So yesterday started my second week of work. The club was pretty slow and everyone was just kind of waiting to make their moves. There's several girls that like to pounce on men as soon as they arrive at the bar (I can never see myself doing something like that because I just don't operate that way) Yesterday, this guy came in, went to get his drink from the bar. I was sitting close to the bar and he kept on looking at me while he was waiting for his drink. Before he could finish mixing his drink this girl starts talking to him and asked him if he wanted to sit down with her. He seemed very apprehensive but he eventually sat down with her and in less than two minutes she was taking him for a private dance. When they came back he sat down with her for a minute then he got up walked over to me and asked if we could talk. I ended up getting a dance and a drink out of him.
However, I have three questions; the first question is if he didn't want to sit down with the other girl why didn't he just say so? (because if he really wanted me then we could have had two dances instead of just one. On top of that since I'm so new I feel like I have to stand back and approach the men once they have received their drinks and had some time to adjust to the scenery. I'm still at the stage of letting the other veterans try out the customers before I attempt it. Which I know this isn't good and I'll get better but I've only had six days on the floor).
Second question is how do you ladies respond to men that seem socially awkward? (I was trying my best to make him feel comfortable with talking to me but he just wouldn't say much. He told me he liked black girls and that I was very beautiful but he was so nervous and the last time I checked I was the newbie!!!)
Last but not least, if a customer cant seem to take their eyes off you does this mean that they most likely want to talk to you?



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When I see one(s) that look like their ready for a good time or ones that are really eyeballing me, I'll step up and say silly stuff like "I knew you'd come to see me" "You just came in cause you knew I'd be here tonight, didn't you?" or "Oh, there you are! Where have you been all my life?" I've never picked a bad one and I've always got a few dances from the guys I've done that to.

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