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    Oh my god I missed you guys so much!!!! I love you all. I'll never leave again I swear. I am going to start studying to be a nail tech in my spare time (to do part time with camming). And I just spent two days getting RIPPED APART, by vicious bitches on a nail tech forum. I'm actually CRYING right now. It seriously made me appreciate how amazing, loving and supportive you all are even when we get in scraps. I know I've been away being super busy but I swearing I'm NEVER LEAVING AGAIN! it's fucking SCARY out there.

    Camgirls, phone girls, escorts, massage, strippers, peepshow, Dommes, subs. You're my family and I'm NEVER letting you go!
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    glad to have ya back aria! yes i agree, those ppl in the cos industry can be a bit extreme!...and some ppl think we are bad, Lol. they've some got major ego problems. we have our drama but we are all humbled for the most part. glad to have you back home where you belong

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    Awww thanks. Ok so I visited 3 different forums (only joined one) and the chicks were CRAZY. it's like they are so unsure and defensive of their career choice that they lash out at EVERYTHING. if you don't want to use overpriced top name brand products but would like to find something more economical you are SINGLE HANDEDLY ruining the entire industry. If you learned ANYTHING on your own outside of formal training you are a HACK and SHAM and will single HANDEDLY bring about the cosmetic appocolyps.

    As camgirls we have to deal with a lot of intense price undercutting and free shows etc. But we don't lash out with blind fury at everything that we sense as a threat. We also don't consider everything slightly different from the way we do our shows a threat. People worry a out the self esteem and mental health of adult workers but I think they should look into those in the cosmetics industry. Having to dish out $10k for 6 months of school, then watching someone paint there own nails throws them off the deep end. SMH. Sad. Sad.

    I enjoy the fact that it goes against all stereotypes when SEX WORKERS are the most logical, confident, pulled together people I know.

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    aww we love you too, aria!

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    wow - I have a whole new appreciation for my nails - sorry your being subjected to that - welcome back

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    Welcome back hunny

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    Aria- I have been annoying everyone asking, "has anyone heard from Aria?"

    I'm so glad you are back. There is always drama at the salon I go to. I'm not surprised there is drama on a nail tech forum---sorry they were so mean!

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    Awwww thanks Chloe, nice to know I was missed. Seriously I'll take our drama over THEIR drama ANYDAY.

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    Same with the music industry.

    Haven't been playing the violin since you were 3? Don't give a rats ass about RCM level 8? These people will eat you alive on their forums. I started playing violin at 14 and have done my RCMs, but really don't care too much about them. I joined a violin forum a few months back and was attacked by all the people that thought 14 was too old to learn an instrument (or any new skill for that matter)! I am 26 now, means I have been playing for nearly half my life, but according to those people I will be nothing better then mediocre!

    "You just can’t start at 14 and expect to be any good" is what I heard over there. I call BS. You know how many elite classical musicians started playing as an adult? Not 14...I am talking people who started in their late teens/early-mid 20s!!



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    so happy you're back! i missed you. i hope the nail tech thing works out for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Oh my god I missed you guys so much!!!! I love you all. I'll never leave again I swear. I am going to start studying to be a nail tech in my spare time (to do part time with camming). And I just spent two days getting RIPPED APART, by vicious bitches on a nail tech forum. I'm actually CRYING right now. It seriously made me appreciate how amazing, loving and supportive you all are even when we get in scraps. I know I've been away being super busy but I swearing I'm NEVER LEAVING AGAIN! it's fucking SCARY out there.

    Camgirls, phone girls, escorts, massage, strippers, peepshow, Dommes, subs. You're my family and I'm NEVER letting you go!
    *bawls like a baby*
    I know exactly how you feel!! I spent the last 4 or 5 months on a boob job forum after my op and honestly i don't know why i stuck around so long. That forum is FULL of bitches left right and center, and the moderation team don't know their arse from their elbow.

    THIS place on the other hand, ROCKS!

    Welcome back xxx

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    Happy you're back! We've missed youuuuuu!







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    Yay! Welcome back!
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    holy crap yeahh!! i worked as a spa assistant for years and had to work under those people (mostly the massage ppl and esthicians), but i had to do the laundry..which was in the break/lunch room, i had to hear all day gossip - those cosmetic people are dramatic!! and if they don't have something to criticize/judge, they look for it! even towards their clients/behind their backs- i couldn't believe how catty they were, even the men, mostly hair people but a lot of it were the nail techs. and sometimes they would fight with eachother- a lot! about dumb stuff.. i don't know what it is about those people but they can be assholes. i think it discourages a lot of good cosmetologists from pursuing it- it did for my sister from working as a receptionist for them for years- or they do pursue it and become jaded. fucking nuts :S sorry for my rant.. i just am mad too that they yelled at you- jerks! i can believe it though..
    welcome back!
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    Yaaaaay catgirl! Nice to know that this is something other people have noticed and it's not just me. If anything the experience made me determined to NEVER be that catty. I plan on opening an in-home nail spa. The boyfriend said I could totally convert our spare bedroom for it if I wanted (LOVE HIM!), so I won't have to deal with bitchy other people anyway. I've been stuck in bed with cramps for 3 freakin days and I've been figuring out business stuff in between popping pain killers and I HAVN'T EVEN STARTED LEARNING NAILS YET! *eyeroll*. I've designed business cards, brochures, figured out pricing, have 2 different loyalty programs for discounts, have come up with a customer referal program giving them account credit when they refer new customers. And I don't even know how to do nails yet *eyeroll*. And when the time comes will be able to design my own website and it will be BETTER then the sights for the other small spas and nail techs in town.

    *To keep this on topic with camming: Camming and stripperweb have been a better "business" course than any university could have given me. Cam girls are the savviest business women I know. It makes you "business aware" and teaches you in an easy hands on way. I think that for anyone that goes onto either transition out of or have a second part time non camming career, the business skills that you learned in the industry will take you farther out there than you may guess. You'll probably come at it from a very outside the box perspective that will keep you one step ahead.
    Seriously, camming rocks in so many ways.

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    Nice to have you back!!

    I feel ya - I never realized how awesome this forum was until I started looking at others....I thought that maybe I should be going on some forums for tattoo artists (seeing as I am in the industry and nearly finished my apprenticeship). This forum has kept me motivated, helped me feel connected to the industry, and helped me out with so many questions, that it just seems to make sense to find a similar forum for my other industry.

    I am STILL looking for something half decent. Anything even semi-professional (so about actual work, not just about "look at my awesome new ink") seems super negative and incredibly guarded about any "secrets". And they never seem to be posting...some of these forums had less posts in their entire "forum" than I have posted on SW!!!

    This forum is awesome, incredible, and the best one I've ever found...yay SW!!!

    (Also - any tips for finding good forums, or anyone know of any good forums for the body mod world?)
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    Aww, sorry to hear about that experience, Aria!

    When I used to post on the Model Mayhem forums all the time, people used to comment on how bitchy and catty people were on their Stylists forum. SMH.

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