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    Default Creating a New Persona Successfully

    As i posted in an earlier thread I have decided that I want whole theme to be pin up girl. Every outfit, stocking, hair do, makeup, shoes has to be in that whole pin up era.

    Anyway I was wondering when you all started dancing how did you successfully create your new persona? I am a very shy person naturally if I don't know you or if the spotlight is on me I get nervous. But dancing is something I've always had an interest in and wanted to do even though I failed the first time I tried. But it gives me a chance to be someone totally different and be someone I've always wanted to be.........a sexy seductress, confident, crazy, and wild woman. I'm just not sure how to give myself a pep talk everytime I go into work and I have to change into this other person. The outfit is going to help me feel a lot more sexy and give my more confidence but of course it's not EVERYTHING! My personality has the match my looks.

    Does anyone have any advice or has anyone been in my position?
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    If I were you I would amass as many pictures of pinups as I could just to always make sure you had your focus. If you don't bring any other outfits with you, you do your hair like a pinup, call yourself a different name... then you're that persona! As for the attitude/personality just think of the famous pinups and try to get into that mentality when you're working. The different persona will come easier and easier and I find it easier on my psyche if I keep OTC and ITC personalities totally separate. I don't know. Good luck with everything! I imagine you will make bank!

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    Imagine yourself turning into that new persona step by step as you're getting ready for work staring with a shower. Then moving on to moisturizing your body with lotion, then hair, makeup, etc. until your look is completed with a spritz of your "pin up girl'' perfume. Scent is tied to memory, and certain scents remind us of certain things. Only wear this scent when you want this pin up persona to come out.
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    Default Re: Creating a New Persona Successfully

    Quote Originally Posted by AriahsPariah View Post
    Scent is tied to memory, and certain scents remind us of certain things. Only wear this scent when you want this pin up persona to come out.
    This is SO true actually and I never really realized that till now. I always always would wear vanilla for work.. I don't think I ever wore any other scent one night of work. I haven't worked in a few months but when I smell vanilla I instantly feel sexier and like I have more confidence. It's not like at work I turn into a completely different person but I do feel more like a sex kitten and victoria's secret model.. so now when I smell vanilla I get that feeling again

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    It's hard to explain how I was able to do it, except to explain I told myself I was playing a role like I did when I did acting. I've actually recommended acting classes to other dancers because you learn how to do this. But when I entered a club I became this hot vixen and once I left I became myself.

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