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    Yeah. I got drunk last night so headed to the nearest strip club, as a customer this time.
    I had tons of fun and bought dances from most of the girls. Then when I was cooling down a bit, a few men approached me to talk. Well, I felt bad about this because I'm not working here - they should be approaching dancers, not me! Buuuut a few guys offered to buy me dances if they could watch and, how could I say no to that? At the end of the night I got about 10 dances paid for me by two guys.
    So apart from feeling a bit dirty about having men watch me getting groped, I was feeling bad about taking the attention away from dancers - even if they did get money from it.
    So I'm wondering how you'd view this? From a dancer perspective I don't think I'd personally mind - after all, I'd be getting paid...I *did* buy dances for myself at the beginning of the night. *Shrug* What do you girls think?

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    Personally, I'd love it. Other dancers are the best customers, AND if it involves getting dudes' money without actually having to interact with them...God, I might try to get this set up myself

    It kind of seems like what guys do when they buy their girlfriend/wife/friend-who-is-a-girl a dance anyway, just with another dancer. It's not your fault you were a female customer in a club--I'm sure you weren't being obnoxious like SOME women customers are, tragically.

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    I don't think its a big deal. You're making the girls money and you get free dances. Everybody wins. Would I personally do it? No, but I've been dancing five years and I don't care for men gawking at me when I'm off work.

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    As a dancer I'd love it. 10 out of 10 times I'd rather touch another dancer than be groped and slobbered on by some creeper. Sounds like a definite win/win in my opinion. I don't dance for the attention, I dance for the money honey!

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    I didn't like the gawking part much either, but I was too tipsy to really care, hah.
    But I don't think I'll let it happen again - plus it did take away some of the intimacy of the dance.

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    It's not like you were giving lap dances on the floor or anything. Like everyone else is saying, you made those other girls money. If it were me, I'd be happy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarmenAmazing View Post
    As a dancer I'd love it. 10 out of 10 times I'd rather touch another dancer than be groped and slobbered on by some creeper. Sounds like a definite win/win in my opinion. I don't dance for the attention, I dance for the money honey!
    Good point

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    As long as the dancer's are getting paid for it then I don't see it as a problem (guys seem to pursue female patrons in SC's & I've had many guys point, give me money & say, "Will you dance her her etc", so if you can make it work to your advantage as well as the dancer's advantage then that's great!).

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    I wouldnt care. Dancer is getting paid in the end either way. As long as you dont steal customers, start dancing for them, start hustling money out of them, dancers wouldnt care either way. Its a win-win, dancer gets double payment while only dancing to one person.

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    Almost every time I go to the SC, guys give me money to tip girls and pay for dances...unless its just me and my boyfriend, but even then I get offers, but he can be aggro so I won't accept. I don't bring these custies into any private area where they can sit right next to us and drool in close proximity, they are just sitting at whatever table they were already at.

    It makes good sense to me, the girls get more dances than I would be able to afford on my own, the custies get excited and want to buy more dances and tip more. I don't lick or touch or make a spectacle out of myself...and I am excellent at tuning out the creeper eyes staring at me anyway...a nifty little skill I picked up as a stripper myself. So while they may be 4 feet away, they don't even exist when I'm enjoying my dances. Win, win.

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