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    Thumbs up lesson learned: dont shun free requests

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    Last edited by msmochaxx; 10-16-2011 at 11:58 AM.
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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    hopefully you didn't use paypal.....
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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    Dammmmnnnn that's nice!

    I just wish there were a way to know who these guys are without having to give in first.

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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    Yeah hun, I'm happy for ya but please tell me you didn't use paypal.


    ... BTW, them are some niiiiiiice boobies! *stares*

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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    Quote Originally Posted by msmochaxx View Post
    I was sitting in free chat on naked for TWO hours with NO tips an NO prvts whatsoever and Im just talking to the guys sitting down and as usual a bunch of guys kept asking to see my tits and whatnot
    after i told one guy that i dont take demands another guy asks if I could show him my body...
    so I stand up cuz i figure hell im not doing anything else..
    and then he takes me prvt right after i show him my body (i wasnt even naked) once in prvt i ask what he wants to see and he doesnt reply he just ask how im doing, etc...
    then he asks for a show on yahoo and I give him my ID...
    long story short we switched to skype after yahoo and he sent me $100 for sticking my fingers down my throat and showing him a bunch of spit
    the show was longer than I would have liked
    (about an hour and a half total from the time he took me prvt)
    but I neededddd that $100 BAD and he says he wants to "take care of me"...idk how true that is but ive never made $100 in 1 night and especially not from one guy who I could have easily overlooked as a freeloader...

    just wanted to share my excitement lol
    I understand how great this was but why did he need to take you to skype or yahoo when he could have done all the shows right there?

    Also I heard naked was strict about not giving out information to their members. My question now is what if he tells the site you scammed him to get you kicked off will that $100 seem worth it when he could have messed up future chances of you making $20,000?

    Again I'm glad you made $100 in one shot, many guys don't do this but the high for him was more so based on you giving him a personal way of getting a hold of you rather than keeping it on the site. With MFC you can do skype ,yahoo, msn etc because they just don't give a damn, but naked seems hard as nails when their moderators watch everything.

    I mean everything. I even walked away to wash a toy off while in free chat and a moderator closed out my entire session saying " don't leave the cam unattended". Personal info outside of their site being released? I would probably be kicked off for that move.

    If you got away with it then cool, but I would be careful on that site because the guy that wants to pull you off the site generally ends up becoming a problem and you don't want to be blackmailed into doing free shows for some loser because of this.

    Ohh and if you used paypal then there is no way of you knowing he will not refund. He can turn around report the transaction as fake, paypal fines you$500 and also ends up holding the rest of your money. Paypal acct is done. All for his desire to take you off the site.
    Just be careful is all I'm saying.

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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    Glad you were able to make $ when you needed it. When you need money and you suddenly get it - especially after a dry spell is always a relief. I'm not sure Naked's pay schedule but if it ended yesterday - even better to get paid on the same day then.

    I am a total hypocrite about disliking unsolicited advice- so I apologize in advance and put the below in white so it doesnt kill your buzz/you dont want to hear feedback.

    But the lesson isnt pay attention to freechat requests it is to get paid offsite when it is financially beneficial to you and more than you'd get paid on the site. Also that you've set a predetermined time limit you're comfortable with (longer than you hoped sounds as if you didnt tell him it'd only be x amt of time and stuck to it). 80mins on Naked isnt that $2 a min = $160 your cut?

    Hey now you hit the $100 I hope you start to make more and more.

    Non-nude pays a fair amount, often pays quite well, no need to give discounts or be surprised since you're not naked. Sounds like he has a unique fetish and he loved you doing it? Hustle him. When he says he wants to take care of you - define the terms asap.

    I love ya'll - but this & the crying in freechat post being lessons of how freechat can go to your benefit within the same week.... I mean being a coldhearted b!tch pays well, seriously. Even if it is a sneakier form of being a cold-hearted bitch. Some freechat requests are NOT bs, I 100% agree but you own your room, you're expensive sex goddesses, all mortals tremble before you, their money is your money they just don't know it yet, they should thank you for you even allowing them in your presence... you know that kind of thing?

    Not saying this wasnt a helpful occurrence when you needed money - not at all, but it going longer than you liked means next time set your boundaries hard.
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    Amen to the stuff in white text, roast!

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    I appreciate all the good wishes and advice. No I didnt use paypal. and I didnt think about the moderator thing :/
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tsani View Post
    Yeah hun, I'm happy for ya but please tell me you didn't use paypal.


    ... BTW, them are some niiiiiiice boobies! *stares*
    thanx lol 38 G's lol
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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    Roast, you are indeed correct! And I was wondering about the money too...msmocha, I'm thrilled that you made money when you needed it, but $100 for being with a custy for 1.5 HOURS? Dayum. Thats actually less than you would have made on pretty much any site I can think of for just staying on the site for that time...
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Roast, you are indeed correct! And I was wondering about the money too...msmocha, I'm thrilled that you made money when you needed it, but $100 for being with a custy for 1.5 HOURS? Dayum. Thats actually less than you would have made on pretty much any site I can think of for just staying on the site for that time...
    i know. it was my first skype show though so i dont really mind. trial and error. and he said he had a $400 limit on the site or something like that idk i guess he wanted to save his credits *shrugs*
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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    Good job but here are some tips:

    DON'T take the guy off-site for a show. If he wants your YIM/Skype contact, that's fine but tell him to stay in prvt, get the contact, add him and use IMs to type to him there. Tell him he has to VIEW you in prvt and communicate with you via IM. I do this on one of my sites that just has a bad chat format. I will tell guys that I prefer chatting on the IM, as it makes my feed lag, in the show. But I always keep them in the prvt mode. Those $400/credits are MINE and I will make him spend them, as well as make him tip for the chat IDs and communicate off-site.

    Don't be afraid to make him pay twice. Any contact with you off-site, he should be paying for but you can make him stay in prvt-mode for the entirely of the show. $100 (as a decent tip) is good but for 1.5hrs, you probably could have doubled your money if you had made him stay in prvt-mode, as well. You gave him an unnecessary discount, as far as I can tell.

    Don't get so caught up in needing money that you forget that these men are here to pay you on your terms. Don't let them work around the system to get a better deal for themselves, thus cheating you out of extra capital, from the sites. They should be paying a price for A) your time, B ) your contact info and C) access to you through the site that they found you on. Make them pay for all of these things, at once. Not just what they prefer, a la carte.
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    Default Re: lesson learned: dont shun free requests

    You should have made $250 and UP for that skype show.


    I also disagree with no shunning free requests. Dude is 1 in a million...the others really are free loaders hun, and in time you will see.

    I dont know what the hell free is, Thats not in my vocabulary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    You should have made $250 and UP for that skype show.


    I also disagree with no shunning free requests. Dude is 1 in a million...the others really are free loaders hun, and in time you will see.

    I dont know what the hell free is, Thats not in my vocabulary.
    I agree.

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