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    I'm still new to camming and was planning on starting this week, been doing research and such. A friend of mine brought up a good point to me about something. On Nov. 11th I'm getting a procedure done for cervical cancer so for 3-4 weeks afterwards NO insertion allowed period. SO my question is, should i start asap to begin making money and do what I can do until my procedure then do none nude shows or at least nothing private like that? Do you think my chances of being more successful would be better if I waited til fully after I'm healed from the procedure to start so Im consistent with specific shows or what? Advice would be appreciated!

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    Personally I think you should wait, although it is your choice of course. You could begin taking photos or clips if you want to do that. Open a C4S store or join Mygurlfund. Then you can have those available when you are healing. Best of luck!
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    I would do some camming while you can, then while you're recovering I would work on maybe making video clips to sell or photos. Obviously don't have any insertion but maybe do just sexy promo/preview type stuff or strip teases. You could maybe film masturbation sessions using a bullet vibe or just clitoral stimulation. Or if you want to cater to the foot fetish crowd, you can do that. I've been on a break from camming for a few months now due to personal reasons but I've been using that time to do photos, shoot videos for sale and build my website and market my twitter. Then when I go back (which will be either tomorrow or next week) I'll be able to hit the ground running.

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    Awesome! Okay that sounds like some really good ideas actually. Being new kinda sucks when your not 100% sure of all the options! but now that you mention it I could just play it off like im doing fully clitoral and stuff. and im totally cool with foot fetish stuff so that could work too. Thanks so much!

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    Just dont insert anything! Sometimes if i cant be arsed with all that i just wont do it.. think of other ways to entertain then xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexyKitten311 View Post
    I'm still new to camming and was planning on starting this week, been doing research and such. A friend of mine brought up a good point to me about something. On Nov. 11th I'm getting a procedure done for cervical cancer so for 3-4 weeks afterwards NO insertion allowed period. SO my question is, should i start asap to begin making money and do what I can do until my procedure then do none nude shows or at least nothing private like that? Do you think my chances of being more successful would be better if I waited til fully after I'm healed from the procedure to start so Im consistent with specific shows or what? Advice would be appreciated!
    I would not start yet. The last thing you want to do is inflame the area, mess up the pH balance, or get an infection before having a major procedure like that. They won't do if you have one of those. All can easily happen camming even if you try your hardest to prevent them.

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    Good point. For those who know what it is its a very extensive LEEP procedure with a cone biopsy ;-; i had put it out of my mind because the first biopsys SUCKKEDDD. haha. Thanks so much for the Advice. What im thinking of doing is recording some videos and such and putting them up on clips for sale, so like suggested I could start making money while im healing so Im not at a total loss for money. I was also considering Night Flirt? I think the phone thing. That might work for the first month too. I had forgotten all about that one as well. With christmas being SO close, I guess im in a serious rush to try to get some money in!

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    I feel your pain. I found out I had HPV last year and was under the impression I would have to have some painful operation. Fortunately it cleared up within a year.

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    Hey hun i know what u mean i did a c-section and wasnt allowed to insert/ personally if u need the money come up with other ways. Im not sure if u do anal. ive noticed most of my customers perfer it. So maybe u cant start out by kinda faking pussy play like just put the tip of ur finger in and just move it fast so they think there getting pussy play or just kinda lightly at a fast paced slap it. to fake it. If you can handle anal do that atleast ull bring in the customers that like that so its money. or right now make videos aand in ur goal show put a set amount of tokens extra to recieve the vid ive been doing this and stickam hasnt said anything my studio said i can. o that way they get a vid of u (if ur ok with that) doing pussy play. u can suck ur toy typically if i do a 5-6min show ill suck my toy for 1min to get it start maybe start out with a strip tease so instead of spending 6mins doing anal(i know after awhile it will hurt of course) u actually only spend about 3 u can also try a small dildo or toy only put the tip in (i did this during my c-section healing) and just move it fast (faking it) to make them believe its going all the way in... just a tought but if ur in need of that money sometimes it best to cope with what u can bring to the table also invest in phone sex u can make a couple hun extra a week doing that and its easier to fake. just my sug i hope this wasnt to forward as i am new to the forum. (btw ladies no i dont fake it im healthy right now i just believe sometimes u have to work with what u got)

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    I know of two top hosts who NEVER ever do insertion and do not even offer it. They never even take off panties and do mostly boobs, lots of tease, some domination type, goddess worship, foot fetish.

    There are a lot of other things you can do. You may or may not make as much as a host who offers more, but sometimes it works in your favor, especially for guys who like domination - foot fetish - goddess worship. You might even end up making more, especially if you get a few whales.

    I see no reason for you to wait. Just don't do any insertion at all and don't worry about the guys who protest - you'll find fans who want what you have to offer.

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    Yeah, I'd say wait for camming. Start off doing clips and videos. You can still do fetish stuff though ... research tons of fetishes and go for that! Look into getting onto Clips4Sale, Southern Charms, or Mygirlfund
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    Default Re: Should I delay due to health concern?

    I would wait.

    That said there are ways of avoiding insertions and faking it. I do it all the time.



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    Quote Originally Posted by SexyKitten311 View Post
    Good point. For those who know what it is its a very extensive LEEP procedure with a cone biopsy ;-; i had put it out of my mind because the first biopsys SUCKKEDDD. haha. Thanks so much for the Advice. What im thinking of doing is recording some videos and such and putting them up on clips for sale, so like suggested I could start making money while im healing so Im not at a total loss for money. I was also considering Night Flirt? I think the phone thing. That might work for the first month too. I had forgotten all about that one as well. With christmas being SO close, I guess im in a serious rush to try to get some money in!
    You've already got some great input on what to do, but I just wanted to say that I had to get a LEEP a few years ago, and the initial biopsies were a lot more uncomfortable/painful/creepy feeling for me than the actual LEEP, even though it was supposed to be the other way around. The biopsies made me dread the actual procedure, but then I was relieved that it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought getting it done. The anesthetic worked awesome so I didn't feel a thing, and the pain afterward was a lot less than I expected. Hope yours is the same way!

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    Your health should always be first, don t risk it to help some horny dude jerk ff and cum, think about you first!
    Make money selling vids or pics like the other girls said.

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    I'm agreeing with everyone who is in favor of clips and video. Although you CAN fake insertion (easily, in fact) and just do anal, non-nude, etc etc, I would get good and rested before the procedure AND after.

    If you are new, its a great time to get to know all the sites, the social media channels, etc. Build up some content now, then spend the recovery time doing research - getting familiar with the site layouts (from both sides, model and custy), rules, payouts, etc. Make sure that everything is approved and set up, and set up social media pages and accounts as well. Then start off on c4s and mgf, sell clips, start promoting yourself on social media, etc.

    Then when you get ON cam when you are all recovered, you will be comfortable with the sites, and payments, be done with all your startup admin, and hopefully have started building some fans.

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    If you're just getting a colposcopy you're good as soon as that black crud goops its way out of you. They say wait longer but, well, I just couldn't help myself. Called my doctor after and though she sighed and said, "really?" she said it would be okay as long as I didn't bust open the wound again, as your cervix doesn't stop bleeding once it starts.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bird of Paradise View Post
    You've already got some great input on what to do, but I just wanted to say that I had to get a LEEP a few years ago, and the initial biopsies were a lot more uncomfortable/painful/creepy feeling for me than the actual LEEP, even though it was supposed to be the other way around. The biopsies made me dread the actual procedure, but then I was relieved that it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought getting it done. The anesthetic worked awesome so I didn't feel a thing, and the pain afterward was a lot less than I expected. Hope yours is the same way!
    Thank you for this! Sorry i havent been on the forum for awhile, I actually had my LEEP done 2 weeks ago, i cried a little at the beginning from severe cramps from the needles going in the cervix and such, they ended up taking off more than planned but overall yes the biopsy was wayy worse! though I was shaking so bad after Leep my muscles were sore for a week. I'm kinda glad I hadnt have pushed it though because last friday, I woke up and started bleeding, well long story short i ended up losing a PINT AND 1/2 of blood! I almost had to have a transfusion.. all from a small crack maybe 1/8 of a inch in the scab. The drs were like what were you doing when this happened?! I was asleep! But it was another ER bill thats bound to go on my credit now! But i'm feeling much better though still no insertion until the beginning of FEB! STILL! But, that bleed out scared me, so I think I may wait or at least start small. I had almost talked myself out of this saying.. oh well Caming isnt for me, I wont make money, but im planning on moving two hours away and need to have funds for a apartment and such, so Im all up for the idea again! haha. Thank you everyone for your advice, and you helped me decide on healing, and some great ideas for even afterwards since I am a noob!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bird of Paradise View Post
    You've already got some great input on what to do, but I just wanted to say that I had to get a LEEP a few years ago, and the initial biopsies were a lot more uncomfortable/painful/creepy feeling for me than the actual LEEP, even though it was supposed to be the other way around. The biopsies made me dread the actual procedure, but then I was relieved that it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought getting it done. The anesthetic worked awesome so I didn't feel a thing, and the pain afterward was a lot less than I expected. Hope yours is the same way!
    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    If you're just getting a colposcopy you're good as soon as that black crud goops its way out of you. They say wait longer but, well, I just couldn't help myself. Called my doctor after and though she sighed and said, "really?" she said it would be okay as long as I didn't bust open the wound again, as your cervix doesn't stop bleeding once it starts.
    This was the 2nd round of the colpolscopy, when they've found the dysplasia cells and they need to remove them. So its a little more invasive than the colpolscopy. It was a bit scarier too! But the Peanutbutter/ coffee grind stuff is now longer coming out so I might start on some stuff. Esp since internet is up again! Please everyone esp if your sexually active look into getting that HPV vaccine if possible. IF you get bad paps GO get it taken care of. This mess really sucks recovering! My cells landed me between severe dysplasia and cancer, which was scary enough, but I also waited 2 years before having it looked at because i was told 'oh its nothing thats common.' So dont wait! *<3 hugs and kisses everyone! <3*

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