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    I KNOW THAT SOME OF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO AGREE AND SOME WILL UNDERSTAND SOME WON'T BUT MIND,BE RESPECTFUL.
    First off I work in a mixed club but most clientele is white. We have 12 black girls which is the most the club has ever had in the 10 years it's been open.FYI: ALL OF OUR BLACK GIRLS ARE PRETTY,WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING SPECIAL ABOUT US. They're picky about their black girls they don't want them "too ghetto" Typical stereotype because we have some white girls who are EXTREMELY TOO GHETTO. So I've been there almost a year now,I've always worked in a mixed club so I'm used of the little racial slurs FROM CUSTOMERS,not from the staff...So here's what happened...

    There were at least 4 tables of black guys who LITERALLY just walked in and ordered drinks,our mgr goes to the DJ booth and tells our black DJ stop playing rap/r&b because those black people aren't spending money..now mind you the people literally just got there and didn't even have drinks on their table so I took it as they just didn't want them in there. And it actually hurted the DJs feelings because the way it was said was sort of racial.They didn't leave right away but a white girl was onstage and they "made it rain" on her and they were really respectful. I actually got a few lapdances from some of them.

    I just hate the fact that everybody always thinks black guys won't spend money like the other races or just why even see black & white? Why classify them as a race,we're people just like whites,asians,mexicans,etc etc.
    Now don't get me wrong there are some black guys who will come and NOT spend money,basically being cheap( I know this) BUT at the same time there are whites and other races who do the same. There are black guys who will buy VIPs,lapdances,drinks,etc. I'm just aggravated that this club I'm at is so stuck on color as if we're in the old days.

    Then after they ran out the black people we had the comedian Andy Dick come in with an entourage of 20 people who sat in VIP all night,girls were dancing and didn't even tip a dollar. But yet it's always the black people who won't spend money. Point of the matter is not all BLACK men are the same just like other races,I think it's ignorant for anybody to judge a person because of their skin color. I'm black so I approach everyone not certain races. Never judge a book by its cover.
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    ditto...every race has their cheapos .

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    What's Andy Dick doing in a strip club? I thought he was gay?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spinnerette View Post
    What's Andy Dick doing in a strip club? I thought he was gay?
    Like I said he had at least 20 people men & women,they have a girl who does some good pole tricks and they were filming her or something. He was there last night & Friday.
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    that's really weird about andy dick.

    it is always up to the customer to decide where to spend his money. i've seen the situation you're describing and always thought it was really silly for black customers to stay if they were being made to feel uncomfortable. if i am not treated well somewhere, i take my money elsewhere. if they decide to stay, then they either didn't notice or didn't care.

    it can be uncomfortable to work with management who is openly discriminatory. this industry is largely run by idiots, so keeping that in mind always helps. it will remind you to appreciate the managers who are not bigots or idiots.

    strip clubs are not being managed by business and marketing masterminds. they are being managed by former barbacks and mildly-reformed criminals, so most racial policies have to do with their comfort and don't have anything to do with the bar or the dancers.

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    In my experience. ( 7 years only premier clubs) blacks are my worst custies. Heck my club doesn't even let them in most the time. Lol they almost turned away lil Wayne

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dddallas View Post
    In my experience. ( 7 years only premier clubs) blacks are my worst custies. Heck my club doesn't even let them in most the time. Lol they almost turned away lil Wayne
    well not all blacks are the same,i've came across some white men who are worst. i guess people that see black and white are ignorant
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    this is just another example of stupid management... I swear I don't know why for some reason most strip club managers are retarded...
    BUT this is a common practice.. managers don't want too many black people (unless it's a black club of course) cause they think it scares away the white customers. And it does... unfortunately

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    i see what youre saying. ur manager was definetly judging them and being ignorant.
    but honestly in the 4 years ive been dancing ive probably made $100 off of black guys total. and im black!

    seriously its always "why would i pay to see ur boobs when i can go home and get ###### for free?" or "what time you get off, having u dance on me get me revved up for no reason".

    I avoid going to them unless i have no other options ;( ( I have don't have a big butt, so I already know why they dont like me lol)
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    It does sound like your manager was being racist. However, I would like to point out that I've had dancers of ALL races say that they will not dance for black guys. There are cheapos of every race but it just seems to be the most common when it comes to black guys.

    I don't care to dance for them because most of the time they have that OJ Simpson/Tiger Woods mentality (they only want white girls). The rest of the time they're too cheap to tip girls on stage, will try to rip you off for a lap dance, are dumb enough to think they can walk into a club just to waste your time by trying to get your phone number instead of buying dances.

    Managers need to have enough common sense to be fair about these things and just kick out the cheapos of ALL races. Especially the ones that just sit at the table or stage without tipping anyone all night long. If they just wanna hang out and drink, they can sit their cheap asses in their cars with their beer from 7-11 or at home and look at porn!

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    Hey ya never really know! I had a regular who is black and he rolled in every season and took me to VIP. It certainly does happen. The club certainly cant lose though because they get admission and drink money regardless. Just look for the black dudes with a corporate look. I do far better with them than the young ones in the South. Jersey and NY they are golden! Whether it's corporate money or hood money!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dddallas View Post
    In my experience. ( 7 years only premier clubs) blacks are my worst custies. Heck my club doesn't even let them in most the time. Lol they almost turned away lil Wayne
    Ugh. Where is this club so I can never grace them with my presence..

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    You know , it really sucks these clubs are like that. I feel they should give ALL girls opportunity to audition and if their body is right, and the customers are receptive of them, LET THEM WORK! I have been dancing for years now in mixed clubs and I've dealt with ignorant management who looks down on certain races because of certain stereotypes. Hell, I am actually working on my masters degree and some of those managers turned their nose up like I'm going to come in and sell drugs , or curse people or what ever they attach with black girls. It pisses me off !

    I actually had to check security at my club because they assumed a black guy who happened to be my customer, was filming girls in the club! They pretty much walked to him and said "you need to get your shit, and leave!" when I found out, I was livid because I know how they prejudge black men especially here in the south. The guy had been my customer for about a year now, has a pretty high rank in the military , and sorry to say this , not very attracted to especially slim Caucasian women. Though he tips all the girls on stage who is working hard or who approaches him. He is very respectful and never has tried to violate me in any way. So this was really out of character for him. I pitched a fit and the management told security to back off because they know I only deal with quality customers. What a waste that was! But yes. It happens. I love my country but Hell this is still America , let's not forget what this country was built on.

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    This thread makes me sad. I can say waiting tables (at crapplebee's) more than dancing made me racist, sexist, ageist and any other kind of hater you can think of. If I wasn't stereotyping black 'gangster-looking' people than it was the old Christian ladies on sunday morning! I can tell you that I hated people older than me, younger than me and my own age. HA. What I hated was myself and my job, obviously, but it made me wake up and realize the job is the same for every table, and I could be presently surprised by a lot of people. The kind of people (here I go, stereotyping again) who sit in the dressing room and say "there's no money out there" are the same people who turn on country music so the black people leave because they're "not spending any money." Haters to be ignored!

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    Sad thread. I have seen this myself along with the usual shit when clubs reject a beautiful black girl but hire a fat slob white (usually blonde). While I have had minor problems with some black guys (always younger)I have had problems with other races more, including young white men. The minor problems I had with the younger black men was that they tended not to like me but nothing like the younger white guys who would be so mean. I've had nothing but pleasant experiences with older black men, but so many of them would tell me how white women wouldn't even talk to them and that upset me. To me if a guy had money and wasn't handsy I only cared about money.

    Btw, Andy Dick went to the same college I did and he's an asshole big time. He thinks he's more than he is. The fact that Jon Lovitz (not exactly a tough guy)hit him because of cracks Andy Dick made tells you a lot about him. He's not even a big star but thinks he is.

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    Ok so I had to share my experience from this weekend to prove how you CANNOT judge a book by its cover!

    I was at work typical friday night one of maybe 5 black girls in a majority white semi premier club and I will say I was doing rather well. I got dances from white men, black men, hispanic everybody except the asian guys spent money on me well! So after I got off stage, this super cool kinda young (around 35) had his eye on me. (Of course I had to check him out top see if he would be worth my time because in these areas, the white guys come with as much game and crap as anyone else). So he passed and I eventually took him to VIP after I got the "oh, I dont usually do this, and dances arent my thing, blah blah blah!!"

    So here he goes pulling out a wad of money that I know had to be about 5,000 and peeled me $200 bills. So Im giving him the best dance ever because I KNOW THERE IS MORE WHERE THAT CAME FROM. but for some reason he decided to chill and wait till later.

    Needless to say I didnt get him back in the VIP because he felt I should come home whith him and "make some REAL money." So I said "Have a good night" and kept it moving.

    I was cool untill I got to the bank the next day and tried to deposite the money and the two hundredes he gave me were counterfit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS LIVID! That proves you cannot judge a book by its cover!! Nicely dressed white guy came in and gave out COUNTERFIT MONEY!

    As I stated before, people are ignorant who stereotype people because of race. I dont give a crap what color it comes from, as long as its GREEN!!!!

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    ^ ugh, I hate getting fake bills. I had to make change at a party last saturday for a fifty and I did not care how crass I came across checking the watermark in the spotlight.

    It's weird-- I could say that single black men will spend money, but then there's those that sit there and won't buy anything. And then I could say that men in groups will buy, but then there's those that just want to spit smooth talk to look cool in front of their buddies.

    For the most part, while I do sometimes find Black men harder to sell to, like averaged out over all the men I see, it's only slightly harder than white men and hispanics. I have to agree. It's rare for Asian guys to love on me, BUT-- the fresh-off-the-boaters LOVE me. I think the more established Asian men are....I don't know. I don't think it's even that they're looking for the barbie doll though stereotypically I'm sure that sometimes applies. It's just my bubbly "hey, how are you!" doesn't jibe with their reserve. When I get drunk asians or FOBs, they seem to want to get into the spirit of FUN.

    But yeah, I've had nights made by every ethnicity. The only group I can say that have made my nights crap are civilian women: I HATE when those bitches come in and act like the strip club is the cool place to be on a Friday or Saturday night. I love dancing for women who want dances, but most civilian women just make men spend LESS.


    ugh.

    Can we just return to the days where clubs segregated civilian women from the strip club population?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Spinnerette View Post
    What's Andy Dick doing in a strip club? I thought he was gay?
    Surprisingly, enough I have danced for a good handful of gay men in my career -also made out w/ a drag queen in a gay bar once, too. Gay men seem to love strippers -they just don't wanna fuck us. Hell, one of mine even told me once that he'd prob fuck me he just wouldn't wanna eat the goodie box. Lol! Human sexuality is such a gray area.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dddallas View Post
    In my experience. ( 7 years only premier clubs) blacks are my worst custies. Heck my club doesn't even let them in most the time. Lol they almost turned away lil Wayne

    I treat everyone on an individual bases. Never had too much of a prob w/ black men. In my past experience some of the worst custies I've ever dealt w/ are Asian & Indian. But on the other hand -the best regular I ever had in the past was a Chinese blackjack player & then I currently have a very handsome, adorable Indian boy that likes to come in & spend time w/ me. So just goes to show you
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    Quote Originally Posted by kikidejavu View Post

    seriously its always "why would i pay to see ur boobs when i can go home and get ###### for free?"
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    My response when assholes say this is "Not only do you think I'm a slut, but you think I'm a cheap slut? If you can't even afford to buy me a dance then how would you ever be able to afford taking me to dinner....much less fuck me..? Lol! Your cute."
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    This pisses me off. Sure, I've met a lot of cheap black guys, just like I've met a lot of cheap asians, a fuckload of cheap white guys and cheap guys of every or racial background you can imagine. Same as I've met good spenders of every racial background.

    I do wish managers would act like this towards Ed Hardy wearing douchebags though, those guys really are always cheap and rude as fuck.

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    That's crazy. I've never seen that type of scenerio happen but I've heard of it. I think people should stop judging everyone, period. The race of a person has nothing to do with them spending or not spending money. The one's that want to spend it freely do so and the ones that don't want to, don't. Some of these managers are insane and need to attend a business etiquette class! I'm glad I've dealt with decent managers that only keep their minds on running a successful club and watching out for the girls.
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    I work at a mostly black club right now (customers and dancers) and am caucasian. I have a big ol booty and do a lot of ass tricks/booty clapping, and LOVE hip hop, so I do really well.

    I make TONS of money from african american customers and really don't understand the stereotype. After working at tons of clubs in PDX where they won't play hip hop or rap because it attracts "the wrong crowd" who "dont tip" it blows my mind every time I go on stage and have guys make it rain to Lil Wayne....and I have to take the back exit of stage because I can't fit all my singles in my purse. Also every time some black guy buys all of his friends multiple dances and none of them try to touch me then they all tip me afterwards.

    Younger black guys often beg to take me home or get me to party with them...but then again so do old white guys, hispanic guys, young punk guys....oh wait, EVERY kind of perv that comes to the strip club. In my experience black guys are better for drinks/big stage tips with little to no hassle, while pervy old white businessmen are good for those long VIPs. Young WHITE guys are generally the cheapest, rudest, grabbiest, assholes and I steer clear of them for the most part. Black guys seem to go for me more and also treat me with more respect!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    this is just another example of stupid management... I swear I don't know why for some reason most strip club managers are retarded...
    BUT this is a common practice.. managers don't want too many black people (unless it's a black club of course) cause they think it scares away the white customers. And it does... unfortunately
    This is the other thing Ive heard that I dont agree with...that letting black guys hang out or playing hip hop is "scaring away" the white customers. As I said in my last post I work at a black club in a VERY white city, but it also happens to be next to the airport, and is fairly upscale, so we also get a lot of out of town white businessmen.

    Although most of them comment at some point on the club (Last night an older white guy asked me "Uh I don't want to be offensive, but is this a club like for mostly, uh 'brothers and sisters'?" which made me laugh really hard) They all stay and hang out and spend money and have no problem with it...we even get bikers... Just goes to show. Strip club managers have no fucking clue and most of the time are straight up racist.
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