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Last edited by Lillionaire; 04-10-2012 at 10:20 AM.




Wow that was stupid! Lol I don't know what to tell you... If I was his gf he wouldnt be talking to you anymore.




Do you actually like him? If so I'd wait it out and see how he responds. Maybe he has a secret crush on you too and will be into it. If he is freaked out just apologize and tell him your homesickness affected your better judgment or that you were drunk.
Is this a guy who you're good friends with or just a kinda-sort friend who you've had a crush on but never really talk to? If it's a good guy friend, I would try to salvage it by pretending you were wasted (even if you weren't - I mean, what's a better excuse?) and saying "Damn, I barely remember typing that! Remember to keep me away from the tequila when I get home!" If it's just some so-so "friend," he's probably pretty freaked out and nothing you say will make him not freaked out, so I'd just pretend it didn't happen and stop talking to him. My suggestions would be to either laugh it off and blame in on intoxicating substances or ignore it and drop off his radar... trying to throw a generic "oh shit, pretend I never sent that" out there is just going to sound awkward - and nothing makes an awkward situation more awkward than pointing out how painfully awkward it is.





I've done this a few times and at that point couldn't do much except ignore the fact I did this. However, nothing ever came out of these confessions and learned later on that I wasted my time doing this because guys who are interested let you know.
Personally I would tell him you were drinking or not thinking straight. Keep in mind though it can backfire on you.





Blame the wine.
It's what I would do.
Last edited by ArmySGT.; 11-06-2011 at 06:00 PM.





Or maybe you could say you meant to send it to someone else?!
Two things I learned from this experience:
1. Don't send "i miss you emails" to crushes. Period. Not in high school anymore!
2. He's a pretty good friend if he can just laugh it off.
Also, Lokikola, you're totally right, i should NOT have even come close if I knew this person was taken. No more! I'm a good girl from now on.
He said he had stuff to tell me when I get back though, so I think first I'll see if one of things is that he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore... and if it isn't, I'll split!



Say you were drunk?
Or admit it, say you were homesick, you sent a few of those emails, okay you're over it now :p
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