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    Hey! So last night was my second night working at the club, ever! The first night I did okay money wise... I had the new girl thing going on so the regulars were trying to break me in and train me a little. Lol. I ended up going home with 220 after I generously tipped out... Last night I wasnt so lucky... I was having to approach people and to be honest I only approached 3 guys and I just didnt know how to keep the conversation from feeling awkward and just weird. They all weren't interested and I got EXTREMELY discouraged and I actually just left about 2 1/2 hours after working. I want to go back but I just dont know how to build up the 'balls' to go talk to men and get dances...

    Help!!!

    Ive read hustle hut and everything... Maybe you could give me some personal advice or your experience and how you got over it.

    Thanks in advance.

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    If youve read hustle hut then there is really nothing to say. You cant leave after just 2 1/2 hours because sometimes all it takes is one guy to make your night and you dont know what time he will be there so you need to stay till the end. Alot of girls will tell you they make 80% of their money in the last 2-4 hours. I know thats true to me if im there at 7 then most of my money will come between 10-2 which is what time my club closes, most of it comming at 12-2. Ive had nights where i didnt make a dme till 1:30 then ill get a 30 min or hr vip and boom im rich lol. As for building balls i normally ask myself a couple of questions would i rather go home with no money by not trying? this job is also a numbers game because it is essentially a sales job. for every 10 guys you approach 8 will say no and sometimes all you need is 5 guys to make your night so you need to try again and not give up so easily
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    Just keep saying to yourself "What's the worst that will happen if I go ask him? He says no?" Then I ask myself "What do I honestly care if some random guy in a strip club turns me down?"
    The worst that happens is he says No and then your in the same boat you were in 5 minutes before you asked. It takes awhile to get over that hump of not caring about rejection but once you do then guys pick up on that and want to take you.
    Plus if you ask every single guy in the club and they ALL say no then you get to go take a break. However if one says yes then you get money. Win Win.

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    As far as the approach, and what to say, I have a few standard rules for myself.

    1. Always act busy and happy. Sitting on a bar stool or on a couch in the corner alone or with another pouting dancer is not going to make you money. Bustle around the club, talk to the dj, the bartender, walk around with bouncy, tall posture (which coincidentally pushed your titties out lol), and never sit by yourself alone. Smile at everyone, and make it genuine. You're working at a job where you can express yourself in no other way, and talk to people about things you can't in the real world. Relish that.

    2. Make yourself known. As I pass guys, I lightly brush them on their arm or shoulder, and as I pass I turn back and flash a flirty smile. Maybe pay the dj a few bucks to really emphasize when you're going on stage if it's a tough crowd. Get yourself noticed!

    3. If it's busy, stay out on the floor as much as possible so that ^ tons of guys see you!!!

    4. Eye - fuck the shit out of those guys on stage

    When you are talking with a guy there are a few standard questions I ask, most of which can lead to more topics. These are good for when you first meet and during VIP's.

    1. What is your name? (lol)
    2. Are you from around here?
    3. What kind of work do you do? -> do you like it?
    4. Do you play any instruments?
    5. Do you have a favorite sport team/watch sports?
    6. What do you do for fun?
    7. Where is your favorite place to travel?
    8. Do you speak any other languages?
    If so inclined and the mood is appropriate....
    9. What is your favorite sex position?
    10. What are your fantasies?

    You'd be surprised how much this job relies on therapy/human connections. If you can find some sort of common ground with these gentlemen, chances are they'll find lots to love about you. So flaunt your gorgeous body and mind and remember that this is your place of work; your body; and you're in control.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missyqueenb View Post
    You cant leave after just 2 1/2 hours because sometimes all it takes is one guy to make your night and you dont know what time he will be there so you need to stay till the end. Alot of girls will tell you they make 80% of their money in the last 2-4 hours.
    This is always true for me. Last Saturday I made about $350 between 3am and 5:30am. If I had left early I would have really missed out. If you are brand new, there is no harm in telling them that you are new, it would be cute and endearing. Introduce yourself, ask how they are doing, ask if they are from around there and if so, if they have been there before- this would then be a good chance to say that you had just started. If they are out of town, ask what brought them there, etc.

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    How'd it work out? Did you end up staying at the club? I hope you keep pushing through!!

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    Yea but Im not making money Im still trying though

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