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    Well it's complicated I guess. We've been together three years. I've been travelling for 5 months (I work in conservation in Peru and then visited family in australia) and about 2 weeks before I came back I sorta... went out with one of my uncles (young) friends who I'd never met before and we hit it off and I don't know why but I drunk a lot and let him sleep with me. I felt awful. I was supposed to be moving in with my boyfriend in December to a flat in Bristol and do some dancing there and then in February I'm moving to Peru permanently and he was going to follow me when he could. I guess I shouldn't have told him, but we're really close and he looked me right in the eyes and asked me if i'd cheated on him and I said yes... And I told him I was drunk, on meth, in a strange city at a strange hour etc. but it doesn't make it any better - it's done for us...

    Honestly, maybe I should have just broken up with him straight off and saved both of our hearts (I tried but he wouldn't let me).

    Now I'm back in the UK (should have stayed in Aus much better $$), boyfriendless, soon to be homeless :/ until I move to Peru in February.

    I'll probably find a cheap flat in ANY city and get back to dancing. Bitch gotta eat, after all.... anyone got any room?

    Anyway, just wanted to get it off my chest. I feel awful for cheating. I'm a bad person. Everyone makes mistakes... but not him :/

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    Default Re: just told my bf I cheated on him...

    eh, you tried to break it off with him before you left.

    Not a huge fan of the whole "I was drunk" excuse, but more so, you were on meth? ick.

    This is why I think open relationships rock. It's just sex. You weren't having some emotional affair.
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    Well lesson learned girl just have to hustle your ass off & keep moving forward. It shall be okay love.

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    Default Re: just told my bf I cheated on him...

    We all fuck up from time to time... you know you made a mistake, you feel like shit about it, you were honest and you are doing the time now. Nothing else you can do really except move on and learn from it. *hugs*

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    Lol @..... I let him sleep with me.
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    Don't beat yourself up about it. Everyone makes mistakes and at least you were honest and tried to do the right thing. Just try to learn what you can from this experience and move on.

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    Everyone makes mistakes. You've gotta move on. Sounds like you know what you've gotta do though
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    Default Re: just told my bf I cheated on him...

    The reason he asked you if you had cheated on him isn't because he has magical powers and knew something was up, it's because that is what he would have done (and probably did) There is a word for it, 'Psychological Projection', okay two words... But if you are using meth all of this is probably just going to be dust in the wind anyway. Seriously, why are you using a drug that totally destroys lives (and ruins nice teeth) unless you are shooting it .

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    Default Re: just told my bf I cheated on him...

    its just sex. i would be more pissed if my bf fell in love with someone else but remained faithful rather than sleep with someone for sex's sake coz i wasnt sleeping with him or something. not saying that makes it okay.

    do you think hes done with you because you slept with someone or because you took drugs, got drunk and slept with a stranger in a strange city? first one could happen to anyone, second may be a bit irresponsible.

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