Reading over some posts it seems like a lot of girls are dealing with the significant other issue. Guys throw themselves at us all day and pay for the slightest bit of attention. When it comes to having a relationship where we have sex for 'free' it can get a little confusing. Instinctive walls shoot up and we start to wonder where the money is.
I started my relationship a long, long time ago, well before stripping and camming. So I guess I have it easy in that regard. The only hurdle I had to get over was not wanting to be sexy after working for hours and hours where I had to be sexy.
What I ended up doing was pretending he had already paid, a lot. Really, he has. He is there for me when no one else is, he doesn't turn into a big ass, he makes me feel complete and wonderful... When he is having sex with me it is to make me feel good. That's all he wants to do is make me feel good. So he has paid for it, more than any guy with a wallet and empty personality could pay for it.
I've learned a lot of tricks on how to make guys happy, it's nice to be able to use them on him. So maybe it will help yall to pretend your man has paid you the biggest tip ever and you want to keep him coming back.



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