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    There's a new club where im from that just opened up and I really want to try it out. I'm a dancer turned camgirl who dances when i need the extra cash. I work at my old club like once every few weeks or so and my Boyfriend is ok with it because he used to work at the old club with me and he knows what its like and the people that work there. So today i told him i really wanted to try out this brand new club that is supposed to be so much better than the club i work at now. (i hate the club i work at now) and dread going in. So its almost thanksgiving and i need cash to go home and asked him if its kool if i go work at this new club monday-wedneday he's not too happy but hes not the type to say no. Do u guys think its a big deal to change up clubs if ur guy is pretty kool with u dancing? i feel kinda bad but i really want to try it...
    This club Has 8 poles, 0$ house fee for your first 30 days, and u can come and go as you please no shifts what so ever!
    My club has 0 poles High house fees and once u clock in your there to stay til close!
    Is it wrong for me to go? my thinking is if i dont like it or its too touchy-grabby i can leave.
    I'll add that he doesnt love the fact that i dance he just accepts it...
    i think he's worried that im getting back into it full time which im not just here and there when i really need to i really like camming but a new club would be fun to mix it up a little
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    I vote you do what's best for you. Reading threads with a similar theme, I imagine if many others respond, they won't be too diplomatic about the issue with your boyfriend, but to put it politely, I think it's shitty that you have to feel like you're asking permission. I think it's totally understandable for a boyfriend to dislike stripping. Besides the basic jealousy to get over, it's a dangerous job on a number of levels. Anyone who cares would likely be worried to some degree, but if he's just "letting" you work his old club because he understands it, then your situation is more about his control than your benefit. I hated my first club because (among many, many other reasons) they took our keys until 2AM. I felt trapped. The new club sounds like a way better opportunity, to me. If you care about involving your boyfriend, explain the reasons why you're trying this new club. But, in my opinion, it shouldn't be a "May I?" conversation. It should be a "Hey, just so you know, this is what I'm doing and this is where I'm doing it" conversation.

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    Try the new club.
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    i worded that wrong it wasnt a let me issue.....
    i had my mind made up!
    Yes i am tomorrow night!

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