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    Default Finding A Sugar Daddy is a damn job!

    So I have been on the hunt for a good SD..very on and off because the sites I have tried don't seem to work well enough for me and I have done the BP/CL ad post thing which is so tiring sorting through all the broke ass time wasters.
    But I have run into a problem! I had a plan and my allowance set out but now I am unsure because I think I might be aiming too high :/
    http://fakesugardaddiesexposed.wordp...f-negotiation/
    Was a good article but to me the allowances seem WAAAAY too much in my opinion. I mean up to 3000 for once or twice a month doesnt seem like anyone would want to pay that unless they toss money around like candy.
    I had a guy I was talking to and he wanted to see me 2-3 times a week and wanted it to be exclusive so I came back with $7-10,000 /mo.
    To me that would be a perfect world but he said he was used to paying a lot less blah blah but it did make me think that I might need to reanalyze my allowance goals. And I really hope I didnt just blow a good opportunity. I should be getting paid to fuckin look for these assholes hiding out there!

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    So I'm in the same boat. I went to a site today called seekingarrangement.com and I signed up. I couple of years ago I did the CL thing and it worked for me. I saw him once a week, if that but I got 1200 a month. By the way are you a cam girl?

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    See your 1200 a week sounds right but almost every dude I talk to wants a grand for a few times a month..Umm no?
    I do cam part time but I am not dedicated to it at all right now :/

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    No, I got 1200 a MONTH. Lol. Maybe it depends on your area?

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    As soon my personal life calms down I'm grabbing a SD and until then I've been doing a good deal of thinking about what I want out of an arrangement and what I want to give. At times I start wondering if what I want to ask for is too much, but then I remind myself that these guys have money to blow. Don't ask for anything less then what you want!

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    If you're serious about finding a real sugar daddy, ditch those sites! I found there's too many guys on there who are nothing but pic collectors. Looking back, I cringe at all the time I wasted talking to men who were probably acting out some fantasy. And signing up for multiple sites doesn't work since all the members are on every SD site that exists.

    Freestyling is what led me to my first SD. He was an older southern gentleman, an attorney with his own successful practice. He was twice divorced, not interested in marrying again but wanted a younger woman to spoil. After awhile I mentioned sugardaddy sites to him and he thought I was joking. And yes he was internet savvy but with this busy schedule he didn't have time for sites like that, emailing women back and forth. I met him 5 years ago and to this day he still helps me out even though I've relocated to another state.

    Ladies, step away from those computers and position yourself in places where you can be seen! Boat/yacht shows, wine tastings, high end car shows, silent auctions, you get the idea. Check out the event calendar in your city's local newspaper or magazine.

    Also check out "How To Marry The Rich" by Ginie Polo Sayles. She has great tips on how to meet wealthy me, even if your marriage is not your ultimate goal. The book was written awhile back (in the early 90s, I think) but it's still relevant.

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    This is good advice Nikki
    I just need to become more approachable and not be so damn shy for something like this! :p

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    I've heard a lot about freestyling on here, but nobody has shelled out any details/links. Match.com has been good to someone I know, and I've been tempted to try there.

    I got fed up with all the b.s. (that Nikki explained beautifully) and instead focused more on Domming/online work, and was happier with that as it produced more results (re: $$$) with less bullshit involved because I didn't have to coddle guys and pretended to give a shit when I was having a bad day and didn't want to talk for fear of losing them. Nor did I have to wonder if the person I was talking to was a timewaster and full of shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cortigiana View Post
    I'm pretty young ( 18 ), would I seem awfully out of place at these events??

    Or even worse, transparent? (i.e. obvious gold digger is obvious)
    As long as you're dressed and behaving appropriately for the event, I don't see why there would be a problem. It sure beats sitting around on the internet chatting with a wealthy "investment banker" who turns out to be unemployed and living in his mama's basement.

    Besides, I made some great female friends at these kind of events, most of them older married women who loved playing matchmaker!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    This is good advice Nikki
    I just need to become more approachable and not be so damn shy for something like this! :p
    You've got such a wonderful personality and you're an attractive lady as well! You can do this!

    I can't guarantee you'll meet a guy each and every time but it's fun to get dressed up and go out. Plus the experience will make you a more well rounded person.

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    Wow that guy sounds like a nightmare! 2-3 times a WEEK? And EXCLUSIVE? You know he's trying to be your boyfriend right lol? If you're looking for a Sugar Daddy no mama this is not a good opportunity.

    About lowering your allowance, it depends. Are you in a hurry to find one? If so, yeah lowering it will be effective. I'd also lower the amount of meetings though. This guy is asking for way too much of your time for too little. Just my 2cents.
    Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikkidarling View Post
    You've got such a wonderful personality and you're an attractive lady as well! You can do this!

    I can't guarantee you'll meet a guy each and every time but it's fun to get dressed up and go out. Plus the experience will make you a more well rounded person.
    Aw you're too kind <3 I agree on it being a good experience either way!
    I need to go get a tan then before anyone sees any sort of leg!

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    i'm wondering if i kinda have an "in the club" sd. but i think that's really just a "regular".

    he will give me hundred dollar bills just to hang out with him and drink patron at the club. every time someone comes up to me and asks me for a dance he says to me "stay with me a little longer" and slips me a hundred.

    any advice on how i can milk this to all its worth without pinchin the udders? lol as in pissing him off?

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    ^ From other girls I have talked to in your situation it almost always turns into the customer wanting to take it further ie: sex. And if you dont want to thats when he gets pushy and pissy. It seems inevitable (IMO) but keep it up for as long as you can! lol

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    finding a sugardaddy is nearly impossible these days with soooo many women asking for $1,000 a month with unlimited visits. wtf?

    anyways, i found a really good sd blog http://sugardaddysugarbaby.blogspot.com with a lot of sugardaddy links/websites

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    @ebonybarbie- I know I was shocked when I realized thats all these "rich" men want to pay..any girl dumb enough to give unlimited access of herself for a grand needs to get her head checked.
    That link you put though just looked like a bunch of free advertising for SD/Porn sites with no info whatsoever on "how to find + keep a sugardaddy" hmm

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    So I have been on the hunt for a good SD..very on and off because the sites I have tried don't seem to work well enough for me and I have done the BP/CL ad post thing which is so tiring sorting through all the broke ass time wasters.
    But I have run into a problem! I had a plan and my allowance set out but now I am unsure because I think I might be aiming too high :/

    Was a good article but to me the allowances seem WAAAAY too much in my opinion. I mean up to 3000 for once or twice a month doesnt seem like anyone would want to pay that unless they toss money around like candy.
    I had a guy I was talking to and he wanted to see me 2-3 times a week and wanted it to be exclusive so I came back with $7-10,000 /mo.
    To me that would be a perfect world but he said he was used to paying a lot less blah blah but it did make me think that I might need to reanalyze my allowance goals. And I really hope I didnt just blow a good opportunity. I should be getting paid to fuckin look for these assholes hiding out there!
    As someone who did this, its just not a good idea. Its a fulltime job just to FIND sugardaddies, and then ANOTHER fulltime job just to KEEP your sugardaddy. And they all have expiration dates... hard to keep one longer than 3 to 6 months, sometimes less. They disappear without warning and they will ALL try to fuck you, make you vulnerable so they can take advantage of you, and will guilt or manipulate you when you don't do what they want... and I'm thick-skinned and hard-headed.

    Its hard to get more than $500 per meeting from one no matter what you look like or where you live. Even then, its like pulling teeth. If these men had it THEIR way, they'd pay you nothing for the first month or two, and then give you a couple hundred dollars here & there. I live in one of the most expensive cities in the world and take very good care of myself and that's still my experience. You waste SO much time, money, and energy on SDs that its not worth it. The only way it would be worth it is if you couldn't get hired to dance or something.

    I had ONE good SD who actually made me curious about fetish. He had a glamour fetish & I have a feeling he had a latex fetish. He was always buying me shiny and silky things, talking about how much he LOVED how soft the texture was. He never tried to fuck me, but he kinda started try to turn it that way so I ended it. He was a nice guy though. But even then he only gave me $300-$400 per meeting as well as hundreds of dollars in gifts (expensive dresses, shoes, lingerie, shiny things) that I ended up exchanging for things I really wanted instead (which he even said was fine, but I never told him I did this). He really was a nice guy and we had great intellectual conversations, but at the end of the day, I knew it had an expiration date as they all do. Lasted about 3 months.

    I did this for about a year by the way.

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