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    Default Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    i'm 21 female and i like all the sensuality but i just never had any desire to take a d.i.c.k inside me. i'm an a.s.s virgin, p.u.s.sy virgin, mouth virgin. i'm selfish but men don't care. they're lucky enough to have me to play with and to please. i like to meet older men online. young men are hard for me to deal with since they are selfish.

    also, i don't understand how men need sex like they need air. i know that i don't need it much. sure i've had millions and millions of orgasms already but i'm just not dependent on orgams or the sensuality like i need air.

    so what gives? what makes men so into sex? i've already had lots of pleasure but i just dont need it continously. i probably need it 5 times a month but fantasizing is as pleasurable as the real thing. i dont even fantasize much
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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    Being a selfish lover isn't something to brag about. Sounds like you're what they call a Pillow Princess:

    "2. pillow princess 117 up, 27 down

    A woman who enjoys sex, but prefers not to reciprocate as much as he gives. She feels both parties' pleasure should be reached by pleasuring her."

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    wow thanks... i didn't know there was a term for being me. i love it. next time i go looking for a man online, i will be using the pillow princess term. thanks! i learned something new.

    i'm a pillow princess and am damned proud of it!
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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    Fair enough if you're just after sex to feel pleasure yourself but I personally find being intimate about mutual pleasure with somebody you love. When you meet a partner that you love and connect with you may realise that pleasure comes both from giving and receiving...
    Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    ^^^Great reply^^^

    Money_Worshipper, you are certainly under no obligation to be dependent on anyone else for your sexual satisfaction. But someday you might meet someone who will open your eyes, and your mind as well. The mind being the most important sexual organ, by far.
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
    Friedrich Nietzsche

    Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    There's nothing wrong with not having a desire to have sex.

    I have gone months without sex and it never bothered me.

    Honestly, the best sex of my life has been with people I truly cared for.

    I have had great, passionate sex with men I did not love, but it lacked the emotions necessary to make it the very best. All I felt was dick, no love. When you meet "the one", you may find that you have the desire to have that deep, burning emotional connection that only sex brings.

    Tonight my boyfriend and I had sex and when we finished I just gazed at his face and eyes. I loved that I was able to experience him on that level. It made me feel so happy. I didn't care one bit about the penis, the orgasm, or his sexy body. All I cared about was that it was me and him together in that moment and that nothing else mattered.
    If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    Quote Originally Posted by Money_Worshipper View Post
    so what gives? what makes men so into sex? i've already had lots of pleasure but i just dont need it continously. i probably need it 5 times a month but fantasizing is as pleasurable as the real thing. i dont even fantasize much

    Probably cause men don't spend most their lives under artificial hormonal control like most of us women do. Ill hump anything that moves when Im birth control fee and ovulating. I would say in my natural state without birth control I actually feel an almost uncontrollable urge to seek sex during ovulation.

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    Ha at "pillow princess".

    I don't see anything wrong with being a PP if you're single & just want to mess around that way. I think it's great. Now if you're in a relationship, that would be a problem of course. Most men are spoiled, so why put the effort anyway if he's not your BF/husband?

    I use to be a PP when I was a virgin, until I found Mr Right. I was the type who felt like not just anyone deserved my cherry. I still feel that way about my little flower. Either you're gonna give me a serious relationship, or be a great arrangement partner. $$$$$$ I damn well want some type of benefit.

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    wow vyanka, you read me like a book.

    i also feel that nobody deserved my cherry unless there is a huge benefit for me. being pleasured is not enough for me to want to please somebody. unless there is a commitment or big $$$$ i'm not giving my cherry!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Money_Worshipper View Post
    wow vyanka, you read me like a book.

    i also feel that nobody deserved my cherry unless there is a huge benefit for me. being pleasured is not enough for me to want to please somebody. unless there is a commitment or big $$$$ i'm not giving my cherry!
    Atta girl...

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    I get where the OP is going because I feel the same way generally. If I'm in love (or think I am in love)I am interested in intercourse. There's something special about sharing your body. However, if I'm not in love it's not fun at all. I have had FWBs but in most of those cases I prefer oral. I have a few theories why but it boils down to that I am unable to take birth control pills so I have always had this fear of pregnancy. Men don't have this fear because many do leave and don't take responsibility. When I had sex with guys I wasn't in love with or even lust it's awful and all I can think is "hurry up".

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    Pillow princess is a term that usually refers to llesbians.

    U say u don't wanna a dick in you, have u thought about whether u might be attracted to girls or not?

    You could also be asexual. That's cool. Nothing wrong with that.

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    i like looking at girls bodies and male bodies that are fit but i have no desire to want to have sex with them.

    i do like to kiss and make out with men though. what i like most are kissing receiving oral sex. i have no desire to go down on a man. sure i give hand jobs but no sex or blow jobs.
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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    1. You have not been with a good lover. Not talking about those custies who swear they are gods gift to women, but a real, true connection

    2. Give it time, I didn't start feeling actively horny until into my 20's

    3. If you are "proud" of being a selfish lover you are no better than guys who brag about getting girls to suck their dicks them dumping them

    Give yourself some time and find a decent guy. Where are you finding your partners anyway?

    The internet? If so, you're doing it wrong, meet real people and establish real connections...the attraction will come. Or, if it doesn't than maybe you need to re-evaluate your own sexuality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    The internet? If so, you're doing it wrong, meet real people and establish real connections
    That's definitely possible on the internet. "Real" people use it. It's not like you turn into a robot when you go online. I don't understand the stigma in 2011, when almost everybody has the internet following them around 24/7.

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    Oh, I utilize the internet too, met my last few boyfriends online, no judgement or stigma. There is just something about the way the OP has been writing that seems like she needs to go out more and live life. She's only meeting older men online, and and guys her own age...older men who are acting like they are happy just pleasing her but we all know are not.

    Internet dating is fine, but don't let the preclude you from experiencing the world outside.

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    Default Re: Sure i like to cuddle, make out, kiss, foreplay, receiving oral ............?

    I bet at no point today did you stop to think about gravity, how important it is, and how vital to your existence as you know it gravity is to you. I bet if it were to disappear, it would probably occupy a large portion of your thoughts as you floated around, lol.

    That's how sex is to me. When it's available, I'm not obsessing over it. When it's gone, it's all I think about. Unfortunately, it's usually not available.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    I bet at no point today did you stop to think about gravity, how important it is, and how vital to your existence as you know it gravity is to you. I bet if it were to disappear, it would probably occupy a large portion of your thoughts as you floated around, lol.

    That's how sex is to me. When it's available, I'm not obsessing over it. When it's gone, it's all I think about. Unfortunately, it's usually not available.
    I was thinking to myself.... Did she post in the wrong thread? Drunk? Wtf???? Then I read the 2nd paragraph.... Ahhhhh. K.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Money_Worshipper View Post
    wow vyanka, you read me like a book.

    i also feel that nobody deserved my cherry unless there is a huge benefit for me. being pleasured is not enough for me to want to please somebody. unless there is a commitment or big $$$$ i'm not giving my cherry!
    Cherry is meant to be used. If you are not using it then there is a good chance that it might go bad.

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