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    Default This forum is great, but Im done......

    A while back, someone on this forum, asked a question.. it was something like"
    Are you one of those people who think they know it all, OR do you really need the information from this forum?"... I replied something along the lines of " hey why are u creating drama,, whos gonna say they know it all?"..

    I dont know it all, but for sure I can work without participating in here..
    Ive done fine without forums for a very long time..
    With some (not many) exceptions, most of the questions asked here are common sense and whoever is asking can get their own answer with just a bit of effort..

    But regardless, I have contributed as much as I could
    - I gave advice to other/new models- many times
    - I posted my earnings hoping that would encourage others- many times
    - I explained the way I work ( even took a pic of my setup)

    Did my share of being a contributor...

    But when I have to say something that in my eyes is outrageous/OMG! WTF!/ or just gossip if thats what you wanna call it, I get shut off...
    So its not like we can talk about the good and the bad.. we have to talk only about THE GOOD?
    So what I said WHO the person was?
    This person is PUBLIC anyway!
    It does not matter to them.
    Obviously they will do what they do regardless of my post... or wait a porn star is so sensitive that she's gonna STOP working because of my post here..


    There is a huge difference between slapping someone and hitting them in the head with a baseball bat. While both are considered abuse and battery , the last one is going to put that person in the hospital or may kill them. ( aka my previous thread about the #1 Chathost on Streamate------- versus others models.)
    Huge difference.
    But wait, no, we cant talk about differences in here...
    We cant talk about differences in porn here..
    Nah , its all the same!
    Its hateful to point out the differences...


    Whats hateful is me being called a hater for expressing my opinion.
    wait !! I was a hater because I said what someone does is disgusting?
    Yes Yes this makes alot of sense...
    You can say Im a hater cause you think what I say its wrong but I cant say anything... because Im a hater to begin with/ or Im a hater period?
    And then lots of people agree to that?
    Sometimes I wonder who these people on forums are..


    I just had a revelation..
    Im a terrible person for having the balls to talk about how a porn star is gaping her ass.
    How dare I? Its a secret. No one has to know!

    The craziness of it all...
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    Oh wow! I'm really sorry to hear that you feel this way. I've actually found many of your posts to be incredibly helpful and would be sad to see you go.

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    We are all entitled to our opinion and from what I've seen here, actually encouraged to feel free to speak our minds. What is frowned upon isnt necessarily what someone has to say, its the manner in which they say it.

    If you know you are prone to freak out over what other girls are doing, stop looking. I dont know what you're going through but from what I can see, it's really not that serious. Find your happy place, reserve a booth and have a few seats if necessary. It's gonna be ok.

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    I'm sure you're just venting Friay but I have no idea what you're even referring to. Like, I don't even know the backstory. So yeah, there really is only as much drama as you decide to participate in. I agree, as someone who contributes tips, tricks and industry perspective, I have to step back and divest from this board and its participants.

    So you said something snarky about how a porn star participates in porn? Was that it? I mean, sounds dumb to me.. but whatever. I mean, lots of crazy shit happens in porn. Why would it bother you so much? But hey, if moving off this board is what works for you, then go for it. Buuuut.. really? Are you really that salty about what a porn star (that you may or may not know, personally) does in a porno or chatroom or whatever that she likely got paid to do? Is that it?

    Okay. Whatever.
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    Well we were told already not to use specific names because of all the drama it has caused in the past. Also, I'm sure there's probably some way that specific models can send C&D messages or letters to the forum, and that's a liability no one wants. I don't know if they'd actually do it, but it could happen.

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    ^^

    Yeah, but you don't even have to name names to know that the premise is nonsensical, to begin with. I mean, I personally don't think its a good idea to name names, talk shit or scrutinize the practices of any models/porn stars/entertainers who are not actively participating on the board, for a variety of reasons. Primarily because its tacky to talk about people who aren't present to defend themselves but also because there isn't going to be a consensus on the board about how SW represents itself on behalf of the industry.

    I think "gossiping" about other sex workers, for whatever reason but especially about how they practice their own trade is kind of antithetical about how we're here to have solidarity and support with one another. That's just me, though.
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    Last post on this topic.
    Please , I beg you LOL spend the $10 to see what you NEVER in your wildest dreams thought it was possible on an adult webcam site, where you and me try to compete with 6 inch dildos and 2 fingers in ass.. ( wait can I say ass here or is it rude)
    And then... after its all said and done, come back to this thread and write a post.
    And I promise you this : cross my heart if you dont think I was right I am willing to apologize for saying Jayda from Streamate is at least taking some pain killers.

    To all the freaks out there, go see her!
    She will rock your world..
    You will never look at a woman the same.
    You will also learn anatomy there.
    If you did not know how the lower intestine looks like, trust me you will find out.
    If you are not sure where the ovaries are located, you will find out!

    Sasha Grey's 10 people anal gang bang ?
    Thats like nothing.. thats like a breath of fresh air..

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    Your negativity about this model is amazing to me.

    Read your thread about it and decided not to post a reply.
    But seems you are still on a rant about her.
    You dissed her several times in each posting. Still you are doing that.

    She is NOT breaking any laws. It is her body.

    Wish you all the best,
    Sam

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    I hope you don't go Fridays. I like you a lot and always considered you very level headed from the posts i've read. I get where many of the girls are coming from on that thread, i too think, well if she wants to do that then let her. So long as she's not being forced into it by a studio or pimp etc, then it's her body to wreck if she wants to. But I also understand where you're coming from. It IS horrid and disturbing to watch, and you just wish you could get through and make her understand wtf she's doing to her body. Nothing wrong with sharing your feelings on that.

    No you don't need this forum, but its nice to have it, you have toadmit that. When you have a gripe about something, when you're excited, when you just need to share, or learn, or whatever... you got this place. Don't let a bit of aggro get to you. You know these things blow over and life goes on.

    I hope you stay xx

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    What i realized

    This is hard, cold business, don't take it personally. Nobody is you friend on here, that you can vent to, unless you know them in the real life. Vent to your husband, girlfriends, and me, if we ever get to know each other in real life.

    Most are here to learn about a good site to work on and make money on, or steal some secrets, or they have too much time on their hands.

    I remember , i directed you on this forum, but remember why?

    Looking at other models, is not healthy for myself, so i don't do it anymore. Personally mfc started for me this bad trend. It's natural to be jealous on their earnings, and question yourself, why i'm not good enough.

    I was happiest myself before forums, and knowing who does work, where, and what, and how much, so i'm pretty sure you'll be fine.

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    I've enjoyed alot of your posts also I think it was just the manner of how you expressed how you felt. I've seen some things since starting this business that made me feel like I was about to get sick but as long as it's not hurting anyone..to each their own.
    I think its just that in this line of work we already have so much judgement against us which is why alot of people dont want family/friends to know, and when one of us talks about another using words like "disgusting" it creates alot of defensive feelings.

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    I like to follow the mantra "If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all".

    If you can't POSITIVELY contribute to this forum, then don't post because most of us don't care to read criticism of other entertainers. Maybe there should be a Rant section on this forum where all the haters/drama queens can spew their rants(I sure wont be reading).

    Who cares what other entertainers are doing to make their money? Mind yours and maybe you'll make more and be so happy that you wouldn't care so much what others are doing...

    I wish you all the best and thank you for contributing helpful knowledge in the past. I'm looking forward to reading your posts again when they return to positively contributing to this wonderful community.
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    Long story short...whatever a grown woman decides to do to her body is her choice. She...noone else will have to deal with the repercussions. You saying that it's disgusting, fridays, is only your opinion. I encourage you to not look at it anymore if you find it vile, focus on you, and do your own thing. What that porn star does is not my cup of tea...so I don't watch her. I certainly don't pay to see her. Have I seen things of that nature...yes. It's amazing what you will stumble across on tumblr, but I don't fault her for doing it. She makes her own choices and banks while doing it, and for that, I gotta say good for her.

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    Looking at other models, is not healthy for myself, so i don't do it anymore.

    Omg yes, yes, yes! Exactly..I've been camming for years..looking at girls in the beginning to get tips and ideas or to figure out how the business works is good but in the long run..trust me..it's not good to watch other models. I make good money but when I started checking out other models..I start questioning myself and for some weird reason it gets me down and I tend to make less. I think omg am I good camgirl? Stupid cause im pretty awesome ha! I just stopped looking at other models and did my own thing and money is good again! So, if u ever find yourself doing this..just do u..be the best that u can be..and it will show on cam and you'll make great money

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    Um... I agree with Fridays.

    That's all I will say. PLEASE DON'T KILL ME!

    *ducks for cover*
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    Fridays, there's a difference between expressing your opinion, and verbally bashing someone on a public forum. You really can't express your opinion about someone lacking class with their camming choices, when your attitude itself lacks class. We get shit on enough by the men we entertain, so we should be able to stick together as camgirls and not stoop to assholes levels. I personally wouldn't gape my asshole either, but it ain't fair for me to judge...all of our shit stinks, none of us are above the other.

    That being said, it sucks you'll be leaving because you have been helpful to alot of girls here. Wishing you the best.

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    I'm posting in this thread because it makes me relevant and cool.


    'Suuuuuuuup?

    Thx for showing me who I can funnel all the anal abuse guys to. (clamps ass shut)
    Yes, I'm real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    wait can I say ass here or is it rude


    Don't worry...you won't get in trouble for saying the word "ass" on here...this ain't the ImLive forums (strict!).
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    Friday,

    Please have several seats. I like a majority of your posts, but lately, you have been so negative.

    your post about J.D was insulting, and you know it. If i posted a thread about you right now and picked out what i dont like and call you disgusting im sure you wouldnt like it.

    I know what you where trying to do, get everyone to bash her.

    Problem is, it didnt work.... AT ALL.

    Good luck on your journey out of striperweb...... You may be getting jaded.

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    U know what Fridays, I apologise if you took my reply to your post as a form of attack, it was not.

    However, if you want to voice your opinion, be it on public forums or in public, you are also going to be faced with the consequences of that. Some people will agree, some people will disagree, and some people will agree to disagree.

    That is what it all comes down to. i have been a member of sw for a very long time and I am also very opinionated, and I have never had issues like this. I have been bitched out, told off, and my mistakes blatantly pointed out in front of me, but I learned from those mistakes, and quite frankly dont give a fuck what people think about me. What other people THINK of me will not change the way I THINK.

    So do not let the people who disagree with your opinion run you off of the site. Agree to disagree with them.

    I dont mean this as an insult but if you cant be a big girl and face the consequences of sharing your opinions online, wether the response be good or bad, you maybe should not be on this site, or anywhere online for that matter...people are brutally honest online, and even worse, happy to voice their good/bad/ugly opinions from the safety net of their computer.

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    Now on the other hand..omg such a libra
    Everyone needs to get their panties out of a twist.
    Really, everyone on cam is open for discussion and judgement.
    We all sign up to camsites knowing we will be judged, watched, and discussed. To tell people they can't form opinions and discuss the very people who are putting it out there is against our freedom of speech.

    Fuck that and I will not stand for it! I cant believe how many posts have been closed down in the past few mos, this censorship has got to stop. If two people are arguing, let them have at it I say. Sure the appropriate place is NOT camming connection, so lets have a rant and rave section where we can all speak as we please and argue until we are blue in the face.

    This place has become a internet freakshow lately and it is uncalled for on both ends..the politics and thought of having to be politically correct in every single post in a public forum is rediculous. I am entitled and invited to share my opinions here yet, I now feel I have to watch what I say and if I dont'the big bad boss lady aka moderators are going to BAN me if I dont get in line with the rest of the sheep.

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    ^^^^ she was being really RUDE, BITCHY, INCOSIDERATE.

    What is JD was a member of this site? Would it be okay then ? NO.

    What she did was shameful and HATEFUL.

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    thanks for the last post cyberstripper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    A while back, someone on this forum, asked a question.. it was something like"
    Are you one of those people who think they know it all, OR do you really need the information from this forum?"... I replied something along the lines of " hey why are u creating drama,, whos gonna say they know it all?"..

    I dont know it all, but for sure I can work without participating in here..
    Ive done fine without forums for a very long time..
    With some (not many) exceptions, most of the questions asked here are common sense and whoever is asking can get their own answer with just a bit of effort..

    But regardless, I have contributed as much as I could
    - I gave advice to other/new models- many times
    - I posted my earnings hoping that would encourage others- many times
    - I explained the way I work ( even took a pic of my setup)

    Did my share of being a contributor...

    But when I have to say something that in my eyes is outrageous/OMG! WTF!/ or just gossip if thats what you wanna call it, I get shut off...
    So its not like we can talk about the good and the bad.. we have to talk only about THE GOOD?
    So what I said WHO the person was?
    This person is PUBLIC anyway!
    It does not matter to them.
    Obviously they will do what they do regardless of my post... or wait a porn star is so sensitive that she's gonna STOP working because of my post here..


    There is a huge difference between slapping someone and hitting them in the head with a baseball bat. While both are considered abuse and battery , the last one is going to put that person in the hospital or may kill them. ( aka my previous thread about the #1 Chathost on Streamate------- versus others models.)
    Huge difference.
    But wait, no, we cant talk about differences in here...
    We cant talk about differences in porn here..
    Nah , its all the same!
    Its hateful to point out the differences...


    Whats hateful is me being called a hater for expressing my opinion.
    wait !! I was a hater because I said what someone does is disgusting?
    Yes Yes this makes alot of sense...
    You can say Im a hater cause you think what I say its wrong but I cant say anything... because Im a hater to begin with/ or Im a hater period?
    And then lots of people agree to that?
    Sometimes I wonder who these people on forums are..


    I just had a revelation..
    Im a terrible person for having the balls to talk about how a porn star is gaping her ass.
    How dare I? Its a secret. No one has to know!

    The craziness of it all...


    I love this forum, and I see nothing wrong with vent threads, as long as we aren't putting our fellow cam girls on blast (though, in some cases, it may be necessary). We obviously can't do much venting in our public chat rooms, because the guys won't stick around and listen to our bitching...lol. I don't see anything wrong with venting on this forum. Sometimes it feels good to let it all out, and knowing that your fellow cam girls can relate. But I think we should do it without putting fellow models on blast (unless that model is doing something crazy like stealing our photos and claiming them as her own, etc.). I think we need to use our best judgement when adding new posts to the forum. Refraining from putting other models on blast...not creating five different "How do I raise my MFC camscore?" threads within a half-hour...etc.

    Also, I think every adult needs to learn how to "agree to disagree." I get so tired of seeing Mr./Ms. Know-It-Alls on forums picking fights with people, just because they have different opinions. And then they think saying "I'm just trying to keep it real" makes it all better...lol. Last time I checked, it's possible to "keep it real" without being a straight-up asshole.

    I know it's asking a lot to expect a bunch of women to get along, but let's all just try to get along, mmmkay?

    A very cool SW chick, who I respected, was banned from this forum somewhat recently. Now I'm learning that Fridays is done? Noooooo! I like you, Fridays.....I want you to stay, dammit!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    ^^^^ she was being really RUDE, BITCHY, INCOSIDERATE.

    What is JD was a member of this site? Would it be okay then ? NO.

    What she did was shameful and HATEFUL.
    So this gives others the ok to be hateful/bitchy/rude/inconsiderate to her?

    Seriously???????

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