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    Ok so I haven't seen any posts on this, sorry if there is one. I basically want to know what's the craziest way(s) a customer has "violated" you at your club. Like getting smacked on the ass, crazy Private Dance or VIP things they did, on the floor, etc.

    The only thing happened to me so far was getting slapped on my ass (especially by women lol), and one guy who blew on me when getting a lapdance. I honestly don't think you can be a dancer without getting tried at one point or another.
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    That's fairly minor.

    Here's mine:
    Guys licking or biting my nipples. DEPSISE that, and normally will end a dance after biting.

    Mexican trying to stick a finger up my ass. why, I dont know.


    Stupid fucking Mexican grabbing my kitty after both in English and Spanish I told him not touching anywheres, and also physically demonstrated NO. I twisted his wrist and grabbed a bouncer to kick his ass out.

    I hate dancing for mexicans....No offense any latinas on here.
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    This happened a few nights ago during a dance - I was bending over shaking my butt in front of a custy, and before I knew it he stuck his tongue out and licked me the whole length of my butt crack. Fucking gross!
    Other than that... kissing/licking my nipples (which I barely notice... I'm just not at all sensitive there) or trying to stick their fingers inside me.
    Men are pigs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    That's fairly minor.

    Here's mine:
    Guys licking or biting my nipples. DEPSISE that, and normally will end a dance after biting.

    Mexican trying to stick a finger up my ass. why, I dont know.


    Stupid fucking Mexican grabbing my kitty after both in English and Spanish I told him not touching anywheres, and also physically demonstrated NO. I twisted his wrist and grabbed a bouncer to kick his ass out.

    I hate dancing for mexicans....No offense any latinas on here.
    Yeah they are very touchy...one time this hispanic guy tried to rub his dollar on me instead of putting it in my garter. SMH. He bit the nipple of another dancer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by snowcake View Post
    This happened a few nights ago during a dance - I was bending over shaking my butt in front of a custy, and before I knew it he stuck his tongue out and licked me the whole length of my butt crack. Fucking gross!
    Other than that... kissing/licking my nipples (which I barely notice... I'm just not at all sensitive there) or trying to stick their fingers inside me.
    Men are pigs.
    Awww that sucks! They are gross.

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    A custy ejaculated on me during a air dance i was giving, i was drunk and i was not facing him which is why i didnt notice him jerking off. I turn around a then he did it on my thigh right when i was about to lean over him. I punched him in the face. Called the boucner and he roughed him up all the while saying "he do you want me to fucking bust my nut in ur face DO YOU?" That was the worse for me i was so disgusted.
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    Had a customer sneak up behind me and stick a finger in my vag when I was on all fours doing a nude show at a bachelor party. Had one whip his dick out and poke me in the thigh with it when my back was turned during a lap dance. It is sad that sexual assault is an inevitable part of this job for most strippers, and it sucks that we really don't have any legal recourse most of the time.

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    I've had all of the above happened but worse of all I was orally raped. I've talked about this in other threads, but basically a customer told me to come with him (I thought he was going to get a dance)and next thing I know he drags me into the bathroom. I tried telling the owner but he didn't believe me. Sadly, the bouncer wasn't there (he normally didn't work Saturdays)and in an irony I was dating him. He ended up getting fired (not because of this)and I quit after this. I later told him what happened and he told me he would have killed the guy had he known. However the guy was one of the biggest regulars at the club and brought in a lot of business. It also wasn't a full time club, only had dancers a few times a week. The club stopped having dancers come in after the club was busted for prostitution and most of the dancers I've since found out were prostitutes. The owner was a sleaze and wanted dancers to have sex with all the customers and when I wouldn't so this he cut my hours.

    Never had it happen before or since, only minor things like guys touching me.

    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    That's fairly minor.

    Here's mine:
    Guys licking or biting my nipples. DEPSISE that, and normally will end a dance after biting.

    Mexican trying to stick a finger up my ass. why, I dont know.


    Stupid fucking Mexican grabbing my kitty after both in English and Spanish I told him not touching anywheres, and also physically demonstrated NO. I twisted his wrist and grabbed a bouncer to kick his ass out.

    I hate dancing for mexicans....No offense any latinas on here.
    I hate to say it but I have had this problems with two groups of guys: Mexicans and Indians. I've rarely had good experiences with either groups.

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    omg girls you have to put up with some serious shit! It puts things in context for me when I complain about time wasters or guys asking me to do weird stuff on cam. Some of you are putting up with sexual abuse!

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    Quote Originally Posted by WModel View Post
    omg girls you have to put up with some serious shit! It puts things in context for me when I complain about time wasters or guys asking me to do weird stuff on cam. Some of you are putting up with sexual abuse!
    Yes, it is. I sometimes come home feeling so...Violated.

    And Kellydancer, you're right. I hate being so...racist? Is that the word? But Idians (from India) and Mexicans really are the worst.
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    I've been called racist myself because I tried to avoid those two groups. Unfortunately I haven't had good experiences with them and when people have bad experiences with a group they avoid them. I'm sure there are great Mexican and Indians but haven't dealt with any. I want to stress before anyone takes it the wrong way, I am talking those from these countries not those of descent who are American. I will admit I've had problems with Indians even in non dancing jobs so I think it's more than just dancing.

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    well, we do have legal recourse, but it can be very scary for dancers to report rape (forcible penetration). but i encourage all of you to if you are ever raped, which includes a lot of what has been posted here.

    it seems like an inevitable part but i truly don't think it has to be. men are very capable of not penetrating women without their consent. if more of them started getting phone calls from a sex crimes detective to let them know that there was currently an investigation going on with them as the only suspect, things could change very, very quickly.

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    In the 9 years I've been dancing -I have had my ass bitten very hard (like broken skin & bruising), my breasts licked & bitten, fingers ran up inside my goodie box, my ass smacked, etc. But by far the worse was when an Indian man grabbed hold of me & sat me on his face & ran his tongue up there (I wasn't able to get away -surprisingly strong).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I've had all of the above happened but worse of all I was orally raped.
    I see that I'm not the only one it's happened to. Very horrifying experience.
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    Men have attempted to finger me.

    I can't count all the times someone has tried to suck/bite my nipples.

    Someone forcefully grabbed my face and tried to make out with me.....ew

    My ass is slapped/pinched pretty much on a regular basis

    But the worst was when a Mexican grabbed me by the hips and used me to jerk off, then ejaculated on me through his boxers; I didn't notice he'd unzipped his pants.

    For this reason, I will not give dances to non-English speaking foreigners. It has nothing to do with their skin color; if they can't understand you, or are pretending not to, it's very difficult to explain the "no touch" rule. I will still approach the table and introduce myself to listen for a clear, American accent. Is it racist? Yes, it's racist as fuck. But I won't dance for someone who will not respect my boundaries.

    I also avoid men in sweat pants, or pants with a stretchy waist, because it takes what, a whole 2 seconds to whip their dick out?

    Sexual assault happens far too often in strip clubs. It does NOT have to be acceptable or expected as the norm. If the bouncers or management won't take you seriously, clean out your locker.
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    Wow, mine isn't half as bad as some of yours, ladies. Some make me really angry and sad!

    Same thing with the licking, biting nipples.

    I don't mind being spanked lightly but one guy took his belt off and spanked me so hard it left a bruise before I slapped him across the face and left the room.

    A mexican pushed me off of him and onto the couch (I was doing a nude dance) and dry humped me - left marks from his insane belt buckle and he left eleven or twelve bite marks on my neck. The manager wasn't watching the cameras so he didn't know to stop the dance, and the guy was too strong.

    An Indian (it was his birthday) wouldn't stop licking me, and when I told him I would stop the dance if he didn't cut it out he held my arms behind my back and licked me all over my neck and chest and arms and armpits. What is it with Indians having an armpit obsession? Seriously, every single one I've danced for!!

    The worst and most recent (about a month ago) was when this guy was resting his hands on my butt (in my club touching is ok as long as its not anywhere the thong covers) and all of a sudden he spread my ass open so fucking far the my asshole ripped! It was probably the most painful experience of my life. I was bleeding for the rest of the night and for almost two weeks I could barely sit down without wincing. Ugh. Scumbags!

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    I was bitten to the blood by a woman from Utah on my ass. Other than that I consider myself lucky. I've never had my nipples licked or bitten- I have had guys open their mouths and lunge but I usually pushed them back by the forehead and said "NO." very loudly and firmly. I've been licked up the side of my face (by women and men) which I find disgusting, and kissed on my neck and shoulder (which makes me feel like puking). I've never been crotch grabbed or fingered though. I attribute that to four things: being tall, being loud and firm, I always danced pretty far away from the guy (no boobs in face, straddling or whatever- I worked in an air dance club for 5ish years and mostly stuck to that in other clubs), and unfortunately- profiling. I flat out refused to dance for any Indian guy after my first year. Mexicans I found easy to control, and I never approached black guys (mostly because I wasn't their type).

    Fuck a bunch of Indian guys. I told one last week that he disgusted me and he should get out before I kicked his little curried ass.

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    This is interesting that others have also had problems with both Indians and Mexicans. I feel better that I'm not alone.

    Quote Originally Posted by Brandi_Lynn View Post
    I see that I'm not the only one it's happened to. Very horrifying experience.
    It really was and it really made me question why I was dancing. The worst for me was when I tried to tell the owner, who I was on good terms with (and who I was one of his faves)and he blew it off. I realize this guy was spending thousands a week in the club and a dancer can be replaced but still. In an irony, though I quit there after this happened, I started getting bachelor party offers from customers he recommended to me. Knowing how the club was, I'm sure these would have been ones where they thought I was an extras girl. Luckily he only had my cell phone number and not my real number.

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    i have two the most recent being almost nothing but the fact was the way it was done. Man wanted a 2/$40 topless dance we got up there and he immediately "took control" grabbing my hips and really thrusting me around, usually i tolerate this but it was like violently. i kinda just readjusted and told him "no,no." so i then turn around and he grabs a big handful of my hair and continues to move me how he wanted. after his two songs i got up and he then wanted to argue about how much he owed me and tried to say i stopped early. The other was a vip 30 min room. this man was very insisting about smelling my pussy and getting close i proceeded to tell him i do not do extras and i keep my panties on as the rules go for private rooms. he kept trying to pull them aside as i was dancing for him. he was very arrogant and didnt think he had to follow to rules each time i told him he needed to keep his hands away from certain areas.

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    The worst things to happen to me since I've been dancing is a guy was so drunk he urinated during a private dance and soaked me and a group of Hell's Angles ripped my panties off in a strictly topless club and tried to finger me while I was on stage.

    Due to the creepers in this world I have learned to resort to physical force when a guy doesn't listen to "no" the first time.

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    Bite their piece of shit dick off. Even if you get blood in your mouth you can always go to the hospital and get post-HIV exposure pills just to be safe (or after any unsafe incident...you don't have to be stuck with HIV after an assault. The hiv anti-retroviral pills help but must be taken within 24 hours or something like that...I forget..but the sooner the better.

    ALso, consider wearing rings that are sharp. They make pretty two-finger fingers (not the ugly jawbreaker ones..they now make very hip cute knuckle rings that can be very feminine) so you can give someone the right punishment and fuck up their face so they'll remember it when they have a nice gash on it whenever they look in the mirror. That's the best self-defense somethings, keeping aware of surroundings, stop dancing for fuckbags who don't listen, stay in shape, keep your heels on during dances (don't have the slip-in stilettos that can fall off), and nice clever pretty and sharp jewelry.
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    I've dealt with some of what been said already, but what REALLY pissed me off once was when I was doing the whole "closeness" thing during a dance and me and this old man were basically forehead to forehead and he kissed me on the lips. My lips are burning just thinking about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    Men have attempted to finger me.

    But the worst was when a Mexican grabbed me by the hips and used me to jerk off, then ejaculated on me through his boxers; I didn't notice he'd unzipped his pants.
    I've noticed a lot of Mexicans do this unzip their pants. I always watch for this now and keep on checking throughout the dance.
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    Mexicans and Cubans are the worst here in Miami. Cubans there are more of, but they're both the type that want to fuck you for a dollar. I had a guy basically finger me thru my thong during a table dance when I first started dancing. I cried about it and felt so violated....... I think if some of the things I read here happened to me now, I would call the police myself.

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    I've been physically assaulted by an indian customer. I asked for a massage (nothing naughty, they are nice to have when you've been doing stage alot of the night) and he left bright red marks on both my arms from rubbing them so hard. i didn''t notice how hard he was grabbing my arms and i couldn't get away.

    i got him banned for good from my club. i even had all the managers try to find him

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