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Thread: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

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    Default Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    Personally only my boyfriend and closest childhood friend know that I cam, but as I get more into it I realize the very real possibility that more people will find out.

    The more I cam, the more it seems like the answer to all my job worries and fears. I both legitimately enjoy it, and do very well at it. It's practically a godsend for me, and yet I know if my parents found out it would be a disaster. My mother is an ex-stripper and after getting pregnant with me at 15 she felt it was her only option. It was a last resort and she hated EVERYTHING about the adult industry. She has no ability to view it as a something someone would want to do.

    I hate knowing how sad it would make her to find out what I do. She wouldn't be angry or disown me or anything like that, she'd just be so so sad I know there would be no way to convince her that I enjoy this.

    I've realized it's worth it to me though, I have to live my life for myself and not for anyone else. I'm just curious what sort of situations other girls are in and how family finding out has gone over for them.


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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    I've thought about the outcome a million times. The only person who knows I cam is my boyfriend.

    I don't think my dad loves me and he's a negative person in general, so if he disowned me, I wouldn't care. I don't think my mom would disown me. I just think she would be sad, and maybe a bit upset and angry too. She would probably blame it all on my dad for many reasons.

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    Nobody in my real life knows I cam. Nobody.

    It's very lonely. I have to make up a lot of lies.

    The only person in this world that knows my real name and that I cam is H0ttie.

    I come from a family where if this came out it could hurt a lot of people. I don't really care personally but I never want my choices to hurt the people that I love.

    I'm a firm believer that if you want to keep it a secret you should not tell ANYONE. You never know who's going to breakup with you or sell you out.

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    I come from a family where if this came out it could hurt a lot of people. I don't really care personally but I never want my choices to hurt the people that I love.
    That's the worst thing for me really. Knowing that I don't care what people think of what I do, but how my family would feel, how it would hurt them, means I have to hide it.


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    Well, let me put it this way: mostly everyone who I REALLY care about already knows, because I know they won't judge me. This boils down to my mother, sister, and two close friends. The only people I'm scared will find out are my father and brother....my dad wouldn't disown me, but he would probably be very, very sad, and although I love the job, would still criticize me for it.

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    Only my boyfriend knows. Jesus I did some glamour style modelling photos once and the fallout from that was enough to zip my gob shut LOL. NO WAY am I telling anyone. I already break every mould as it is though so i doubt anyone in my social circle would be too shocked, and if they were i don't have a problem dropping them and walking away. I know my own mind and my morals. Anyone know knows me properly knows I have always saught to earn the MOST money doing the LEAST possible work... it was only a matter of time before i ended up camming lol. What I would care about though is if it caused any problems for my boyfriend with his family or friends. I could cope with his friends teasing me/ talking about me/ maybe even looking me up online, but i would never want him to be made to feel bad about it.

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    I'm a firm believer that if you want to keep it a secret you should not tell ANYONE. You never know who's going to breakup with you or sell you out.
    I so agree with this. It's one of the reasons I won't tell anybody I date. If I already had a boyfriend then I wouldn't hide it but I refuse to tell anyone new. I know how spiteful people can be. I have one friend who knows and she's the only one I can vent all my frustrations to and know that I won't be judged.

    I come from a very religious family so they wouldn't like it. But they wouldn't disown me or anything. In fact they would probably say very little. It would just be too weird. There would always be an elephant in the room.
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    Last edited by h0ttie; 09-11-2012 at 02:37 AM. Reason: :)
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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    The only person who knows I cam is my boyfriend, who has joined me on it It would not be in his best interest to tell anyone I do it, since he's done it, too! lol! Also, my best friend KIND OF knows, but I'm going to stop telling her about it possibly. She loves to gossip, and she thinks everything I tell her can go to her boyfriend, and then who knows where it could go!

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    My boy and I have been together for so long now & he helped me with my decision to start camming in the first place. I know you can never truly be sure that things won't go wrong, but I can't imagine anything happening between us that would incite that kind serious of vindictiveness. I just have zero worry that he would ever do that to me.


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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    My boyfriend knows, my sisters and my close friend. My mom doesn't know but I don't think she would really mind. Im just not ready to tell her yet. After all my sister was always quicker to take her clothes off for money before me. She was the stripper in the family and my mom and dad didn't really care. Just wanted her to stay away from the drugs. The only people I truly care about finding out are my kids and my ex husband. He is a vindictive small dick prick. He would be shitty only cause I probably make more money then him now.

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    My husband knows. A few of my close friends know. I don't think anyone in my family would care that much (not close) but I know it woul be upsetting if my husband's family found out. I think it's only a matter of time though.
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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    Only my husband knows - my family would be mortified i think - i intend to keep as private as i can - maybe one day i will be found out - maybe i wont .. fate will decide i think...

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    My close family (mum,dad,step mum,brother) know,as do my close friends,although I only have a handful of those as I tend not to leave the house very much

    To be honest,if everyone in the world found out,I would just ride it out....the only people who's opinions matter to me are those who already know what I do anyway.

    My dad,bless him,always makes it a point to tell me how proud he is of me for working so hard and having the guts to do this kind of work. I know I'm super lucky to not to have to hide it from people and feel for those of you who do.

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    My husband, brother,mom and my closests friends. Theres alot of people i cant tell cause i feel i wouldnt live upto there expectations of me but hey this economy sucks and us ladies have to do what we have to! So for the time being if someone finds out and chooses to judge me i wont feel bad cause i know im doing whats right to provide clothes on my kids back and food on the table. Remember there are always things thats worse

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    Most closer friends know, plus people that have found me online. Even though I block my region they still seem to find out. Don't have much family so not too stressed about that happening.

    The people that I have told tend to have a million questions so I can't really be bothered trying to explain it. Plus no one really knows what it's like unless they do it themselves.

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    Default Re: Who knows you cam and what would be the fallout?

    Everyone knows. The only way it could hurt me is if a future employer had a problem with it.

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