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    Ok I could've sworn there was a thread about it but can't find iit. If someone could direct me to it, or if there is not one por favor answer my question =)

    So I got a nice custies that wants to do skype shows and I know paypal is out of the question cause they suck butt when it comes to charge back plus the fact that dirty dirty adult transaction are not allowed through their wholesome family company lol. So I thought payoneer but I read somewhere you have to give too much info to have a guy load it and there is still the risk of charge back. Is this true?? Help please.

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    Risk of chargeback with all methods.

    I would research Payoneer and Alertpay, although more are mentioned I cant remember them at the moment.

    For payoneer they only need your email address. They dont see your name and they only see the last 4 digits of your card number. Safe enough to use.

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    Oh ok coolio. Darn charge backs! Guess I should feel the guys out first to make sure he isn't trying to get a freebie out of me with the chargebacks

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    just make sure you have been paid out already by the partner u signed up thru

    or else the direct payment wont go thru
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    Yeah, with Payoneer the things to know are that you have to use one of the sites that use them to sign up, you can't just go to the Payoneer site and get an account (example: MFC, Streamate, C4S, etc.). And before you can get private loads (paid by credit card from a customer), you have to have had a certain amount of regular loads onto your account from the site you work for (I think it's 2 but I could be wrong). There's an official Payoneer thread in the Other Work section if you need more info. Questions posted there are pretty quickly answered by their customer rep guy.

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    In this case, your Payoneer card can already accept private loads.

    If a member who doesnt have a payoneer card reads this, you must get a card from a partner site (eg mfc/adultwork/streamate etc) and have at least one partner load made to the card. After this you may accept private loads here

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    do guys have to sign up for a payoneer account (like alertpay with some waiting time to get verified which generally is hard to get them to do) to send you a private load? or is just a click & go type of thing?

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    click and go type of thing, no sign up required.

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    I do have a card and have had a lot of loads so that's good news. Thanks ladies =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessJenny View Post
    click and go type of thing, no sign up required.
    perfect, i'm going to look into it

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    But it takes 2 days to actually get the funds in your account right? during which time there is a risk of chargeback..

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissKatie View Post
    But it takes 2 days to actually get the funds in your account right? during which time there is a risk of chargeback..
    bummer. but i have two very trusted subs that i would use it with.

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    Your twitter link is broken hun x

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissKatie View Post
    But it takes 2 days to actually get the funds in your account right? during which time there is a risk of chargeback..
    Unfortunately they can charge back shows up to 6 months later with any of these payment methods and that goes for zombaio, payoneer, alertpay, ccbill, any of them. On one service I had an asshole charge back ten shows over the prior several months and that took my entire paycheck for 2 weeks. (and obviously he was happy with the service or he wouldn't have come back ten times). One advantage of CCBill is that they will permanently block the home address and IP of any chargeback customer so he can't ever do that to you or anyone else again, but still you are out that money.

    That's the case with any payment method that I know of and one big reason I'm getting away from independent shows and sticking with the guaranteed money on sites that protect me from any chargebacks and fraud on the part of the viewer. It's a lesser percentage but it's not going to come back and bite me later financially.


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    Whatever you do stay away from CashX

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    Oh shit Laurie that's terrible. What a bastard!! :/

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    I just cant believe that its so easy for guys to get all these shows for free. Ive heard so many horror stories about charge backs. You gotta be a huge douche to screw girls over like that. Whenever I have someone INSIST on paypal that's and automatic red flag to me. 9/10 times if they are insistent about it they are aware of the charge back policy because I have pointed it out to them and they say something like "trust me baby. I would NEVER do that to you. You can trust me." Its like ok then why cant you just use payoneer or better yet go through SM??? You say you'll give me x amount for x but you refuse to do it through SM says a lot. No thanks. Wasn't born yesterday. Sigh....too bad there isnt anything out there to protect us against charg ebacks if we want to do skype shows

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    Quote Originally Posted by punker barbie View Post
    Whatever you do stay away from CashX
    Whats wrong with Cashx?

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    As far as I know yes amazon gift cards are pretty foolproof as long as they are online and sent to your email. I'd prefer to have cash but at least they can't chargeback those.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ashiepants View Post
    Whats wrong with Cashx?
    I'd like to know also.

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    I don't do private shows because of all the issues with chargebacks. If I do, I will offer them as a "thank you" of sorts for large purchases off my wishlist or a giftcard once I have received it. Its not going to pay the bills (and I don't do it often - usually a wishlist gift gets a pic or something small) but if you are only doing the odd show, it protects from chargebacks.

    I would consider payoneer or altertpay.
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    omg this question is exactly what i was wanting to look up and get more info on. I just had a guy ask me to do a couple POV clips for him, and he said he would pay me through paypal or give me a amazon gift card. But i was thinking to say to him no dude only through SM, come to my free chat tip me my money that i asked, theeeen i will send u my clips. ?..yes no? should i do this or accept a amazon gift card? Im a total NEWBIE to this, 1st time being asked to do a private special short clip.

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    what about greendot moneypaks? are they safe?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CinnimonKiss View Post
    omg this question is exactly what i was wanting to look up and get more info on. I just had a guy ask me to do a couple POV clips for him, and he said he would pay me through paypal or give me a amazon gift card. But i was thinking to say to him no dude only through SM, come to my free chat tip me my money that i asked, theeeen i will send u my clips. ?..yes no? should i do this or accept a amazon gift card? Im a total NEWBIE to this, 1st time being asked to do a private special short clip.
    You can get the full amount via the Amazon giftcard or do SM but your o ly getting 35% so if you charge him say $20 a video your only get $6. If I'm to super strapped for cash I'd take the giftcard. What more you can sell the giftcard on ebay or another site and still get more than if you did the SM cut.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CinnimonKiss View Post
    he said he would pay me through paypal or give me a amazon gift card.

    NEVER accept PayPal, since they're so strict about not allowing adult transactions. Guys need to stop asking models about PayPal and get with some other payment method. It is not worth the risk of having your PayPal account suspended.

    Accept money or Amazon e-gift card (sent to your e-mail address).
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