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    Hey ladies,

    Just wanted to drop a line to everyone who has been in the Chatzy room over the past month or so.

    I want to tell you how grateful I've been for the chat room and how much it's motivated me to work harder and longer. There have been days when I felt like stopping for the day and I've stayed on 15 minutes longer, an hour longer, two hours longer, or whatever I need to do to make my goal, because people have been motivating to me.

    I've made my goal almost every week since I joined the chat.

    That said, I know that I haven't always been the most positive person. It's something I've been working on. I don't know if anyone noticed, but I took a couple weeks off from the chat room, and since I've come back, I haven't been talking as much, or if I do, it's more about other stuff like knitting or whatever and less about camming, especially if things aren't going well.. Maybe I'll mention if a lot of guys are ripping me off, but I've been keeping it to a minimum. Although I do think we're there to support one another, and I'm not really into being fake about it when I'm not doing well online, I also realize that people mostly want to hear about it when I'm doing well and not when things are slow.

    Since I understand that what goes on in the chat is private, and I really value that privacy, I won't go into specifics like quoting exactly what was said or talking about who said it. I don't want to breech the trust that people have in one another in that room. However, it seems that I may have upset some people on there? I'm not really sure what happened. I always say hello to people and say goodbye when I leave, I encourage people to stay and make money, and I encourage people by telling them that I believe in them. I thought I was being generally polite and nice, and I've never blown up at anyone or told anyone off, or even had harsh words over an issue. As I've said, I know the negativity has been an issue in the past; however, I didn't realize that we were supposed to be completely censoring our camming experience.

    However, there was an incident today that I found upsetting. So I just want to apologize if I actually had anything to do with it. This totally blindsided me. Someone in the chat mentioned a thread on SW (not me) and another girl cleared the chat room w/o asking anyone if she could. Then she told us to "stop it" and she left. She came back a while later, cleared the room again, and told us that we were being negative and we just needed to stop. She basically went off on us. The thing is, we actually weren't being negative. We were actually saying how much we don't like drama. Apparently she didn't read our comments right and just went off the deep end with it.

    She said that everyone has been driven away from that chat because of the negativity (I assume she wasn't only talking about me) but I'm apparently the "main offender," according to her. She said that I'm NOT supportive, that I should go off and be somewhere by myself. Then she told me to fuck off. And then she said "bye bitch" and left. I thought that I did remarkably well not saying something mean during the whole thing, kept my cool. Didn't say anything to provoke her. But I was honestly quite shocked.

    She then came back a while later & cleared the chat. I was actively chatting with someone about something quite positive, but every time either one of us typed a single line, she cleared the chat. After about five minutes of that, she left again.

    I won't go into my opinion on the whole thing. That's not the point of this thread.

    The point is to say that I really appreciate the ladies who have been in that chat room and have been encouraging. I apologize if I have ever made anyone uncomfortable or less than eager to be there. I get PMs all the time on SW thanking me for help, and I've also offered help to people on that chat as well. But according to this chick tonight, I'm NOT helpful or supportive and I'm so very negative that no one wants to talk to me anymore.

    If that's honestly the case, then I sincerely apologize. I admire all of you ladies for the hard work you put in and I appreciate all of the encouragement that you've given me. I certainly would not want to be the cause of people not wanting to come onto the chat. I'm so anti-drama that I would rather be run out by someone acting like this chick tonight than to make others uncomfortable.

    I can't remember the SW usernames of everyone who has been in the chat, otherwise I would've kept this to PMs instead of a thread. So if you want to PM me about it on here, I'd appreciate it. I just mean, if you would prefer that I not come back, it's better to let me know than to just ignore me while I'm on there. We're all adults. I'm really embarrassed to even write this, but I would rather embarrass myself by apologizing to you all than to have you think that I'm just some jerk.

    Anyway, thanks ladies.
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    I love the chat and I've never felt negativity like that from you.
    Id pm you but im on my phone and its not cooperating, you can pm if you want
    -hugs to everyone-
    lol wut?


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    Awww, thanks ladies for the PMs. Apparently this was just blown out of proportion & some individual has a grudge for an unknown reason, and it's not that everyone is mad at me. Well, that's good to know. I was really worried. Of course I don't like upsetting people.

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    i love you jess!!!
    I love chat lets keep it friendly & motivating
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    Leah, I sent you a PM with my Yahoo name.

    Some of us have been chatting on their instead. We don't have a group chat but I'm sure we can figure out something.

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    Ive never used the chat as of yet.....this thread kinda puts me off from using it Ill be honest. Its hard enough to make this work what with guys trying to get everything for free and what not without other girls in the same line of business bitching etc. Im a great believer in if you can help someone then do help them. It costs nothing to be nice. You can be nice without telling other people how to steal your regulars or business. Hope it all gets sorted out for you Jess. By the looks of things no one is blaming you!! Xx

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    ^^ Well, I hope that doesn't stop you from trying it. As I said, it has been very motivational for me.

    Other than this one person, everyone has been great. I don't want to give the impression that there's been a lot of drama, because there hadn't been.

    I think we've encouraged one another to work longer and harder and from what I've heard from a few people, the result has been bigger paychecks.

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    Like jess said, chat is always motivational this was the first ever problem. I love chat

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    I took the rest of the weekend off to get over a bad cough, so I haven't been on in a while. I don't know what happened, but I also know that I like everyone in chat and have always gotten along with everyone great. I feel bad that it hasn't been a good experience for some of you, and I hope that everyone doesn't quit the chat because it has been a real huge help. I could have never toughed out some long and tiring shifts if it weren't for you girls. And I've had some really fun times with a lot of you all too. I will be back on tomorrow if anyone is working too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie-2k11 View Post
    Ive never used the chat as of yet.....this thread kinda puts me off from using it Ill be honest. Its hard enough to make this work what with guys trying to get everything for free and what not without other girls in the same line of business bitching etc. Im a great believer in if you can help someone then do help them. It costs nothing to be nice. You can be nice without telling other people how to steal your regulars or business. Hope it all gets sorted out for you Jess. By the looks of things no one is blaming you!! Xx
    I wasn't aware that any of us use chat to steal regulars or business? If anything, my business has grown since we started the chat.

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    Well I really liked the chat at first but lately no one is in there. Actually every time I log in, there is 0-3 ppl. I also got a random private message saying that if I wanted to ask a question or something, ask it in private, and I have no idea what that was about. I would like to be able to go in the chat and talk to you girls, but 9 times out of 10 no one is in there. I personally kind of feel that deleting of the chat every day or every so often is kind of pointless unless your taking about personal information. I know one day I just was talking to myself, and left messages, like "hey I'm here, and no one else is here", I came back in the room after a little bit and it was deleted. I mean, really?!




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    i really enjoyed the chat as well although lately when i log in not that many people are there (thursday or friday was nice though). and there was one time i logged in and there was only one other person in the room and they didn't talk, they just kept clearing the room after i said hi. it was weird. i know clearing the room if there's been a lot of activity is kind of necessary, otherwise it gets laggy and causes problems, but i don't understand why someone would clear the room repeatedly when there's not an overwhelming amount of activity.

    but anyway, i haven't noticed any negativity or any of this kind of drama there and i've always enjoyed seeing you in the chat, jess.

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    I'm not working tonight but I stopped by to check it out. I think it's a fantastic idea and can't wait to try it next time I'm working. Hopefully I won't be the only one there like you were Sam.lol
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    Rest assure you ladies the person whom kept clearing the room probably won't return. I had become rather irritated by intentional clearing during on going conversations, just plain rude. But the chat is quite alive right now

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    Umm you have always been nice the times I have seen you in chat, but i haven't been in these last couple of days so i really can't comment.

    Whatever issues have been happening though i really hope they're cleared up now, cause I'm comin back tomorrow and i really need you guys!!! I have disliked it in the past when people clear the room too, i understand why sometimes, but it's an annoyance when you're away on a private, come back to catch up on what's been going on and poof, it's all gone!

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    *pokes head in*

    This chat room sounds like just the thing I need to keep me motivated to stay on cam longer. Especially on MFC I tend to get antsy when I get on and don't get many tips...which makes me give up quicker and log off which = no money at all.

    *pokes head back out* lol
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    Hi ladies! i've been away for a while and am sorry about what happened to u jess.i've never had any problems with any of the ladies in the chat,i love yall to bits.i hope watever was wrong has been sorted out.am walking the carpet now but i'll definately be back on Wednesday.take care and c u soon.

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    Yep, looks like it's all good now.

    I was in there last night and there were 5 of us most of the time, so it was a lot better.

    There aren't people in there when I sign on sometimes, but that just means we gotta encourage one another to be there, right? I almost always sign in when I'm on now, and I work this like a full-time job (because it is).

    Yeah, I had no idea the whole chat clearing thing was going on until the other day. I didn't realize so many people had been experiencing it. Those of us left in the chat room ask one another if it's ok to clear the chat. I know it can be annoying to come back and find it cleared, but the problem is that it completely freezes up sometimes to where you can't type, and the only way to fix that is to clear it.

    But the random clearing activity was just one person and it was meant to be aggressive. Leah and I endured that for a while one day and just stuck it out instead of leaving. I think the chick finally got the message.

    We're definately not about drama there. Last night was sooo much fun. I'm already at more than 1/3 of my goal for the week.

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    Hey ladies could some body please PM me the chatzy link. (haha, just typed kink instead of link) I'd really like to join in when I'm working. Thank you lovelies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetsam View Post
    I also got a random private message saying that if I wanted to ask a question or something, ask it in private, and I have no idea what that was about.
    Me neither. We talk about all sorts of things. I mean, what else are you supposed to do on there? I've seen discussions on school, family, travel, pets, music, knitting, and of course all sorts of things about camming.

    I'm guessing that you got the message from the same person who was clearing the chat.

    I hope you'll try it again. There are actually three of us on now.

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    Im working now if any of you are around I will come and give this chat a go. I think I have the link in an email but not sure if that was just for the site someone was wanting to set up and was looking for girls to come in with $100 to buy shares etc?

    Can someone send me the link please.

    Thanks. xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie-2k11 View Post
    Im working now if any of you are around I will come and give this chat a go. I think I have the link in an email but not sure if that was just for the site someone was wanting to set up and was looking for girls to come in with $100 to buy shares etc?

    Can someone send me the link please.

    Thanks. xx
    Hi Jodie! for security we allow verified models in. It's for our safety, and because of some recent spam issues. Hope you don't mind joining the verified group first

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    No probs at all how do I do that? Xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie-2k11 View Post
    No probs at all how do I do that? Xx
    Here's a link with some info for you.

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=159039&highlight=h0ttie+verify

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    im on it right now!! me and Eliana isis are pulling teeth but were in this together!! lol

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