! If you want this so badly then definetely go for it...

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