Being a noob at camming and having never stripped before I was mystified by "hustle" and spent several hours pouring through the HustleHut section trying to up my game, especially since I was attempting "non-nude."
Below are all the gems that I pulled out and posted in a word doc to remind myself to work on this. Sorry it isn't attributed, but thanks so much to the smart people who took the time to write it. This is all written by strippers, but just replace "dances" with "privates" or whatever and the same things apply.
IMO, it's not as much about which sites to work or which hours, it' more about knowing what to do with the site and the CUSTOMERS once you are there.
I hope this can help some of you make more $ with the traffic you already have.
*When I asked how to respond to "What do I get back there?", I want little cutesy stripper answers, like the ones you ladies are sharing. Because we all know THE SALE DEPENDS ON EMOTION, NOT LOGIC. Customers spend because they can't resist our sexy. It makes no fiscal sense to do so, but they empty their wallets anyway. Once we bring up details before we get our money, we are dead in the water. Keep out logic at all costs. Preserve the fantasy. When a customer says, "What do I get back there?", he's really saying, "I'm interested, I want to go, Give me a reason, no matter how lame, but whatever you do, don't let me think logically."
How to deal with "outrageous" requests
*I think you should be sweet and in character until the point his intentions are obvious and you are ready to walk; then say something that catches him off guard. Be stern and seem offended like "This isn't a whorehouse!" A nicer guy will be a little embarrassed and apologetic and might work out. But if he's a super scumbag he will let you know he is.
* Its effective high pressure sales because you put yourself in a position where its peer pressure that counts and when you're his only peer, and you're in a dominant position, they cave.
Knowing your target. Being able to judge the customer, what he wants, and being able to give it to him. You must be able to provide the fantasy he is looking for. Weather that means being sweet and shy, or bold and commanding. Being able to have good conversation with ANYONE. Find something in common, and be able to hold an intelligent conversation, on any subject.
Being able to get ahold of each guys wallet, meanign, getting him to fall in love with you so that he woudl do whatever you ask. Go to VIp? he says ok. Stay longer in VIP? He says I coudl never leave. Getting a tip? You can hint, and he will take the hint and tip you well, simply because he would do anythign for you.
Giving a guy sooo much fun, and fullfillign whatever fantasy he had in mind, makign him truly believe you had fun as well....and he will give you wahtever you want. ( has nothign to do at all with extras. In thoes situations, a high earner is able to get the guy who whants extra at arms length, she is able to keep him relativly happy with what he is getting, and might I say..able to creativly lead him on, while obeying the rules)
also...an average joe does not have that kind of money, BUT an average joe DOES have that kind of credit. If I guy tells me that he only has x amount of dollars, I ask him if he has good credit. and then I tell him that every month when he pays his credit card off, he can think of me and how lucky he was to experience time with me. because let me tell you, most wives/girlfriends have arms the size of our thighs.
I would tell a guy. "When you pay it off for the next six years you can remember how I talked to you once."
"you want the cheap dance, or the GOOD dance?" Again, say it like you mean it.
custy: $600?! whaaat? are you serious? blah blah blah that's so much money and i doubt it's worth it i mean what do you GET for all that, do people actually pay that....?
me: *smile and casual shrug* Yeah, most guys want at least an hour with me...of course, most of them just want to sit and talk, have some wine, and enjoy my company. you know how it is, they're usually travelling on business, and they just appreciate spending some time relaxing in private with beautiful women..."
So now I've set the stage where the custy accepts that a) the norm is to buy an hourlong CR at least, b) that I'm used to interacting with refined, upscale white-collar men who have money, c) that dropping hundreds on a CR is no big deal, and d) that most guys drop $600 and don't even ask me to dance back there, but instead I'm just used to sipping wine and chatting in the CR! This raises the bar for them...now instead of thinking "omg this price is ridiculous", they feel like they're getting a bargain (or being cheap, compared to what I'm "used to" in the CR, lol) when they buy a half hour and I only spend 1/2 of that time actually dancing.
We had a schpiel that we had to tell the guys before getting started, and at the end I would tell them that we accept tips as I pointed to the tipping place, and went on to say that most guys would tip at least $xx up front because "the better the tip, the better the show".
"You get to spend a whole 15 minutes with me for only $150."
Always downplay the price. Don't lie, but never say anything like, "Yeah I know it's really expensive, but...".
Instead, name the price casually. Never sympathize with them on the price. You have to make them believe that no amount is too much for someone as wonderful as you! Somehow I used to sell $600 HALF HOURS and we didn't even have a full fledged champagne room. It was more like a closed-off dance area. It was because I acted like $600 was chump change. Soon it became truth to some of my customers.
And yes, I'd also use the "intimate" thing. One girl I know says to her custies that there is more room in the VIP to get in better and sexier positions than regular old dances. That seems to work for her.
Some girls will say anything to get his money and get him back there, but you should NEVER make promises you don't intend to keep. It could cause huge problems for you. That kind of hustle is just asking to get busted, ripped off or earn you a really bad reputation at the very least.
1. learn about qualifiers. what qualifies a guy as a big spender and how to spot them.
2. intimate. that's the vip word. we will get naughtier and have a LOT more fun back there (not specifically stating what you will or wont do) than we can have out here.
The word "but" negates everything that comes before it. It's an extremely difficult thing for many people to fix because it's so ingrained in our language, and yet it's extremly poor phrasiology. Once you can master this, you actually will start to see a very subtle difference in your sales performance and even though it's a subtle tweak, it's a very effective one. Using "but" propery can be a very effective tool though. Let me break it down in a simple example:
"It's a very nice outside but I wish it weren't so cloudy" literally means, "I DON'T think it's a nice day outside". The "but" in there negated everything that came before it, so when you say things like this, subconsciously, you interpret things the way it was not intended as spoken. So, replace "but" with "and" and you see, "It's very nice outside AND I wish it weren't so cloudy" means "I DO think it's a nice day outside." See the difference?
Now, in sales, this can be a very powerful tool. Start using "but" when you want something to intentionally fail and "and" when you want it to succeed. Check this out:
"We can go over here and I can dance for you for $20. But, if you'd like to have more fun, a more intimate dance without any other guys watching us etc, we can go over to the VIP room for and I know we'll have a much better time."
I tell them how special they are and how I hate to leave them to dance for "all those other .. guys" because "they make me feel so special and safe", and how much I wished that we could just "go somewhere private and keep getting to know each other better". Sure they are there for a romantic experience, but to most middle aged men, a hot cuddling girl who cares about their hobbies and favorite memories is better than sex. Tell a man he makes you feel safe and he will protect you from everyone else, including that mean old stage rotation.
Old money. Rich people like high culture they want you to be the intelligent, classy princess that needs to be saved from such a lower existence as stripping. Talk sex then art then sex then philosophy then books then sex…..keep the champagne flowing if their drunken $2000 is nothing for the company of a girl like you. When they talk about boat trips and island retreats invite yourself along (you don’t have to actually go)! Be discrete about money and always act money is no obstacle.
I also remember someone saying that girls from families with more money usually did better than girls who came from low-income families because the expectation of money was automatically there. Food for thought.....




Reply With Quote
i love it, but yea HH is great place to learn new techniques and such. i do miss some things about the clubs but i just can't go back there anymore, it is so fucked up around here. but i will never forget where i started that's for sure. good luck on ur new endeavors 2booboo4u!




Bookmarks