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    Do you like seeing girls with big wads of cash or big bills on them, like ooh she must be awesome....or does it turn you off? Thanks
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    Don't notice it one way or the other. If anything it's just a distraction.

    I think this is one of those areas where men and women think differently. Most guys figure out by middle school that the best way to get a girl interested in you is to make her think all the other girls want you. But it doesn't really work that way in reverse. Most guys don't find themselves wanting a girl more because all the other guys want her (the message that the money would send). Most guys want a girl because she's hot. LOL. I know that sounds simple but it's pretty much the truth.

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    ^ ha thats funny!
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    Well, my husband is interested in her mind and not looking like a crack whore. In talking with him while watching porn or going to clubs or just talking about women in general, he looks at intelligence which can make an ugly chick hot quicker than anything, secondly is does she look strung out or is she strung out, and then the last part is, does she have stretch marks or floppy tits or any body fat. Oh, and how pretty her vagina is. He's totally turned off by dancers who have large lips or uneven lips.

    But wouldn't it be different for everyone? Some men like this or that. I'd think to get a man interested in you all you really need is tits and a vagina. Other than that it's all personal preference and you'll never know.

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    I wouldn't be lookin at the money....I'd be lookin at you...That's why I'm there , pretty lady....

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    Quote Originally Posted by RufusT View Post
    I wouldn't be lookin at the money....I'd be lookin at you...That's why I'm there , pretty lady....
    I've seen really ugly nasty women make more money at times. And by ugly nasty I mean I could see the track marks/stretch marks or they were just busted. Not sure why. Maybe the customers have low self esteem and are afraid of the prettier ones? Maybe it's part of their fantasy, they tip who they could possibly think they'd have a chance with in real life?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcqueen83 View Post
    I've seen really ugly nasty women make more money at times. And by ugly nasty I mean I could see the track marks/stretch marks or they were just busted. Not sure why. Maybe the customers have low self esteem and are afraid of the prettier ones? Maybe it's part of their fantasy, they tip who they could possibly think they'd have a chance with in real life?
    I again gotta disagree because I don't think that guys really think this way. Guys go to SC's to get what they can't get in real life. And as far as self esteem goes, most guys have such ridiculously inflated opinions of themselves that they think they can get women waaaay out of their league. Just think of how many times an old, rich dude will come onto this site certain that the hot 21 yr old stripper wants his body.

    The less attractive girls sometimes make bank because they tend to very aggressive, and a lot of them give the customers more mileage. They usually put a lot of effort into selling dances, making the customers feel like a million bucks, etc.

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    The weird thing is all the time customers say "oh look how much money you have you don't need anymore" or "oh its full" about my garter on stage. I can't take it out and hide it obviously. They tipping dollars are $2... I usually say either... "oh no there's always room for more" smile and wink. Or "really? phew! I guess I can retire now." and pretend to walk away then come back with cheeky smile and open garter or if they are being annoying and using that as an excuse not to tip, "oh gee yep looks like I can afford mcdonalds after work" roll eyes and head to next tipping customer.

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    I used to carry around a big wad of cash because I was too lazy to do so. Then someone grabbed some of the money and I started getting smart. After that I started carrying a tiny purse so customers wouldn't see how much I had.

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    Personally, I say don't flash it. When I see girls walking around with their purses open or surreptitiously sticking a wad away, I have a very very slight, negative, knee-jerk reaction. My first thought isn't, 'Oh she must be good,' it's 'wow, she had a good night'. And the money then reminds me that it's all just a fantasy in the club. As ridiculous as it sounds, I'd rather not be reminded of money when I'm trying to spend a ton of it.

    In traditional storytelling, instructors often say "don't cross the 3rd wall" - meaning don't break the reality that you've created for the audience. The break sucks them out of the story and reminds them that it's all make-believe. Seeing money crosses the 3rd wall of SCs...at least for me.

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    ^ interesting, thanks!
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    Is this question about ITC or OTC?

    Are asking this as a relationship question or as a self marketing tool?

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    just itc. im single so no worries otc
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    Quote Originally Posted by kikidejavu View Post
    just itc. im single so no worries otc

    Ok In that case neither........ I am not there about your money, so I am not even paying attention to it. I would like to hang onto mine for as long as I can but, only for the time investment it took to make it.

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    I don't think I've ever noticed how much a girl has on her....until our dances are over and i hand her my wad of cash -lol

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    It's interesting to hear that most of you don't notice. I've often wondered this myself... I guess it's better to keep it in a purse for the 10% of men that do notice.

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    ^ yup thats the conclusion ive come to!
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    Quote Originally Posted by kikidejavu View Post
    ^ yup thats the conclusion ive come to!
    Well we kinda came to see the naked Girlies, the Denver Mint has tours for the other guys.

    Seriously though, the Guys interested in your money are the deadbeats looking to hook up with a "Strippah, fuck yezzzzzzzzz". Don't be a sugar mommy by accident, make the musicians pay their own way.

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    Default Re: Would my $ turn you off or on?

    Either. It depends on the person's relationship to it.
    Money is a medium of exchange that comes from using intangible resources (skill) to exchange tangible resources (drinks) or other intangible resources (fantasies).
    Money is made by creating value.
    Anybody can win the lottery or have a good day.
    When money is used as a crutch to make up for no personality its a turn off.
    The purse is a good idea as it is out of sight out of mind.
    The fantasy is your creation of value.
    Unless your stage name is Betty banker tuck it away.

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    I don't see how carrying a wad of cash readily visible to customers would ever do you any good and might be taken as some sort of advertisement for permissive private dances. As a customer, I preferred dancers who didn't fit the negative stereotypical dancer model to those that did, plus it might only serve to antagonize those co-workers of yours not accumulating cash (and customers) quite as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Well we kinda came to see the naked Girlies, the Denver Mint has tours for the other guys.
    LOL! Love those Denver Mint tours.

    Seriously though, I agree with all the other guys. Showing us the money is not a turn on. This is a case of male psychology versus female psychology. Female psychology says that if a potential partner is wanted by everyone else, then that's a potential partner that has lots of value and should thus be pursued. Hence the belief that a stripper with lots of cash becomes a more attractive stripper. But that's not what male psychology says. Male psychology is summed up thusly: "Boobies. Drool."

    (I'm oversimplifying things of course. It's not just about boobies, otherwise the girls with the biggest cup size would make the most money. It's about looks, the quality of the dance, and even whether the girl seems cool or bitchy during the pre-dance chat, etc.)

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    I'm not really responding to the main question, just to the people who commented on female vs male psychology. As a woman, I do not think a guy is desirable just because there are girls surrounding him. There was actually a time when a guy was after me and all my girl friends thought he was hot, interesting, and all the great things women are supposed to like. But I just wasn't attracted to him and would never be. so I don't think it's really about female vs male psychology - it's just personal differences..
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    not really. Some dancers doing well are usually pleasant and the hustle factor is lower.... Sometimes....

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    Quote Originally Posted by camgirl808 View Post
    ....so I don't think it's really about female vs male psychology - it's just personal differences..

    ^^Couldn't agree more.

    I love it when people try to neatly tie up all of life's mysteries with gender stereotyping and supposed biological pre-dispositioning.
    Ha!
    Cracks me up in it's absurdity .

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    The smart thing to do with your money is to exchange the smaller bills for larger ones at the bar, then tightly affix those bills to your body. Around the ankle is best, and you can either do a triple elastic type of tie, or there are little ankle wallets you can use.

    If you've just gotten off the stage and there is money in your garter and thong, remove it quickly, not because of it being a turn off, but because its easy to lose that money or have people swipe it off of you while you're walking by.

    Keep your money close to you, don't brag about it and don't show it off.

    A few strategic dollars placed on a leg garter might be ok when walking around a bit to let custs know you're in demand, but that's it.

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