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    Angry same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    OK ladies, even tho im not a vet stripper, i do know what's etiquette and what not...and i do tip out (dj and bouner and even the front door dude); this club i dance at, they don't take any $ from our dances...so why the FUCK is the bitch DJ bitchin at me about how much i fuckin tip him out??!! excuse the language i rarely cuss; here's the ridiculous story:
    last week i did the most dances...and end of my shift i tipped everyone so and so amount and i tipped DJ $10; i didn't make much only around $300 or so but that's irrelevant. Next night wen i go up to dj to choose my song he asks me am i mad at him n i say no why n then he said oh cuz last nyt i made the most $ and tipped him the least out of all the dancers...at this point i'm taken aback that he even said that to me...so i said oh ok ...and then he went on saying before when the club took $ from dances that would go to dj n whoever etc...but now that club doesn't take anything from OUR lapdances that he doesn't get shit. idk why i didnt say this to him aloud but im thinking WTF RU THE ONE FUCKIN GRINDING AND DANCING FOR DUMBASS FOOLS???? BUT I let it slide
    next night he fuckin said it again; so wen i was checking out the mgr happend to be near so i said aloud to him "ay so how much u want me to tip u" and he said well technically it's 10% and then mgr said "well technically she/dancers dont have to tip u anything" ....i asked another dancer n she even said well on slow nights etc she will tip dj mayb like $5; on busy nights n is she makes like $400+ she will tip like $20 and i know thats the "correct" way and besides who the fuk is dj to fuckin come at me a dancer like that??? wat the fuk did he do for me to even want to tip him shit? and by him saying this shit to me right before i go on stage and at beginning of my shift kinda put me in bad shit mood for most of the nyt; cuz after the first night he said that to me, i been in kinda foul mood didnt make much...wat do u girls think bout this shit situation???

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    Sometimes the actually tipping culture is different from what is officially stated by management - your club is obviously like that since according to the manager, you don't have to tip the DJ fuck all, but other dancers are tipping him every night (yourself included). Based on what the other dancer said, it sounds like you're in line with how much the other girls are tipping, so the DJ doesn't have any right to come at you - unless he's being a big resource in helping you make this money (skipping you on stage so you can go for dances, referring you to customers, whatever), but that doesn't sound to be the case.

    Of course, many DJs have entitlement issues and think they deserve a hefty cut of each girls' profits (and oftentimes, how much people - especially support staff - think a dancer makes is quite often way off) so they go on rampages like this against girls they think they can scare into tipping more.

    I'd say keep tipping how you're tipping unless the DJ starts to fuck with you - ie. messing up your stage rotations, not giving you warning songs, etc., whatever he can do to fuck with your money. If he starts to do that, either go to management (be prepared for this to not do much though or piss him off even more) or start tipping him more. A pissed of DJ can really mess with your earnings, and if that's the case, sometimes it's wiser to considering the "tip" to be more of an insurance payment to prevent that from happening.

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    My dj is mandatory $20 tip a night plus $20 per skip. So many nights where I have given that guy $60-100. I'm the norm too, so there's 20 other girls doing this. He must be rich.

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    i did tell the owner and he said he will talk to him bout it but i said "well i dont want him to know that i told you!" so owner said he will wait a few days so it wont seem like i told...anyways this is just unnecessary bs kiddie drama i shoulda just stuffed a dollar bill in his mouth; and dj doesn't do SHIT to help any dancers make money are u kiddin me??! besides how would he have any pull in referring us to custies etc. oh and that night that i made the most $, i was talkin to a custie and then he fuckin calls me up onstage and i pretty much lost that sale so he is actually helping me NOT make $ cuz i went to the dj booth and asked if he can play one more song before i go up cuz i wasnt ready n then he bitched sayin theres not enuf girls blah blah...

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    this is why i think men who work in strip clubs are pseudo-alpha-male-underachievers. i worked in a club where the dj got a cut from each dance. every dance in the club, he got a percentage. and then was paid hourly by the club. and still expected $15 or more. and because he got a percentage per dance, he knew who was making money, and he would hunt these people down and want 10%.

    this bullshit is why i don't talk to the dj. if it's involuntary, i will give you the bare minimum at the end of the night without any conversation. if it's voluntary, i won't tip out at all. i would be happy to have no music and no dj. i would plug in my ipod and we can listen to obscure elitist indie rock and drink mimosas and not have to scream over led zeppelin and god knows what the fuck else nonsense.

    strip club djs are the worst. sorry yours is giving you bullshit. you might start hunting for a club with better mgmt if they won't tell the dj to stop.

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    Management should just pay the dj and leave it at that. All these other schemes are just bullshit money grabs.
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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    What a jackass. At my old club, we had to pay the DJ a minimum of $6 ($1 per set he played for us) and then we were supposed to tip another dollar per $20 we made after breaking $100. If I had a really good night, and I liked the DJ, I'd tip $10-12 (even if that was technically less than I "owed"). On other nights I tipped $7 or $8 just because I knew other girls would be whining about not being able to make tip-out at all. I know there were a couple girls in my club who would tip the DJ $20, but fuck that. I understood the mandatory $6/$1 per set because that's how much we would be paying the jukebox per set if he wasn't there - fine, the money goes to him instead - but the tip going up depending on what I made is just BS in my mind. It's not like he does anything to help my money. He doesn't point out customers to me or do anything to promote me besides announce my name before and after stage. When the DJ I liked played me good music and was nice to me, I wanted to tip him more to show I appreciated that he listened to my requests and actually gave a slight shit about me. When the DJ I didn't like played crap music and gave me shit for sitting in the DR for a whole ten minutes, I didn't particularly feel like giving him any of my money. Why should I? If they weren't there, I'd be spending $6 on the jukebox. If they listen to my special requests and play good songs that I can't get off the jukebox or make my night more pleasant, fine, I'll tip them. Otherwise, fuck off. What do I have to tip you half my earnings for?

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    dam i am so happy all you guys are in sync with me!!! and idk if wat he told me is true (that allll the other dancers tip him more than me even when they made less than me)... and i think he just tryin to "bully" me cuz whenever he tries to hint or bring it up i don't really stand up for myself as in i don't tell him to fuck off etc...i shouldn't let that jackass get to me and affect/ruin my earnings, mood, etc right! cuz for some reason, after the first night wen i made the most, the next few nights i did half as good or less....theres nothing he can really do/say to fuck w me; he wouldn't/can't dare say somethin on the mic wen calling my name onstage cuz mgmnt will fire him etc.......and he probly talked/talks shit bout me to other dancers but come on, unless she is suckin fuckin his bitchass cock, idk wat dancer would/will agree w him or "be on his side". so ladies how do i not let him get to me next time i go in to work? P.S. I KINDA HAD FEELING THAT HE MYT HAVE DONE THAT TO ME TO RUIN MY MOOD SO I WOULDN'T BE IN WORKING POSITIVE MODE/MOOD IDK FUK ITTTTT

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    Tell the DJ that you don't tip a percentage. I think the $10 and $20 that you mentioned was appropriate. $20 if they are going out of their way or have to change up the rotation somehow.

    I'm glad your manager stepped in when he said ten percent.

    Asking for 10% like that I doubt is even legal.




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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    A tip is a tip not something that needs to be done.

    He says your name and plays your music, that is a normal tip. Now if hes pointing out real wallets to you and telling big spending guys to you I would add some more. If he can't even play the music you pick and can't say your name right or some smartass comment.. one dollar. its a tip to do better if he wants more. Now a complete ass no tip..

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    Default Re: same bitchass DJ tryin to guilt force tipout

    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    Tell the DJ that you don't tip a percentage. I think the $10 and $20 that you mentioned was appropriate. $20 if they are going out of their way or have to change up the rotation somehow.

    I'm glad your manager stepped in when he said ten percent.

    Asking for 10% like that I doubt is even legal.
    Of course it's legal, he could ask for 30% if he wanted to

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