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    So I got a guy who popped in my second day on cam, he tells me right off the bat to learn the words to the song I'm singing instead of fucking it up, right off the bat I knew he was a troll, it was kind of fun to just banter with him. I stayed calm and didn't get mad, he even said he only came into my room to piss me off, I wore a wig the first couple nights (since my actual hair is half shaved) and he said "must suck to have cancer" told him I wouldn't know, and then it was "It must suck to be anorexic" and that one got me since I wish I could be tinier. I actually laughed told him thanks for that, but I was going to have to ban him. A lot of people were concerned since I told them I was new and they thought he was going to get to me. Date a guy who in fights uses logic against you and basically trolls you the whole time, you learn a thing or two at keeping your cool.

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    I'd rather suggest to report abusive guys instead of banning them. If he's being a jerk on a camsite, most probably you are not the only model he pesters. Getting banned from rooms doesn't hurt him as there will be new girls; but if the support gets multiple reports on a person, they will eventually get his/her account terminated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    I'd rather suggest to report abusive guys instead of banning them. If he's being a jerk on a camsite, most probably you are not the only model he pesters. Getting banned from rooms doesn't hurt him as there will be new girls; but if the support gets multiple reports on a person, they will eventually get his/her account terminated.

    This reminds me of something I've been meaning to ask about. Like, on another thread, when quoting the entitled, jerkass, and otherwise annoying douches who come into my room, I tend to censor the names. But I wonder if certain usernames need to be outed so that other models can watch out for them. Thoughts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by AmethystLily View Post
    This reminds me of something I've been meaning to ask about. Like, on another thread, when quoting the entitled, jerkass, and otherwise annoying douches who come into my room, I tend to censor the names. But I wonder if certain usernames need to be outed so that other models can watch out for them. Thoughts?
    I'd out them so other models can be on the look out. *shrugs*

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmethystLily View Post
    This reminds me of something I've been meaning to ask about. Like, on another thread, when quoting the entitled, jerkass, and otherwise annoying douches who come into my room, I tend to censor the names. But I wonder if certain usernames need to be outed so that other models can watch out for them. Thoughts?
    I'd out them so other models can be on the look out. *shrugs*

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Guys on these sites will continue calling us whores/sluts/bitches, etc., and they will ESPECIALLY do so if they see models calling themselves the same thing.
    Well I totally agree with your refusal to use the word, I really don't think that guys would stop calling models these things even if we all bonded together and swore to never say it again.

    In my personal experience guys don't just reserve their insults for cam models. They say it whenever they are rejected to try and save their egos. I have rejected men while I wasn't on cam or as my camming persona and they still called me a 'whore' or a 'slut'.

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    I've seen models tell other models "Don't ban trolls...just ignore them cuz banning them is giving them the attention they want," and I have to SMH at that advice. How you choose to handle the rude people in your room is your business, but the ban button is there for a reason. You're banning an asshole who is not spending a dime on you...who is saying nasty shit in your chat room...whose trollery is pissing off your best regulars. And even if clicking the ban button is giving him attention, who cares? What's important is that you are now rid of this scumbag who attempted to "break" you and ruin the chill vibe of your room. I know that some models are cool with letting trolls talk 'til they get tired of it and leave, and that's fine for them, but some of us would rather ban the douche who doesn't deserve to be there...and then keep it moving. Also, banning a troll isn't "letting him win and allowing him to get to you." Allowing him to get to you would be if you kept him in the room for 15 minutes, and you burst into tears shouting "WHY ARE YOU SO MEAN TO ME?! I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU JUST SAID THAT TO ME!!!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl
    I really don't think that guys would stop calling models these things even if we all bonded together and swore to never say it again.
    I don't think so either, nor did I say that they would. And my response to "You sexy Black bitch!" will remain "Well, I'm definitely not a bitch, but thanks for saying I'm sexy!"

    I feel like we're beating a dead horse now. This discussion was from another thread, and I wish it would've stayed there because bringing it to this thread makes it look like I'm calling ALL those guys "losers who like to insult cam models." And no, I don't think they're losers. The losers would be the ones who are intentionally being assholes when they say it.

    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl
    In my personal experience guys don't just reserve their insults for cam models. They say it whenever they are rejected to try and save their egos. I have rejected men while I wasn't on cam or as my camming persona and they still called me a 'whore' or a 'slut'.
    Yeah, rejection is like the worst thing in the world for some of these guys! LOL. I remember when my ex's friend tried to get with me (some friend, huh?), and he got all pissy when I refused. He didn't call me any names, but he's like "Well that's okay cuz I can find me some other hot chick to get with." LMAO!!! Okay then, crybaby, go do your thang..."
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    I feel like we're beating a dead horse now. This discussion was from another thread, and I wish it would've stayed there because bringing it to this thread makes it look like I'm calling ALL those guys "losers who like to insult cam models." And no, I don't think they're losers. The losers would be the ones who are intentionally being assholes when they say it.
    Well, for what it is worth I think your opinion has a lot of merit!. You have really given me some points to ponder over whether or not I should be making an effort to correct this type of behaviour in my room or whether I should be correcting my own.

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    They way I see it, IMHO, no matter what site you're on, or where the traffic came from there are three basic types of guys who come to cam girls in the first place. The "Man-Child", The "Boys" and the "Men".

    The Man-Child is usually the biggest group of them. They are generally cheap entitled men who leave me no reason to wonder why their wives/gf's won't fuck them in the first place. Anyone who has a bf, husband or child knows how they will react if they don't get their way. But basically there's the ones who won't spend on you and feel entitled to your time for free because they feel like they are not " a loser like all these other guys". Or they spend a bit of chump change on you and think they own you forever. It's unlikely they ever spend money on their woman or take them out which is why they are forced to look for companionship or an ego boost or what have you, elsewhere.

    The Boys are the ones who are usually too socially inept to even talk to women in the first place. Most of these are trolls and should be ignored and banned at all costs as they aren't worth your time. The other part of this group is the guys who lack self confidence and don't have much experience with women, who I find often come from the dating site traffic. They can be ok because once you chat them up a bit and get them talking they can often be converted into customers.

    The final group is the Men who know that the site is a pay-for-sex entertainment and it's intended use and are willing to spend to bust their nut to a hot girl. They are coming fewer and farther between lately but we just need to weed them out. Howver at the end of the day I think you just need to recognize who they are and where they fit and spend your time and attention accordingly and that's about all we can really do. No point in getting upset over a lost cause. Again this is all just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissShani View Post
    So this guy comes in my room wanting to meetup in real life......he sent me his phone number and pictures and told me to call so we could hookup.....I told him WTF i'm not an escort and if he want a date go to match.com....then he proceeds to tell me i'm an internet slut etc.........and continues with making physical threats.....calling me whores in and out of my room is there anyway to ban this guy...he leaves b4 i can block him and he comes in under different names.....loser
    He called you an internet slut/whore yet wanted to date you minutes before?! Smdh...

    This job really, really, screams for you to only give words as much power as you want them to have! In cam modeling you may be meeting some others' definition of a slut or whore is. BUT...how do you feel? Do YOU feel there is something wrong with what you do? If the answer is no focus on that. What anyone else thinks "ain't none of your damn business" (rupaul quote alert). Personally, I just don't let insults get to me. If a guy calls me a whore I just say "that's right baby and I love it. Can you afford me? Let's go private and I'll tell you all about what a dirty slut I am." THEY LEAVE EVERY TIME lol.

    Id report him honestly JUST because these men actually are getting sexual satisfaction out of demeaning us. It's just another fetish. Sorry you're going through this...

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    I say this with all due respect for males and females of the world.
    Have you ever heard a male talk about his wife or girlfriend to other males? They call them bitches etc. They love them but it's guy talk, makes them look all macho.. whatever.
    Also guys may find it hard to understand the concept of a female who can be online and make big bucks! Not saying some guys don't bank on cam, because they do too, but ya know guys see strippers and escorts etc. which is all fine. It's just online it's easy to type out any word and look for a reaction. IRL she is probably going to kick your ass! These guys that call us sluts and online whores are only trying to make themselves feel good. I call it jealousy! Nothing more. After all they are on a cam site looking. What more do we need to understand these guys are in the basement jacking off. The whole while they are extremely jealous of the money a woman can make these days with no meeting, nothing, nada, done. It's great. I don't waste time banning them unless customers who pay complain. To ignore and have thick skin is a great motivator.
    Try it. Fuck these guys, basement wankers.

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    ^^Agreed. I had someone late last night enter my chat and say,"8 dollars per minute? You must be crazy to charge that, You 'STREETWALKER!" I was in classic chat, so none of my sweet regulars saw what he wrote, but I wanted to say, "8 dollars- no you read that wrong, it's 8.89 per minute! In the 3 years I've been camming, I've never had anyone say 'streetwalker!" Isn't that a term that was used back in the 60's or something? I blocked him, but man, I thought, if I were a street walker, how could I be inside my home camming?

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    There's this one douche who would do the same thing every time, but only if my PVT was 4.99 or less (So I increased it). He types out how he is loving the show, so I had proof that he was enjoying it, but just as he is about to leave he will say something really rude and uncalled for, then rate me 1-star. Same M.O. every time, but different screen names. I took screen shots and reported him as abusive and got the ratings removed, every time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I thought, if I were a street walker, how could I be inside my home camming?
    You Internetwalker, you!

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    Every so often I'll get a guy ask me my age, just so they can insult me and tell me I look older when I answer. Which is just laughable, because I definitely don't look old, and in fact usually have guys tell me I look much younger than my age.

    I had a guy once accuse me of being 'fake' and 'not English' because I wouldn't tell him the precise area where I live!

    Just sad little men trying to assert power and control over you.

    The internet enables people to say all manner of shit that they wouldn't have to balls to say in real life. Just yesterday I was looking at a Lou Reed youtube video (he's just passed away) and some douche was calling him a 'junkie faggot' and saying that he hoped he'd 'rot in hell'. An absolutely disgusting thing to say about a dead man, but I take solace in the fact that no normal and happy person would go out of their way to write abusive things to/about people in this manner.

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    Just wanted to add my thoughts on another kind of loser who insults cam models–other models or model managers. For some reason my spidey sense goes off about some of the random, out-of-the-blue insults that just happen to come when I am having good placement when all the top models are also on (like prime-time weeknights or right before pay period ends on SM). During other times I get maybe one random insult every two weeks, if at all.

    But when it seems every model and her sister is on, the harassment ramps up. You could argue that there are more guys online in general during those time periods but I also think it stands to reason if someone is getting a cut off a model who's hovering on and off the first page, they have the incentive go into the rooms ahead of her and try ruffle some feathers in hopes of striking a nerve and getting a couple to log off.

    It's free for them to try and honestly I feel I can tell the difference between a random loser guy insult and one that's deliberately trying to make me log off, which they will also actually say—things like following the insults with, "What are you doing here? You don't belong here, go home," etc. A loser guy doesn't care if I log off or not, you know? If anything he wants me online so he can get his loser rocks off (or at least try, I like to roll the trolls and they hate it, ).

    Of course, I realize this theory could be totally wrong but sometimes my mind likes to wander off during freechat to think deep thoughts about camming, LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thymian View Post
    Just wanted to add my thoughts on another kind of loser who insults cam models–other models or model managers. For some reason my spidey sense goes off about some of the random, out-of-the-blue insults that just happen to come when I am having good placement when all the top models are also on (like prime-time weeknights or right before pay period ends on SM). During other times I get maybe one random insult every two weeks, if at all.

    But when it seems every model and her sister is on, the harassment ramps up. You could argue that there are more guys online in general during those time periods but I also think it stands to reason if someone is getting a cut off a model who's hovering on and off the first page, they have the incentive go into the rooms ahead of her and try ruffle some feathers in hopes of striking a nerve and getting a couple to log off.

    It's free for them to try and honestly I feel I can tell the difference between a random loser guy insult and one that's deliberately trying to make me log off, which they will also actually say—things like following the insults with, "What are you doing here? You don't belong here, go home," etc. A loser guy doesn't care if I log off or not, you know? If anything he wants me online so he can get his loser rocks off (or at least try, I like to roll the trolls and they hate it, ).

    Of course, I realize this theory could be totally wrong but sometimes my mind likes to wander off during freechat to think deep thoughts about camming, LOL.
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    I banned someone for having "pedo" in their username. I can't even remember off the top of my head what the entire username was, but since it had "pedo" in it, I banned them. Zero tolerance for that shit, ya know?
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    Those words don't really bother me. If I let myself be bothered being called a whore, slut or any of those names..then I'm doing the wrong thing to make money. LOL I'm no whore, but this is their fantasy..so pay me and I will call myself one as well. All I do during my shift is make shit up and lie. Being called a whore in a paid chat is no big thing to me.

    Being called one in real life though would piss me off. I'm a totally different person in real life then I am on cam. Once the camera is off...I'm quite boring. But this is all fantasy..so I feel those names are part of the job. Everyone is different though. All of us ladies have boundaries that we don't pass while we are signed into work. What works for one beautiful lady doesn't work for the next. I don't really get mad on cam unless I have a lot of guys begging. I'm stuck right now between telling these guys to fuck off or just quietly ban them. Another thing I hate to hear is my internet sucks...I will ban guys for that as well. I know it sucks...and if you ask me about it in free chat I will fill your head with what I've been dealing with through my phone company. That will soon be fixed though and I can't wait. I also get annoyed at the guys that think I charge to much...excuse me asshole, but I am worth that money and put a lot into my shows. I'm going to change my prices even higher once I get this internet problem taken care off

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    Those names may be part of the job, but if there's a certain term you don't wish to be called, you're allowed to feel that way. And no, it doesn't mean you're "doing the wrong thing to make money." That is something you'd say to a cam girl who flat out says "I HATE showing my body to a bunch of strangers on the internet!" There's nothing wrong with having preferences on what you are/aren't called.

    Plus, I feel like with that kind of thinking, you might as well be telling all the models in the 'Tags on Streamate' thread "Well if that tag bothers you, you shouldn't be doing this." And I don't think you'd really mean that.
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