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    Ok girls, what do u do when u have a regular customer who spends a fair amount of money on you, u spend pvts talkin and he declares his love for me and honestly thinks we are gonna be together! Yesterday he asked how i would feel if he moved home nearer to me to be closer to me! (id given him fake location anyway)
    I dont wanna lose him as a customer but running out of things to say to why we can't be together!
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    OMG that has happened to me in a different context. It was nice because he would always buy me gifts/even bought me a car...he'd take me shopping n stuff I guess like a Sugar Daddy or watevs.

    He eventually after about 8 months went completely BROKE and expected me to continue seeing him cuz he was in love 'n thought for some twisted reason that I actually liked him (i guess im a good actor). I felt bad because he had bought me all this stuff and now that he can't pay me I don't want to see him so I just told him straight up... you have your business where u make money, this is my business where I make money..as mean as that sounds im sorry. So ya basically I was 100% honest about where I was at with the whole thing/my feelings(or lack there of lol) and it made me feel better. I do not see him anymore tho because he can't afford to. I had to cut him off.

    Sometimes u gotta cut off those 'super in love' custies. Cuz they turn out creapy. Ive had crazy in love customers follow me home from work before n stuff like that. Gotta keep it at a professional level idk if that helped.

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    Drain him for all he is worth without making promises you cant keep, without leading him on.

    I have been in this situation a few times and recently a new dillusional boy has entered my life, wanting to come "visit me" soon after only having about 4 shows with me lol.

    The crazy part is I have straight up told this dude i am not interested in a relationship or dating or meeting, any of the above, I have told him I am here for NSA online fun only. After I explained this and the guy still mentions meeting......I decided the hell with it I will make all the money I can from him with no remorse...I warned him. I have been upfront and told him the truth, but they will all believe their own lies.

    That is exactly HOW you make money off of this type without leading them on, or making promises you cannot keep to make money. YOU LET THEM BELIEVE THEIR OWN LIES AND DISILLUSIONS. Tell them (MAKE IT VERY CLEAR) that you will NOT MEET THEM, and tell them this ONLY ONCE...ONLY ONE WARNING! A guy seriously intrested in meeting will quickly move on but the dillusional guy will ignore your denial and will continue to try to meet you. From this point on he is believing his own truth. There is nothing you can really do or say to change his mind, anyways, we all know this type. Be warned, these guys do have an expiration date. Eventually they will move on. There are only two ways it will end: either one day he will just disappear and move on to the next poor girl, or after believing their own disillusions for months on end, they may possibly try to take it out on you. However, you did not lead them on, or make promises you could not keep to them, you merely let them believe their own lies and disillusions.
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    eventually most go broke... sad but true, they realize they can't keep you, eventually most fall away, then on to the next. As far as Im concerned they can love me all they want while im on their computer screen. But do not let them into your personal life more than you are willing to handle. you give them an inch they WILL TRY to take a mile!

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    Thank you girls

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    This thread helped me ALOT just now. A recent cam custie was "in love" with me and pressured to meet me. I eluded I would but then the funds stopped and the talk of meeting became serious. I wrote telling him that I'm no longer interested in meeting him except if it's for my entertainment which is ONLY in the club and online. He wrote back that he respects my wishes and wishes to no longer to meet me. Another one bites the dust girls. They all have expiration dates. "love" is always a fantasy when it comes to meeting men in this biz.
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    You are so right. I run through sugar daddies. When they want to get serious, I am SO done. It's all fantasy at the end of the day.....I dont see it as anything real other than the green.
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    i have 1 we never met he has sent me $ in the past but nowadays cant even be on the phone w out him saying i love you, or wanting to make me say i love you to him..its crazy i have no want to be w him he already knows my home situation, yet he talks about if i got pregnant will i keep his kid (mnd u my tubes are tied he keeps forgetting), he is with some1 but im the one he wants to be with like its turning to the point id rather just hang up soon as i think i hear the words i love you..lol


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    ^ LOL omg exactly

    You told the dude your TUBES were TIED...and the dude is asking you to have his BABY....WANTS you to have his baby and you have never even met hahaha.
    I am sorry but this is so fucking hilarious to me. I dont know if I am the truly sick one here..or they are...this guy is utterly dillusional and here I am laughing at the poor dude.

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    I don't care about draining one particular guy for all he's worth, so if at any point they mention meeting, I say nope, not gonna happen. If they say something sneaky, like happened recently, like it would be so nice if I was there with you...just to hold you. I say awww ur sweet, but you know that can't happen.
    I'm married, I have less than zero interest in meeting up and I tell them from the get go and every day there after if they bring it up. If they bring it up and continue to pay me, so much the better. If the money stops...eh, whatever...As Jason from GhostHunters says...On to the next.

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    I have people who are supposedly "in love" with me, and I don't even see a dime from them. Even if they did give me money and stuff, I would just try to make them feel like idiots for even believing in their stupid fantasies. I don't want to get close to these people. This job has a lot of creepy fucks, and I DO NOT WANT to get them to like me all that much. I may sound harsh with them, but they learn to respect/accept it. Unfortunately, some are still attached to me since they like the "go away" kind of girls. I guess you can never win with these creepers.

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    Ugh - these guys can be so frustrating!! I would just ignore all his comments etc about meeting up if you have already said once that you will not do it. As for moving to be closer to you?!?!? I would ask him why he would move closer if he knows that you STILL won't be able to meet up?

    One great line that I used to use in the club was to spin a story about having been "burned before" and so being really wary, and not wanting to be pressured, and not intending to meet up with anyone again because of it, and if he really does "love" you, then he'll understand that you are not willing to try it again.

    In any case, once you turn that down flat, either he'll accept it and keep paying, or (and this one is more likely) he'll get offended that you only want him for his money and bugger off. Either way, its better to make it clear (even nicely) rather than risk him turning into an actual scary stalker...

    And next time someone comes along - get everything you can as FAST as you can, before he realises that you don't love him and cuts it off!! lol
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    The 'L' word gets you everywhere......not! I've had this problem before and found its on the increase from men wanting nothing more than a unpaid whore. These guys really must think we women are so stupid and that other guy(s) are pulling the same trick on us. Come on please.
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