i just happen to find these stories as i was browsing the interwebz, i find some of these stories interesting.
http://www.chatcheaters.com/cheating...husbands7.html
i just happen to find these stories as i was browsing the interwebz, i find some of these stories interesting.
http://www.chatcheaters.com/cheating...husbands7.html





I heard the guy who was last married to Christie Brinkley was into cam girls
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
haha, gotta always love the camgirls![]()




the thing i always find really hilarious is how they all demonize the other woman and call women out their name.
if your man is cheating - it's your MAN who is the problem. half the time he's lying to the woman he's cheating on you with. and if he's patronizing a sex worker it's HIS choice. sex workers aren't responsible for asking ahead of time if he's married. jesus. it amazes me how fucking blind some women are to take all their frustration out on the "other women" and not put the blame where it belongs: on the lying, cheating scumbags they're in a relationship with.
exactly, they don't wanna physically know that they're man actually went out looking for it. she's hot, he fucked her. she seduced him into it some how, so it must be entirely her fault. these woman are in denial. they don't wanna know the truth, they wanna live in that fantasy land just like they're guys do. it's sad.





Last edited by HaydenBlue; 11-16-2011 at 09:47 PM.
I myself am married and i give my husband PLENTY of sex lol actually im the one begging for it all the time (i have a high sex drive) but if my husband wanted to do a fantasy online it wouldnt matter to me. IF it was like a cam site fine (cause i myself know how us camgirls are lol we dont really have interest in the man just the money) lol... As long as it didnt introvien our marriage and he didnt go out of wack n over used it i would be ok. but thats just my personal belief. Sometimes my husband will sit next to me when im looking at girls cams (he acts like he doesnt get turned on and i kinda fuck with him n go ommggg ur so checking her out lol so he thinks i care but really i dont care about that .

Do these women REALLY think we have any interest in their husbands beyond their cash?
They really need to do their homework. This is porn, just like going to the strip club or ordering a skin flick on Pay-per-view, not some homewrecker trying to steal your man.
but they don't think of it logically like that. they are insecure woman. they see a hot girl and they are instantly threatened by her, just because they're men can't control themselves.





Yes they do. I have tons of female friends (well, more like acquaintances) who told me they'd be uncomfortable entering a strip club because they'd feel like those "nasty strippers" would be trying to steal or fuck their boyfriends. LOL. Took everything out of me not to laugh. Its hard to keep secrets sometimes. I'd tell them about my job though if the subject came up.
I honestly dont blame those females though. Before I entered stripping, I thought "those strippers just want to get get at my boyfriend." SCs are high mileage and fully nude so I was pretty jealous about him going. I started stripping since I was curious about it, from then on, I became more open minded about sex, SCs didnt mind me, wasnt as jelous as I was (and I was overly bad). Im happy it changed me the way it did, now I even bought my new bf dances
I think those sort of relationships on that site, are poor in communication, and closed minded with sex. If the male wants to go to a SC, see a camgirl, the female would consider that cheating, b/c either he doesnt express his view on why he wants to do such things, whether its curiousity, little sex, something new etc, it still should be talked about and even shared with both parties. If its not, the female goes nuts blaming sex workers, and the hubby just thinks it was not a big deal.




the hilarious part is the irony of the whole situation...considering the LAST thing most sex workers want is to 'trap' a customer in a relationship. usually we're fighting them off when they are trying to get in a relationship with us because most of them are, at best, entitled dicks. they should be thanking us for saying no and maintaining boundaries because (at least for camgirls) we have to do it with almost every customer.
Admittedly I think we're mostly like "wtf" because we're on the sex working end.
But I remember pre-sexwork thinking sex workers were saucy seductresses to be feared or scandalized by. I think when you're completely removed from this industry it is easy to project your insecurities onto us... healthy relationships take *work* to thrive and most relationships are unhealthy so blaming us is an easy cop out. Add on a heavy helping of slut-shaming and sex work stigma and we become the focus instead of the elephant in the room (meaning your partner's choices and decisions). Worse we're made to order, attractive, excited, in awe of eveything he says and does... we don't have to pick up his dirty socks or deal with his shitty family or remind him over and over again to use a coaster. I could see how someone at their wits end could be bitter and unwilling to deal with the core problems. The superficial stuff is easier to get derailed by.
I don't *agree* at all, but I vaguely get it. Well, I get it theoretically. I've had a friend who was completely broken by her BFs porn habits. It took her quite some time to get to the root of the problem: meaning him and their communication breakdown... but for months it was porn industry this, dehumanizing women that... talking about the real issues (him, his behavior, their having irreconcilable differences, their lack of communication) was too painful at first.
But Ive been in the sex industry for too long to empathize. Sex work completely dismantles the pedestals society puts men on. The longer you do it, the more you're like "uh, so what's the big deal about men again?"
If only the women knew where we were coming from or thinking, they'd probably all be like "well shit, you're just thinking of your grocery list too?" "yea girl, he is SO boring, I dont even remember who he is unless I make a note" "lol ok, we're good" "also why do his balls look like that?"
But sisterhood is dead. Well, it is dead between sexworkers and nonsexworkers.I wish it weren't though - but whenever subjects like infidelity comes up, I'm always like... ugh here we go... slutshaming in 1, 2, 3....
This. My favorite regulars are the ones where this problem never comes up - camming, IRL sex work, everything. If asked if I have a partner, my reaction 9 times out of 10 is just: ugh unless youre a cuckold STFU and don't bother asking... it wont be a fun conversation either way.
Sex workers are the ones who constantly have to create the boundaries, not the other way around. But oh well, irony indeed.
AMEN.....to all what has been said, so fucking true! irony indeed...if these women only knew the truth. the guys REALLY are the ones who are getting away scott free from it all!!!!
We have two computers and neither are hooked up. Are things better? Is he cheating? Am I glad I hung in there? I don't feel he is cheating and he may never again. However, I don't feel it will last. He could be a saint right now but he ruined my trust. I can and never will trust him again. I think it's sickening that we can't have a computer hooked up in our house any longer because he can't control himself. I think it's sad that I have become the type of woman that has to check his wallet and pants to see what he is up to. If your man is like this, run, run as fast and as far as you can. Don't let him back because you can never recover that which is lost. For those of you that do cheat, I truly believe what comes around goes around and hope and wish that every single one of you feels the hurt that we have had to go through. Women/men always look good on the internet because you don't have the daily challenges real life relationships do. If you are thinking of cheating, is it worth it? Is it worth losing the love of significant other? I don't believe that crap that I read on here about us women deserve it because we aren't doing our men right. It's what it's always come down to...most men think with their penis.
this one is my fav, LOL!..............and yes they do!
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