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    Default I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    I am naturally a very shy person. I am not afraid of my body or using it to get what I want but I HATE talking. This has always been a problem for me. As a child I did not talk to my peers or teachers at all until I was seven and would only point and make signs. It was so bad my principal had my parents put me in therapy.

    Fear of talking has stayed with me and talking in a way that is a little uncomfortable in the first place scares me silly. I've thought about writing a script and ad libbing around it but I'd like some others tips if anyone has any!

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    I'm shy too when talking to people in person whom I don't know that well, especially when it's a large crowd. But with camming, it's really just you and your computer. It was wierd for me at first because I would just type, and the custies would be like "just talk we can hear you!" lol. But eventually I got the hang of it and actually prefer talking over typing.

    I would suggest getting yourself "in the mood first" by thinking sexual thoughts, using your viberator, whatever you need to do to get comfortable. Then, just arouse your audience (shake your tits, dance, whatever you do in free chat). If you smack your ass, say "you like that?" or give a closeup of your panties and say "you like these? I just got them today." See? You don't have to have a full on convo to get comfortable. And most likely the guys will spark a convo with you first, and you can just answer whatever questions you feel like answering lol.

    For me, it just helps to be in a sexy mood and think about how hot they think I am


    I feel like I'm rambling but hopefully it makes sense and I helped you a bit.

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Watch porn until your eyes fall out.
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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Literotica is awesome for finding ideas of what to say
    lol wut?


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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Just say what you're doing. Pretend you're narrating the action. "Oooh, yeah, my pussy feels so good. Fuck my tight pussy. Watch me work it for you." If they're on c2c, "Stroke that cock. I like to see how hard you are for me." Throw in adjectives like juicy, tight, thick, etc. and you're good to go.

    My husband was pretty helpful in saying, "You can't really say the wrong thing. Whatever you say will be hot. No girl is bad at dirty talk. If she's talking, then it's good."

    I have trouble though when the guys say, "I want REALLY nasty dirty talk." I kinda draw a blank here. I try to use stronger words (like "cunt" or "shit hole"---god, I hate that one) but the dudes asking for this never seem to stay very long so I guess I'm not doing it right. lol
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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    I like when I laugh at my cleverness afterward.

    "I want that big cock so much I'm gonna brag to the emergency room staff when I go in with massive internal bleeding."

    I sorta meant that one too.
    It really was a gorgeous dick.
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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Thankfully, I've always been a good actor. However, if I ever get stumped, I use Literotica like somebody stated above.

    Dirty talk does not have to be your niche, however. If it really makes you feel uncomfortable, there are certainly other things you can get into that will make up for it.

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    I used to feel really silly 'talking dirty' to my computer screen, but it's got easier for me now.

    Try and ask questions as you talk dirty, so they'll respond to you and you can take it from there. Like:

    Are you stroking that big, hard cock for me?

    It's making me so fucking wet knowing that you're watching me

    Do you want to slide your thick cock into me now?

    Mmm, give me that big cock, baby. etc.

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Just pretend you are playing a role as an actress. Become someone else on camera, another persona and let your mind and actions become that character.

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Most of guys just want you to talk, they will stay silent. Just write a bunch of sentences and keep them where you can see, like a script or something, behind the screen maybe... Dirty talking for me is ok... but there are some days when I just don't feel like it, I read them out loud "interpreting"...

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    missmagnolia posted my suggestion - keep a list of stock phrases to use - i also use telling a story - fist lesbian experience - first gang bang - first 12 inch cock - etc...

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Oh man, I got a dude who wanted me to "dirty talk" in a c2c private while just laying there with my ass cheeks spread. That was difficult. I felt totally stumped. I really need to practice this shit lol.

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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Whoa. Did he say "the worse you treat me the more generous I'll be?" and then drop $20 tips while taking forever?

    That's mine and I want it back!
    haha

    I'm sure it's just another similar guy...
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    Default Re: I can't for the life of me "dirty talk"

    Maybe after you found things from Literotica like they said above, then write them out and put it up by the monitor. Also, practice saying them before going on.

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