Apologies for the length but I'm pretty worried and could do with some advice.
A couple of weeks ago I had an Arab customer come in who I had not met before. I did a few dances for him and the next night he came back for me and spent 3 hours with me (I was charging hourly). He didn't have any dances, we just sat and chatted, he seemed really nice. He lives in the Middle East but comes to my town a few times a year where he has a holiday home.
He said he knew our waitress and he liked her but I didn't think much of it at the time. He was obviously quite wealthy and had no problem spending money on me whilst at the same time being very polite and to be honest I was quite flattered at getting such a good customer (I'm not generally a top earner) and hoped I could turn him into a regular.
He said he would like to come into the club and see me when he next comes to town at the end of the year. I thought he seemed like a good potential customer so I swapped numbers with him. I have never done this in six years of dancing but I took a chance because I didnt want to lose him to another girl if he came in for me on my night off. I figured as he lives abroad it wasnt too much of an issue.
He sent me a couple of nice enough texts but didnt exactly harrass me. Then he started texting telling me saying he urgently needed to speak to our waitress and could I pass his number onto her. I found it rather bizarre so I didnt say anything to her but he kept on about it. He also said he would like to fly back next month for a week especially to see me.
So last night I passed the message onto her and she told me that back when she used to dance he was her customer and at first he seemed nice and gave a lot of money but that he started following her out of the club and turned up at bars she went to on her nights off etc. She said the doormen had to walk her to her car but he still wasn't deterred. Apparently it got so out of hand that a male friend of hers knocked him out and the police got involved.
She told me that the other day when he came to see me, whilst I was in the toilet he asked to meet her out of work so he could give her money for her daughter as he wanted to treat the child as his ownbut she made excuses.
So basically the one customer I've exchanged numbers with stalked his last dancer. We do look quite similar too. Now I'm really worried, he wants to come back and see me and I need the money, it felt like such easy money too. But I cannot handle any stalkerish behaviour, I live 2 streets away from the club and always walk home.
I feel so stupid for letting someone have my number and for having such poor character judgement especially after so many years in the job.
What should I do? Should I just act like nothing's changed, keep getting paid but be wary or should I end things before they've really begun?



but she made excuses.
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