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    Default How do you want me to improve as mod?

    Many of you ladies have been complaining about how Camming Connection is moderated. So I'd love to hear some suggestions or if you think I'm doing a good job or not. I want to add that I just became a mod in July and I became mod of one of the most difficult sections of SW. I try to stay out of discussions and jump in only when posts are reported or when I feel a thread has taken a very negative turn. I know some of you probably think I'm a big meanie but if or when I've pointed you it's never personal

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    Default Re: How do you want me to improve as mod?

    I think Camming connection is being kept quite well and clean. We have little to no spam, most threads are informative and helpful. We have the odd sporadic "drama" thread but it could be alot worse considering its a forum full of quite strong personalities.

    I personally am quite pleased with the community as a whole and your always there when needed.


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    I wouldn't worry hun you're doing great, at least from what I have seen. I feel the need to point out that in the past there have been a couple of heated threads in which the mods have seemed to take part. I actually can't remember who it was or what thread i was on, but i remember thinking that as mods, you need to step back and be unbiased, just deal with the situation as you see fit, but not be part of it any more than that. I couldn't say if you have ever been guilty of this because like i say, i don't really remember, but maybe something to think of for the future. Anyway i think you're doing a great job so fr. Hope you're enjoying it x

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    Kaia! I think you are doing an awesome job (and I have been pointed)! Mad props for banning Kitana, Bambalina, and telling the Bambalina cult members to quit posting on the board. CC has been so much more peaceful without having to hear about how badly Leo is screwing us and how all big box sites are the devil. Honestly, getting Bambalina and her cult out of here changed CC so much for the better. Thank you so very much!!!!!!!

    Off topic, but is Aria okay? We haven't heard from her in awhile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    Kaia! I think you are doing an awesome job (and I have been pointed)! Mad props for banning Kitana, Bambalina, and telling the Bambalina cult members to quit posting on the board. CC has been so much more peaceful without having to hear about how badly Leo is screwing us and how all big box sites are the devil. Honestly, getting Bambalina and her cult out of here changed CC so much for the better. Thank you so very much!!!!!!!

    Off topic, but is Aria okay? We haven't heard from her in awhile.
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    I think you are doing a great job Kaia. I have been called out and received points in the past, but I deserved it. I never thought twice about it on a personal level towards you. I've had to apologize to a few girls in the past for being over dramatic, but it was just a reminder that I needed to be more focused on applying a more positive attitude into my career. This site has been such a comfort in more ways than one. Camming was a very lonely world before I made this discovery.

    Considering that there are so many strong minded women here, I feel that disagreeing or having a friendly debate about some topics is a good thing. Sometimes a thread gets too heated and out of hand. I think you are doing a good job by preventing the site from turning into a drama site, which would not be a pleasant place to visit at all. Keep up the good work sweetie!

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    I agree you are doing a great job also Kaia
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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    Kaia! I think you are doing an awesome job (and I have been pointed)! Mad props for banning Kitana, Bambalina, and telling the Bambalina cult members to quit posting on the board. CC has been so much more peaceful without having to hear about how badly Leo is screwing us and how all big box sites are the devil. Honestly, getting Bambalina and her cult out of here changed CC so much for the better. Thank you so very much!!!!!!!

    Off topic, but is Aria okay? We haven't heard from her in awhile.
    Wow cult members really? Not being a bit over dramatic there at all. SW is a girls club lol we're all a little catty and clicky and just because you dont like someones views dosnt make them wrong, just different. Personally I think all views (not personal attacks) should be equally accepted and shared. If you don't like something or don't agree with it, just ignore it or state a different opinion in a impartial way (no attacks personal necessary). This is the exact type of comments that should be moderated on SW to promote an open community.

    As for the topic -
    Kaia, modding is a pain. Its hard to be unbiased when making choices on how best to promote a free exchange of ideas. Your doing as well as to be expected.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mistress Anika View Post
    Wow cult members really? Not being a bit over dramatic there at all. SW is a girls club lol we're all a little catty and clicky and just because you dont like someones views dosnt make them wrong, just different. Personally I think all views (not personal attacks) should be equally accepted and shared. If you don't like something or don't agree with it, just ignore it or state a different opinion in a impartial way (no attacks personal necessary). This is the exact type of comments that should be moderated on SW to promote an open community.

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    Kaia, modding is a pain. Its hard to be unbiased when making choices on how best to promote a free exchange of ideas. Your doing as well as to be expected.
    Well I have to agree that the bambalina episode was quite the cult movement. If EVERYONE was not in agreement with her, she had to write multiple book chapters trying to convince everyone to agree with her.

    I was never able to completely read many of her posts because they were so damn long. She claimed she was a cam model but how do you find so much time finding bad shit wrong with the industry if you are making money?

    In my opinion she was dead set on taking down the big sites and monopolizing the industry with her own site, with her own agenda. Like that would ever happen on 10,000.00. Sure we were all welcome to join the "collective cam girl opportunity" as long as we agreed with her. If someone disagreed on something, she was hard set on twisting an arm.

    I was even PM'ed by her at times asking me to defend her on things. Telling me that I should have at least said this/that in her defense. I wasn't happy about that, and well sorry for not chiming in to drop another bomb on every topic she hijacked.

    At first, I really liked her and seen her possiblilities until it just went overboard. It is hard to have respect for someone who can't deal with even the slightest criticism. Things should never be as complicated as she made it.

    Another thing, I was always pressured to be active on her forum.

    So, I don't think LAChloe's post was over dramatic at all.

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    I think you are doing a great job Kaia!


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    Default Re: How do you want me to improve as mod?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mistress Anika View Post
    SW is a girls club lol we're all a little catty and clicky and just because you dont like someones views dosnt make them wrong, just different. Personally I think all views (not personal attacks) should be equally accepted and shared. If you don't like something or don't agree with it, just ignore it or state a different opinion in a impartial way (no attacks personal necessary). This is the exact type of comments that should be moderated on SW to promote an open community.
    Agree.

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    Well I have to agree that the bambalina episode was quite the cult movement. If EVERYONE was not in agreement with her, she had to write multiple book chapters trying to convince everyone to agree with her.

    I was never able to completely read many of her posts because they were so damn long. She claimed she was a cam model but how do you find so much time finding bad shit wrong with the industry if you are making money? ................

    So, I don't think LAChloe's post was over dramatic at all.
    I don't think Bambalina had many followers or 'cult members'. She was her own cult. I agreed with a lot of points that she brought up.. but never saw anyone truly devoted to her or her ideas.
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    Thumbs up from me, Kaiarose. I wrote elsewhere that I had to avoid this part of the forum for awhile because it seemed to be nothing but catty drama 24/7, but it all seems to have calmed down since the law was laid.

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    Wow, thank you girls! In all honesty, I thought I'd come back to this thread and see alot of negativity. I'm guessing that alot of people aren't touching this thread with a ten foot pole though I saw how many times this thread was viewed vs. how many replies it had and it's one helluva difference..lol..
    I appreciate the positive feedback but I can take some constructive crticism as well. I KNOW that not all of you are happy with the way CC is moderated and I'd like to hear from you as well.
    I also want to put my foot down and say that the subject of Bambalina isn't what I want in this thread. Any time her name gets brought up, shit hits the fan.. no bueno.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Wow, thank you girls! In all honesty, I thought I'd come back to this thread and see alot of negativity. I'm guessing that alot of people aren't touching this thread with a ten foot pole though I saw how many times this thread was viewed vs. how many replies it had and it's one helluva difference..lol..
    I appreciate the positive feedback but I can take some constructive crticism as well. I KNOW that not all of you are happy with the way CC is moderated and I'd like to hear from you as well.
    I also want to put my foot down and say that the subject of Bambalina isn't what I want in this thread. Any time her name gets brought up, shit hits the fan.. no bueno.

    I agree with kaia. PLEASE keep banned members' names out of this discussion, otherwise it won't end well.


    And kaia, I think you're doing a great job! I'm sure it's not easy moderating a forum of so many strong-willed, opinionated women (not saying that those are bad traits to have!).
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    Please don't pander to members who want to do the "should I stay or should I go" routine. This is so obnoxious. I see it happening now and it was a huge turn-off on another board I was on. If someone posts an entire thread about how they want to leave the forum, please take them at their word, close the thread and ban them. That should be a standing policy. Anything less leads to these long, drawn out arguments about who likes who the best or "proving" that people want members around. I'm so sick of it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vivianbear View Post
    Please don't pander to members who want to do the "should I stay or should I go" routine. This is so obnoxious. I see it happening now and it was a huge turn-off on another board I was on. If someone posts an entire thread about how they want to leave the forum, please take them at their word, close the thread and ban them. That should be a standing policy. Anything less leads to these long, drawn out arguments about who likes who the best or "proving" that people want members around. I'm so sick of it.
    I can't just ban someone for the sake of banning them. They have to break the forum's rules. I know that alot of girls get burnt out on SW and say and do things that they regret later. I've seen many "I'm leaving" threads but that's not a reason for me to ban someone. As a mod, I'm suppose to keep any and all threads in my section as drama-free as possible. I understand people having opinions and I back out as much as possible but once attacks become personal then I'm going to step in. I wouldn't call what I did "pandering" though. Just trying to keep the peace and "moderate" threads.
    But I thank you for your honest reply

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