I've lurked here for awhile and I must admire everyone (almost) on this board. From tears to laughter to WTF, the SW community has gotten me through some tough times.
I've been a dancer on and off for 10 years. I struggled with drug addiction, depression you name it. About 2 years ago I met a man that had a past as brutal as mine. We fell in love, but it wasn't without turbulence. We fought constantly. When we were great we were great but when we fought we were terrible. From past issues to our sex life to interfering family members you name it we've had it out. We've made many false starts and stops trying to work things out. We've been teetering on the edge of breakup for a few months now but nobody really wants to let go.
Enter a young hot 21 year old nerdy type stud. I met him at the club I was working at and he became a friend over the summer. I contacted him after a short hiatus from dancing and he started coming in to see me. (I'm sure you all can see where this is heading) It started out as just sex but then I found myself falling in love with 21 year old guy. The problem is now my boyfriend is actually putting in effort to making things work, whereas before he didn't give a rat's ass. I have feelings for both of them and I don't know what to do. I can't talk to anyone about this. There are no children involved. (I am aware that I am going to get some inevitable hostile responses and that's ok because I did ask for outside advice and I'm not gonna like everything I hear)
Has anyone dealt with an affair? What did you do? Did you confess? Leave your partner? Please help even if I do get a hostile response. I'm just tired of keeping this bottled inside.![]()


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Best of both worlds. Especially if one of them is bi or bicurious. Sexy MMF threesomeeeee!


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