I don't really have many people in my life. A few months ago I moved into a studio flat in North London, I only know a few people in the city and I don't see them regularly. I'm single and lonely. I work for 4 days a week at my current club, 7-4. I don't normally wake up until after 1pm and I only have a few hours before I have to get ready for work. And up till now I haven't been making enough money to spend it on socialising.
Finding friends is hard enough under normal circumstances, how do you do it while stripping? Any suggestions, guys?



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I've only had one job where I actually made real friends outside of work. At my last job, I liked the people there, but they made me so uncomfortable constantly making jokes/derogatory comments about strippers (seriously, it was like every day
) that even when they did talk about going out all together, I would purposely hang in the back and pretend I wasn't listening because I didn't feel comfortable getting too close to them. But anyway, that's just my personal story. I don't know how it is for others, but I understand not really seeing people outside of work/hobbies/whatever. I've never been that way either... Sooo I don't have a whole lot of advice since I'm basically in the same boat. Just wanted to say you're not the only one, and it can be hard for kinda shy people to develop real friends at work/clubs/classes. But that's really the only way - just keep trying until you eventually click with a few of the people. At the very least, some sort of social interaction, even if it's not with "real" friends is still good for you until you find some real good friends.

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