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    So I've decided to try to get back into dancing!

    I started at the tender age of 19 a couple years back. I was a very shy and timid girl, and had a friend from a previous job get me into it. I mostly did it because of money concerns. In all truth, I wasn't that good, I was such a newbie. Funny to laugh at now. I had to quit because of family issues and had to move back home to help out. I still currently live back home in Pueblo but really want to get back up to Denver and dance.

    With age comes a little knowledge and reading a lot of posts helps, too! I want to get back into not just because of the money, but because there was a certain rush to being on stage dancing and just feeling like your the sexiest woman ever.

    I feel like most of my shyness came from not knowing how to approach a man, and having trouble dealing with the rude and touchy customers.

    Anyways! I'd love to get some feedback, tips, advice...any of the like!

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    Best of luck with your return to dancing! To help overcome your shyness, remember that the customers are coming in to see naked girls, so they WANT to be approached. As for rude and touchy customers - know your boundaries. Establish them before you even set foot in the club, make them clear to your customers, and don't give in. The club is your domain so you're the one in charge.

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    thank you shanna

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    Hi there! I'm returning to dancing as well. Before I was oblivious, 19 and not that great at it either. I've gained a lot more confidence with approaching men and I know how to not take things personally now. I know I will still get nerves and such but I don't let other people define me anymore and I always consider the source when I am insulted/degraded. With that mindset I can approach a guy and not get upset if I get rejected. The thing I'm most nervous about is the other girls. I have been bullied before and I have had my stuff stolen too and I'm quite anxious about it. Isn't that terrible? The worst part of this job is the other women. Good luck with everything and let me know how it goes!

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    afterhours I was the same way! but I agree, I have a lot more confidence now and I just have an overall better sense of who i am! I am a little hesitant of the girls, because when I used to dance some were so nice, but there were a few very intimidating ones. But over all super excited. I'm in the midst of toning up my body a little better before auditioning! let me know how it goes with you

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    I got hired straight away at the first club I went to but didn't work this weekend. I needed dayshift for 1 day/week and the club I went to strickly divides their day and night shift girls. I was going to try some other clubs in the meantime but was a little too honest about only wanting to work this weekend. :\ It's not like it used to be where you show up and dance and they ask questions later. I actually had to fill out a legit application at one club!! No problem, just funny is all. I'm not so nervous about the girls anymore but I am eager to actually get out there and sell dances. I start Monday at the place I intend to stay so we'll see.

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    ^^^^^^

    Oh, wow! Yeah, from what I've heard clubs have gotten a lot pickier and stricter! Which is why I'm a little nervous! And an application? haha! But that's awesome you've found a place! Congrats! Like I said, I'm still working on my body a little because I'm in Colorado and I heard it's gotten really picky. You'll have to let me know how your first shift is!

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    seems a lot of us started at 19, quit for a bit and are going back around the same time. yay. support.



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    Skylar, if you want to meet up to talk about anything lemme know. I'd be happy to help if you need it. :-) I'm in the springs so right in the.middle of where you are and where you want to go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    Skylar, if you want to meet up to talk about anything lemme know. I'd be happy to help if you need it. :-) I'm in the springs so right in the.middle of where you are and where you want to go.
    That would be amazing!

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    Glad we all have little support systems on here!! My first real shift at work went good. (I danced somewhere on Sat to get the nerves out). It was slow but I thought it could have been slower for a rainy Monday Day shift (the other workers confirmed it was a slow Monday). I did some dances definitely more than some of the girls. Only one guy got multiple dances the others may have just wanted to see if I was an extras girl... My hustle is LACKING and I spent a lot of time with guys (sitting for free) that were only buying me drinks. I guess it beats sitting alone the first day. There's a lot of potential at this club but a good amount of girls. I imagine a few of them didn't even make tip out... I'm not going to let that happen to me! I need to get my butt into better shape so hopefully in a month I will be the best hustler and have the hottest body!

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