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    Default Faking confidence?

    The more I read other members post the more this weight lifts off my shoulders. I let the other dancers and my low confidence level get the best of me before so I quit at the club after only a week. I realize YOU have to have confidence and YOU have to be and look approachable. I'm not a back stabber or shit talker whatsoever so I've learned to just stay away from the negativity. But being a newbie and starting out at a club how to fake your confidence until you truly FEEL confident and feel like your "IT"?
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    Default Re: Faking confidence?

    Make eye contact, stand tall with your shoulders back, and smile A LOT Good luck!

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    Default Re: Faking confidence?

    Every time before you go out onto the floor, check yourself out and tell yourself (in your mind) how hot you are and how great of a shift you're going to have. The positive energy is great, and smiling always helps - so many girls go for pouty looks instead, so a smile really stands out and makes you seem so much friendlier.

    Focus on your best features and accentuate them to boost your confidence. Like if you have killer legs and you're wearing a short skirt that makes them look even better, you'll feel so much hotter than if you were wearing an outfit that didn't really showcase them.

    Always walk with a purpose and take your time - don't run between customers or from the floor to the dressing room. Walk slow and sexy, making flirtatious eye contact with customers on the way.

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    Default Re: Faking confidence?

    Flip your hair. Yes, I learned this right here on SW that a hair flip = confidence.

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