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    Smiley Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    Hello Girls! This is for the girls who want to go to a strip club but have no money.

    If you want to see how girls dance, the level of contact, talk to a few girls, have a few drinks, and most importantly: learn how to deal with men that you do not want to be with, here is my advice.

    I was in the same boat, I have never been to a club before, I did not know what to expect, such as dress code, the attractiveness of the girls etc.

    I went on craigslist and in the platonic section I typed in a little sob story of how I lost my job and I would like anybody male or female to take me out to a club, to get a few dances and a few drinks.

    It was amazing how many responses I got, but I also live in a major city so I am not sure the level of responses for girls who live in more sparsely populated regions.

    I of course used a fake email, with a fake name, and used a Google voice number, so I don’t get some weird psychos!

    Of the guys that responded I chose the most submissive and nice one. It is easier to convince them with some sweet talk what you want and they won’t try to aggressively hit on you and take you home.

    He of course was overweight, about three times my size, a full head shorter than me, covered in acne, and his tongue swelled up whenever he got excited.
    So it was not a fun time, but I braced it and began to schmooze, it really helped me get over spending time with men that I find physically repulsive and quite annoying.

    I was sure to be nice, as he was shy I ordered girls over for him (since girls were not coming up to us either due to his looks or to me being a female), and I also kept him in check with how much money he is spending, he really liked that and it helped build a trust between us. Especially since he said in the beginning of the night: “I am a nice guy, but I don’t like to be taken for a ride.”

    He ended up using about three hundred that night on drinks and tips and dances. Then I said that I have to go home because I have school in the morning, he understood.

    Now that I got a job dancing (finally!) I am trying to get him to come visit me at the club. Even though he is a Pre K teacher and doesn’t make much money, it is still a great way to cultivate a regular guy who will come by and get quite a few dances once a week. By using cute lines like “Well now you will get to feel me rub up on you, I bet you were wishing it that night!”

    I hope this helps you all. It will give you a taste of the scene and how to work a guy. Also it will help you from being a lost puppy when you audition (It really helped me).

    Also, always be SAFE!

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    Haha, this is kind of an interesting idea. Obviously safety is a concern, but isn't it always?

    Glad this strategy worked out for you!

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    Neat! Good for you

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    How about just calling the club, saying your thinking of dancing; and asking management if they mind if you come in for a tour and if you could sit down in the back to watch how things are run??? I mean, really.

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    ^ I think part of it is that she wanted the full SC experience. Buying drinks, talking to the girls and tipping for their time, getting dances, etc. That definitely takes some money to do.

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    I think the OP had a genius of an idea. I would have never have thought about something like that when I first started dancing. (But they didn't have craigslist when I started dancing).

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    8 months ago, before I started dancing and before I moved to a new city, I DID THE SAME THING, lol! I got a lot of responses too! I always wondered if any other women thought to do that. I had no sob story about anything. All I said was I was looking for an interesting guy to go with me and buy a few dances because I was just dying to know some things about it but didnt want to go alone as a female and I had no friends in that awful city. ( This was the beginning of my research on dancing and before SW, before camming lol) I never said I was thinking of stripping myself because I was worried about weirdos, made it clear that I wasnt looking for a date or sex or anything but company. I thought it was the greatest idea ever. But you took it to the next level with getting him to come in to see you lol.
    I replied to a couple guys who seemed nice enough, the one guy I ended up meeting, a college student who wanted to try and date me after *sigh* they just dont get it do they? But a couple others that I replied to ended up being suspiciously over-eager about going with me, which sent off creeper flags. So all I have to say is make sure if you try this, BE SAFE!!!

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    Yes I made it very clear at the end of my message that it was not some plea for a sexual encounter. I steered clear of the wierdos.

    There were some over eager guys so I am very happy I did not use my real name and real email.
    Its also very easy to ignore them if they begin to bother you.

    Yes, the guy came to see me, and actually did a 2k Champagne Room, so I am very happy. He was so overly excited that he gets to see a girl he met in real life naked.
    I guess it makes him feel like he almost has a chance with me.

    Yeah, anybody who is interested in dancing could go to a club and ask management to sit and look around. Though in the club I work at its incredibly busy and there are literally no seats to sit down. Also I wanted to talk to a few girls and have the ability to tip them for their time, have a few drinks, actually spend a nice chunk of time there. Also most importantly for me, build a foundation for some communication skills with men that I don't know. It helped me find topics of interest and helped the conversation flow smoothly when I actually began to work.

    This is of course geared towards complete physical club newbies like me, who knew nothing besides what they read on this amazing forum. So there would be no questions the night before "How do i dance?" "What is regulation underwear?"

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    vederal did you ride with him to the club or meet up there?

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    I met him a block away from the club. I'm in NYC so I took the subway, and I was lucky that he took a different train than me going home.

    I wouldn't advise getting into cars with strangers.
    Even with the subway, you should be careful because they can follow you home.

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    I know this is really old, but I didn't really find an answer anywhere besides here, and I need something more specific.
    I'm eighteen, so I can't just visit the club I'm interested in (or any club in my state, for that matter). So I don't have an issue with lack of money, which was previously stated.
    One club I called actually offered that I could come and look around when I asked if they hire eighteen year old dancers (it's legal in my state, but some clubs don't, and it wasn't on the website).
    But do you think most clubs would allow this? I'm nervous to ask "Can I come in and look around before I audition?", because I don't want them to have doubts about letting me audition because I asked something that could be perceived as rude or expectant. And I don't have any 21+ friend I could send to get an idea of it, either.
    Just curious, and I know you all have great advice!

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    ^^ I think most clubs are used to newbies, so as long as you ask politely and call at a not-busy time, like right at opening, there's a decent chance of it.

    I'm not sure if you'd be allowed to just plop down in the seats though - on the freak chance that a cop came in and could tell you weren't 21, they'd have explaining to do. I would expect them to either require you to audition that day, so you have a valid reason for being there, or to be given a guided tour and not left unattended.
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    As Selina said, most clubs aren't going to let you just sit down for half an hour if you're not old enough to be in there. Some won't even let girls do that if they are old enough. I was told I had to go in on a certain day and be with a male customer at the last club I called about having a look around. Have you tried looking up customer reviews on tuscl, yelp, google? They're not always pretty, but they give an idea of what to expect. And have you searched your club and city on Club Chat in here? Most girls won't respond to general "where's the money in this city???" posts, but if you have a specific club in mind and you want to know about safety, environment, newbie-friendliness, you might have some luck starting a new post if no information is available or current.

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    Thank you for your lovely answers! I do have a few specific clubs in mind. I've looked up reviews everywhere, but I feel like they don't really give the information I'm looking for! I think I'll make a new thread at some point asking more specific things.

    As a side note, though, the reviews for most of the clubs in my state are from 2005, so many things have probably changed by then!

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    Default Re: Wan't to See a Club, But Have No Money?

    just go in and audition. usually you have to wait around a bit so you can scope it out and if you don't like it just leave. you can go thru the entire audition and hiring process and then bolt too, nobody is forcing you to work.

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