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    LOL figured as much. Guys are gonna be persistent on that shit regardless I figure. Probably the best thing for me to do is if a guy persists after I say no then they get the ban.

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    I have a boytoy and if you get annoying and try to meet me that boytoy is my bf...go away lol. When I was single I did admit I was single though

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    i'm polyamorous and honest about it. i have two partners. i tell them that. usually i say i'm in an open relationship so i don't have to deal with the "poly-what's that" conversation. their reaction is usually...wanna meet? your man is sooooo lucky! and/or want another one? and/or want to marry me? lol.

    i've considered lying and wondered if it would affect my earnings but to me it's just easier to tell the truth. plus because of my actual relationship status the guys who want gfe still feel like they have a chance, and the guys who are more pse-seeking want me to talk about how many men i've slept with while i was in a relationship. lol. either way i don't have to make shit up, which makes me happy.

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    Sometimes I lie and sometimes I tell the truth. I try and guage what answer my custie is looking for and tell them what they want to hear heh

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    I tell them what they want to hear,
    If I feel they want me to be single: im single, married: im married lesbian? i eat pussy like it is my last meal on earth.

    Sometimes it does not work out in my favor, I am a camgirl, not a psychic so I do not always know what they want to hear.

    I also have various imaginary children when it is called for lol.

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    I tell the truth that I'm married, I really do not think it has any effect on the let's meet guys cause they still want it. I don't wear my rings on cam, but if I'm asked I'll show them and tell them the truth why I don't wear them on cam, cause they're all diamonds and a bitch to clean with all the lube, lotion and bodily fluids! The guys always laugh at that.

    Oh, some guys will still really push it about meeting and/or joining for a threesome with me and hubby. My answer to them is asking if they have a death wish? They always LOL at that one too.

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    I say I'm involved but I don't give any details about him or our sex life, and I don't mention that I live with my bf. I don't like talking about my relationship with cam customers.

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    I say I'm single, and that my husband is actually my roommate, and that we're sometimes friends with benefits (so I can use him for b/g or bj vids with real penis in them.) But then, I also say I'm only 20 (mostly because I thought it would be great fun and profit to have a 21st birthday party on MFCs, lol.)

    Also Hi! I'm Olivia and I'm a long-time lurker and first time poster.

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    I've been wondering about this one too....I usually dodge the question with cuteness...for example:

    "Do you have a boyfriend?"
    "Honey, I've got hundred of 'em!"

    If someone really pushes, I will say that I am in a relationship, and that we also play with other people from time to time.

    Neither is a direct lie, and as silly as it is, the longer I spend in this industry, the less I want to lie. (Other than about how much I love the thought of sucking cock....lol)
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    i'm single. & i'm honest about it. personally don't see a reason to not be honest about.

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    I don't know why but I'm really weird about this... when I was single in the SC, I always said I had a bf but it was rocky. That way I could deter the "wanna meet" questions but still keep their hope somewhat alive. Then I started camming right after I got a bf, and the very first time a guy asked me if I had a bf, I was honest about it, but then went on to add my stuff about how he doesn't satisfy me. The guy ate it up and was getting off on the idea of me camming to fulfill my desires that my bf wasn't meeting. I know it was all a lie, but afterwards I felt so bad about it. It was purely a lie, purely fantasy made up for the customer, and it's not like my bf would ever know I said stuff like that, but just saying it made me feel wrong. Ever since then I have to be honest that I have a bf and am happy with him. It's just a weird personal boundary I have that I feel bad if I lie about not having a bf or especially if I say that he isn't a good bf.

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    Think about how many times in the real world a guy hits on you and you tell him your taken and he what backs off... nope ... LoL Single, taken, lesbian lol Its all the same or a horny dude that wants to bang you.

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    I'm always honest about my (relatively open) marriage, and it hasn't hurt my GFE-ing at all... but man, the questions get so exasperating. It's not your business if he knows or not, even if he DOES find it hot, doesn't care, and knows I do it. Just stop wasting my time jeez

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    I always tell guys I have a man and we're swingers (it's basically true). The ones that wanna "meet up" will want to meet up anyway, man or not! I noticed it helps cut down on some of the crazier stalker type guys that think they are going to have a real relationship with you. Even when I was single I said I had a man/woman lol. I can't handle those guys that get way too attached

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    I tell them the truth: that I'm seeing and sleeping with a few guys, but none of them are serious relationships, because I'm too much of a workaholic to develop one right now.

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    Default Do you reveal that you have a boyfriend to viewers?

    First time posting, will be starting cam when I move out in a couple months. I apologize if this thread already exists somewhere, I searched extensively for it.

    I did a few nights dancing in my area, but it's a hostile environment and the money is shit. Every single one of my patrons asked if I had a boyfriend. I don't want to go into how my man "lets me do this", so I just say that I don't. My boyfriend is totally cool with this, because Heather, doesn't have a boyfriend.

    How do you handle that question?

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    They are testing your boundaries. Seeing if they can fuck you for free or money.

    You are an entertainer. You are not performing to find a date or a man, so your personal life is just that Personal & private.

    Flip the question & ask if they are married. How much money do they make a year? If you are in a relationship does that mean they enjoy the table dance more or less?

    Feel free to lie all you want because they lie 24/7 to get what they want from women for the least amount of money, string you along while you meet all their needs emotionally, sexually & ego with denying you the same in return.

    They are there to stroke their egos & cocks if they can manage to talk you into it. NONE have your best interest at heart. So their inquiries are disingenuous from the very beginning. Realize that most of them are older & been at this game a long long time. How you answer only aids them in how to come at you next to get what they want out of you.

    You need to up your hustle & figure out how to answer each one in a way that makes you the most amount of money with giving them as little as you can in return. Once you get on cam you will be hit by 10 to 100 times more of these types. Better tough in up now on how to handle them is the best advice I can give you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    They are testing your boundaries. Seeing if they can fuck you for free or money.

    You are an entertainer. You are not performing to find a date or a man, so your personal life is just that Personal & private.

    Flip the question & ask if they are married. How much money do they make a year? If you are in a relationship does that mean they enjoy the table dance more or less?

    Feel free to lie all you want because they lie 24/7 to get what they want from women for the least amount of money, string you along while you meet all their needs emotionally, sexually & ego with denying you the same in return.

    They are there to stroke their egos & cocks if they can manage to talk you into it. NONE have your best interest at heart. So their inquiries are disingenuous from the very beginning. Realize that most of them are older & been at this game a long long time. How you answer only aids them in how to come at you next to get what they want out of you.

    You need to up your hustle & figure out how to answer each one in a way that makes you the most amount of money with giving them as little as you can in return. Once you get on cam you will be hit by 10 to 100 times more of these types. Better tough in up now on how to handle them is the best advice I can give you.
    Totally THIS! Men IRL say and do what they need to say and do in order to get what they want! So in the virtual world you can only imagine how much more this is magnified! My answer changes depending on who I'm talking to. I play into their fantasy as much as possible to make as much money as I can! You owe them nothing! You are providing a service and they are paying for said service.

    Do you want to know if your mechanic is single? Married? How much he earns? No! And why should you feel entitled to know that information? You shouldn't. It's private. same here. So play them at their own game! Say what needs to be said to get what you want to get! $$$

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    I never thought the answer to this question could become a hustle. Do you have any specific examples in how to make this question an opportunity?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    They are testing your boundaries. Seeing if they can fuck you for free or money.

    You are an entertainer. You are not performing to find a date or a man, so your personal life is just that Personal & private.

    Flip the question & ask if they are married. How much money do they make a year? If you are in a relationship does that mean they enjoy the table dance more or less?

    Feel free to lie all you want because they lie 24/7 to get what they want from women for the least amount of money, string you along while you meet all their needs emotionally, sexually & ego with denying you the same in return.

    They are there to stroke their egos & cocks if they can manage to talk you into it. NONE have your best interest at heart. So their inquiries are disingenuous from the very beginning. Realize that most of them are older & been at this game a long long time. How you answer only aids them in how to come at you next to get what they want out of you.

    You need to up your hustle & figure out how to answer each one in a way that makes you the most amount of money with giving them as little as you can in return. Once you get on cam you will be hit by 10 to 100 times more of these types. Better tough in up now on how to handle them is the best advice I can give you.
    +100!!!
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    I always tell about my bf, never lie, they dont mind, they are always like "lucky guy", take me prvt anyways.

    Never played the game pretend to want them, like them, meet them. Never felt like I needed to do this to get my earnings up either.

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    Its not about feeling the need to - its about playing into their fantasy - that's what we are!

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