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    Default Decided to move!

    So due to my boyfriends school situation (he will be starting his Doctorates soon), he narrowed the choices down to his three favorite schools...and needless to say we will be moving by January regardless of which choice he picks.

    Before I met my boyfriend I was always kind of a wanderer. Moved whenever I wanted, lived in various states, always kind of on a whim...but always made it eitherway.

    Me and my boyfriend have been living together for 1 3/4yrs, but we live with other people so it never felt like a place of our own to me. So...

    I'm terribly excited to finally have a place of our own (even if it's a little rink-dink apartment), I'm excited to start our life in a new state/city with one another, have some new adventures in and out of work, and continue with schooling wherever we may go.

    As excited as I am, I'm also nervous. I'm nervous about finding a club wherever we go (and $$$ not being there), I'm nervous about the things I'm excited about (sounds strange, but true)...I'm nervous about the unknown.

    I'm also nervous about finding a new club, a new apartment, the move itself, getting our school situations settled, him finding a job, making sure we end up in a safe area, having $$$, and overall not failing at doing my fair share in making our move and future life in a new place as happy and smooth as possible. I never felt this way when I was a single wanderer, so this is very new to me.

    I know my situation is pretty specific, but has anyone else felt this way about something they've done or gone through? Having the excited/nervous feelings simultaneously? I'm wondering how to take it. I do have a tendency to over analyze everything, but I was curious how some of you have handled something that's made me feel this way.

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    Default Re: Decided to move!

    I get the nervous/excited feeling when anything big happens to me. I already Google Earth-ed the city I'm going to do my study abroad program in this summer, haha. The only way I can make myself feel better is to feel more prepared. In this case, I would research the cities that his top choices are in--the clubs, the safe/unsafe areas, if you'll need public transportation, etc. Saving as much money as you can will probably help with the nerves too.

    Good luck

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