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    Duh Crappy Newb Mistake!

    I'm still a complete newb and I think I made a really dumb newb mistake last night.

    Bear with me:

    A new dancer (dancer A) asked me for change for a $20 and I didn't mind because I wanted to unload some of the $1 bills bloating my purse. This was right before the end of my shift - I was busy tipping out. Anyway, I didn't want to unload all my cash on the bar in front of custies and other girls (I hadn't had time to unfold and sort my money yet - it was crumpled and folded and bunched together because I just shove it in during my shift and wait til I get a moment to go and count and sort it).

    I also didn't want to go all the way back to the DR and said let's just go into the restroom (it was much closer) to change out her $20 bill. We went in and very innocently I'm digging in my purse to get her some $5 and $1's when another dancer walks (dancer B) in. She's a bit of a bitch and trouble maker who I try to steer clear of as much as possible. She chit-chats while we're changing out the money. As we're ready to leave the restroom, dancer B pulls me aside all sugary sweet and giggly and whispers "Are you guys doing coke?"

    I felt like such an idiot. Afterwards I told dancer A what dancer B said and we both went to the manager right away and told him we were just changing out a $20 bill - just in case bitchy dancer B decides to start a rumor-mill. In retrospect I realized that I should have just gone to the DR or told the other dancer to get change from the bar. Live and learn.

    Did I handle this right? How would you have handled this situation?

    Thanks, and feeling like an idiot.

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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    There's really nothing to handle. It's a non-event. Answer 'no', and carry on.
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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    Good for you for covering your ass. I think you did exactly right.

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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    Awww I wouldn't worry dancer b probably just wanted some if u were lol.

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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Awww I wouldn't worry dancer b probably just wanted some if u were lol.
    Ahaha no kidding, especially if she asked all sweetly like that!

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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    U headed off any problems. You're fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Awww I wouldn't worry dancer b probably just wanted some if u were lol.
    Lol yes that thought did immediately come to mind when she asked me.

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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    I don't understand what mistake you think you made. Sorting money in the bathroom is fairly normal. Doing cocaine in the bathroom (while frowned-upon in most clubs) is also normal, at least for the girl who asked you about it. Bothering a manager to declare that you don't do drugs is a little weird. In any case, I highly doubt you have anything to worry about.

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    Default Re: Crappy Newb Mistake!

    The problem is that some girls were fired a couple of weeks ago for doing coke in the bathroom. Management tries to run a clean club - no drugs, no extras, no prostitution. Any violations and you're out quick as a flash. And yes, sorting money in the bathroom is normal, I've done it many times, but in private. I wasn't sorting money in private though - I was exchanging bills with another dancer when the third dancer walked in and assumed we were doing coke, and like I said, she's a trouble-maker.

    Anyway, thanks for all the feedback - you all are simply awesome.

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