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    Default How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I hate doing exclusive chat. I prefer group shows because they last longer and its more beneficial for me. I only prefer exclusive for phone and specific requests. But most people seem to take me exclusive and not want anything in particular. Most of the time, the shows only last less than a minute. The exclusive guys never say anything. If I ask them what they like to see, they usually remain silent. Then they pretty much leave as soon as my clothes come off. I thought people who go exclusive would want a good 10 minute show or something, but they don't. How long does your exclusives last? It screws me out of making money. They never last longer than a minute.

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    When I get exclusives I never start taking anything off until it has been at least a minute, but usually two or three. I also don't start doing anything until they respond to me.

    I like exclusives because they can add up fast if they are long enough but I also absolutely hate how it kicks everyone out of your room so if it's short than you have to wait for traffic to build back up.

    I would suggest not taking exclusives unless the guy talks to you in free chat first that way you know that they are serious about wanting to go exclusive.
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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    Why don't you increase your exclusive rates ?

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    Many of my privates tend to be one on one too, but I only average around 4-5 guys in my room at a time with my highest traffic times being 9-11. The only ones who tend to take me exclusive are the ones that either really want me to themselves or want phone. My average show overall is like 5-7 minutes, but I also have a few of those regs that take me for for 15-30 minutes every time. Of course I get those that will only take a minute or two, but those are almost always in private and not exclusive. Either way when I go private it still tends to clear my traffic.

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    Quote Originally Posted by naughtycamgirl View Post
    Why don't you increase your exclusive rates ?
    I don't think that's her issue. If that's the case, increasing the rates will probably result in shorter exclusives. I think her issue is that she needs to find her niche and stick to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    I don't think that's her issue. If that's the case, increasing the rates will probably result in shorter exclusives. I think her issue is that she needs to find her niche and stick to it.
    Well If she don't like exclusives, I think that increasing price very high and keeping the group show at reasonable price will help her to get more group shows (they stay longer + she will have multipe guys in her room)

    IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH NICHE !

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    Wow, really? I do fr better in exclusives than group. I wish, wish, wish i could get the trick to doing group shows but i just can't. I think the longest i ever managed to make a group last for was 6 minutes, and that was with only 2 guys LOL! It's just not worth it for me since when i have group on i usually just end up doing a minute with a few guys at once, then for the rest of the show it's just one guy on his own... wtf? With exclusives my average is 15 - 30 mins, and i have a few regs who can go on for over an hour. I echo the girls above, NEVER give the guys ANY kind of nudity before a minute is up, in my case it's at least 3 mins, and then it's top off first, lots more teasing before the rest comes off. I have gone 30 mins before without taking a single item of clothing off LOL (not a fetish guy, just regular vanilla kind).

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I suck in group shows, they actually last a lot shorter, than with private shows. I love privates, that is usually where I make my money.....when I am lucky enough to be busy, which lately I have been unlucky..:/




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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    Quote Originally Posted by naughtycamgirl View Post
    IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH NICHE !

    "The exclusive guys never say anything. If I ask them what they like to see, they usually remain silent. Then they pretty much leave as soon as my clothes come off."

    If she had a specific niche or thing she specialized in, she would attract a completely different clientele that know what they want & would stay. She wouldn't have to ask that what they're into, they'd just say it or indirectly compliment/comment on what she specialized in. They'd be coming to her for a reason, because they know she offers what they want. And then they'd stay.

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I do have my exclusive rates higher. They're double the premium rates. One guy did tell me he preferred to take me exclusive only because he thinks I would make more money and he could care less if other people were in the room or not. Even though he stayed for a minute. So maybe a lot of them think we prefer exclusive because it costs more and we have to do less work.

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    Oh, and another thing... I don't usually ask them what they like to see. That was just an example to show you girls that none of the guys say much to me in exclusive. I usually start with my own thing until they ask for something else. They just never type anything.

    My premium shows always pull in 3-10 people at once and last for about 15 minutes. I'll have 5 people in my room and they'll all stay a few minutes at a time. But in exclusive I take things slower and don't get naked right away. A lot of them will get out of chat before I'm even nude.

    I don't make nearly enough in exc. I keep raising my price up and people ask me why my exc. rate is so high. But I usually get one exc. an hour, sometimes more. They last maybe 2 minutes tops. The longest exclusive I ever had in the past 3 years of camming was probably only 5-7 minutes.

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    my problem with niche is i offer a lot of things fetish-wise. i'm curvy/bbw so i get some guys who are really into giantess and stuff like that. i also get guys who want non-curvy/bbw specific fetishes - like i have one guy who likes to do 15+ minute exclusives where i ignore and make fun of him (fully clothed) - which is not a fetish i advertise, he just contacted me and asked if i would be willing. i get some sissy/sph guys even though i don't advertise for that or consider it my niche. however, i am really good at incest roleplay and cuckolding fantasies, so i do advertise for those. but they're not specifically related to being curvy/bbw. so - i am not really sure how i could develop one of those into a main income stream - i'd feel like i was pigeonholing myself too much. not to mention i don't get enough shows in any one category (except maybe incest...but even then, i get a lot of vanilla shows, too, and i offer multiple kinds of incest roleplay though most of my shows are daddy/daughter). i have some guys who prefer to go exclusive because they like phone or they want me to wear something specific (even if it's not fetish-related i won't change clothes in group).

    i get a few long (15+ min) exclusive shows a week usually. i get them more often on cams.com than streamate (sometimes i can go awhile without getting one on sm), but that's partly because when i do free chat there it automatically goes exclusive (i only do group chats in nude chat, and i turn that on when i'm in group shows on streamate). i also get annoyingly short exclusive shows, but not that often. i charge about $5/min for exclusive. on streamate i mostly end up doing group shows or gold shows, but in group shows i rarely have more than one person.

    i usually do ask what they want to see because it makes it easier on me to know they're looking for roleplay or whatever. i don't get naked right away, though.

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    i rarely get more than one or 2 in a private group not sure why - but i do better in exclusive - usually 8/10 minutes up to 30 or 40 - if i can get them to call me i can keep them around 15 minutes

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I don't have a niche either. Like tinydancer I cater to a lot of different fetishes as well as vanilla. When a guy comes into my room (paid chat) i ask how he is, if there's anything in particular he'd like to talk about? Usually they respond as I go from there, or if not i will start up a sexy slow tease dance and if they go mmmm at something i do, then i say something like ooh you like that baby, wanna see more, and just take that as a cue.

    I don't think it's about niche, just about picking up cues from the guy and acting on them, not giving away too much too soon, and just being (at least acting) confident.

    Unfortunately with group i have no idea what to do. I really want to crack it as I'm sure there is far more money to be made in group, even with low prices, than in privates.

    i think this is actually the key - OP you stated you prefer to do your own thing, and just change it up if they tell you too, and i think that's why you're good at group. I do better at privates/ exclusive because i work with the guy to find out what he's into and make his fantasy happen. I'm not so good at putting on a show without any input lol. So maybe if you just tweak your approach when it comes to exclusives, to be more proactive in finding out what he wants, what he's into, then making it happen for him. While staying just as you are with group since it seems to be working for you

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I don't do a lot of exclusives anymore. But when I do, I wait until the guy talks to me about what he wants first. If he tries to take me exclusive w/o asking first, I don't usually take the show. My exclusives last anywhere from 2 minutes to 35 minutes. Most are longer. But group shows tend to last a long time b/c when one person leaves, another comes in and they keep it going.

    My exclusive rate is $2/min higher than group rate. I don't have a niche. I'm pretty vanilla. If a guy takes me exclusive and he only stays one minute... well, hope he enjoyed the show, b/c it's not gonna happen again sorry buddy

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    Damn, I wish I could get those kinds of group shows! All I get is exclusives really (tho when I do get the odd group they suck ass), but they tend to last as I'm more of a taboo/role play girl on SM, so my custies arent really the types who wanna get off to just a naked girl.

    On MFC, I choose not to do groups so often but when I do they go for everrrrrr. The damn things just don't die. My vag is always regretting it afterwards.
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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I find that guys that go into exclusive do talk and want something in particular.
    I personally love exclusive (mine is only 0.50 higher than premium for now) plus cuts off the 30seconds assholes.
    And they have been from 5 to 15 min long.
    Except one of 2-3 min cause he wanted to go exclusive just for a long pussy flash (whatever!).

    Premium is chosen more often cause its cheapier obvs, i never got more than 2 people yet, so i dont treat it as a group.
    A lot different from group at MFC!

    If you prefer premium you are very right to put exclusive way higher, if i was a customer i would get a hint from that but would choose excl anyway if i was really interested in a 1on1 show... but logic doesnt apply to everyone ahah so dunno just do your thing i guess...

    I hate non talkers too.
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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I do things kinda differently. I hated doing premiums because I didn't have a choice to deny them. I could be about to start a gold show, or talking to a GOOD regular about doing an exclusive and then BAM! I'm whisked away to premium. They don't get that there's more than one person in there and I can't take specific requests. But usually, I'd only have one guy at a time and every once in a while, someone else would pop in for a minute or 2. I felt like I was more likely to get a poor rating from a premium show.

    So now I just do gold shows and exclusives. I've set my premium rate to $14.99/min to discourage guys from choosing it. But some still do. I've tried letting them know that exclusive is cheaper, but I guess sometimes they just have to pay the idiot tax.

    My average exclusive is ~7 minutes. Rarely do I have one that is less than 5 and I do quite a few 10-15 minute exclusives. The guys that don't have much money buy into my gold shows. The guys that have fetish requests or truly want 1on1 time are willing to pay for an exclusive show.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlakeDahlia View Post
    So now I just do gold shows and exclusives. I've set my premium rate to $14.99/min to discourage guys from choosing it. But some still do. I've tried letting them know that exclusive is cheaper, but I guess sometimes they just have to pay the idiot tax.

    My average exclusive is ~7 minutes. Rarely do I have one that is less than 5 and I do quite a few 10-15 minute exclusives. The guys that don't have much money buy into my gold shows. The guys that have fetish requests or truly want 1on1 time are willing to pay for an exclusive show.

    Just fyi there is a known glitch on streamate that it seems they still have not fixed. Sometimes the only option that shows is premium and exclusive is not avaiable.
    I thought some of my customers were lying when they told me the didn't see premium but apparently it does that.

    I wish they would just let us disable either/ or.


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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Just fyi there is a known glitch on streamate that it seems they still have not fixed. Sometimes the only option that shows is premium and exclusive is not avaiable.
    I thought some of my customers were lying when they told me the didn't see premium but apparently it does that.

    I wish they would just let us disable either/ or.
    it also only shows premium if they've never bought a show before (i mean, if they just joined the site and haven't spent money at all before).

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    My privates average 8-10 minutes. I don't really have a problem with people leaving before it's through. I don't really like groups, too many people shouting demands. I usually decline them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Just fyi there is a known glitch on streamate that it seems they still have not fixed. Sometimes the only option that shows is premium and exclusive is not avaiable.
    I thought some of my customers were lying when they told me the didn't see premium but apparently it does that.

    I wish they would just let us disable either/ or.
    Yeah, someone mentioned this to me recently too. I don't really mind. I prefer to do gold shows anyway, they usually have to beg me to go exclusive. lol.

    I don't know why they let us disable exclusive but not premium. Can't they just trust that I'm going to do what benefits me the most financially? If they at least gave me the option to accept/reject a premium show, I would be more inclined to offer them.
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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    If these sites would make it 5 minutes privates mandatory ..they would literally save our lives.
    There are so many little things that prove these sites do not care about us
    First 30 sec free?
    Pay per second?

    Ya wanna see hardcore stuff for 10 cents..?
    sure sign me up.
    every bum on the street can see us " cum"
    I dont like that at all.....

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    Default Re: How long does your 1-on-1 shows last?

    I use premium as just a regular type private show. The guy who wisks me away to premium, gets to choose what we do and what he wants to see. If anyone else comes in they come second, lol. If I am just at the point where me and the first guy are chatting, I will acknowledge other people who come in, if I am performing for the first guy, i wont even say hello to the new people. If they talk to me I ignore them. If they demand I do something, I ignore them..lol. I generally just treat them as voyeurs who can watch if they want or leave...seems to work for me. If the new guy stays after the first guy leaves, I'll turn my full attention to him, and perform as he requests...exclusives I use only when a guy doesn't want to share me...

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    I love exclusives lol, average time would be 5-10 min. I dont like premium shows that much because anyone can pop in and out and you don't receive anything...and they got a free show 10 show lol

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