I want to know what you girls would wear on a first date! I would ask people I know offline, but they're going through break ups and I don't want to be all excited and fussy when they're not feeling too good about men.
We're going to a pretty upmarket chain restaurant/bar... I mean the website makes it look good and the reviews seem good - I looked at them to get an idea on what to wear, even though I think I know what to wear - smart casual.
But... Ifind it so hard to get smart casual right... I've never seen this guy in anything other than jeans and a tee so I have no idea how much he's going to dress up, or if he's going to go really casual. Such a minefield.
I think I look best in a dress... I have a great toned and slim upper body but I'm such a traditional English pear shape with a big arse and very large thighs! I don't feel like I have to hide them from him since he's seen me at work - but at the same time I don't fancy drawing attention to them. I feel hot and voluptous at work, like a 50s siren - but in 'the real world' It's my biggest insecurity. It's so hard to make a dress casual.
I was also thinking of black fitted jeans and heels - but I have a bit of a phobia of jeans with my legs. I'm thinking maybe I splurge on a personal shopper and see if they can find me a pair that doesn't make me look obese.
This sounds so bloody ridiculous considering what I do for a living, I just have huge thighs, genetics or whatever. I know I'm hot. My top half is fabulous, tiny, toned. My bum is brill. I just can't shift the fat off my huge wobbly touching-together thighs.
How do I make the most of what I have? If you managed to read all that, thank you!!




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