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    Quote Originally Posted by Hersheemelts View Post
    So exactly what it says is what I'm talking about...So my potential soon-to-be sugardaddy I truly believe is gay,if not bisexual.

    I have tons of gay male friends,plus I'm bisexual so I know the "talk" with the gay community. Anywho just some things he says,the way he talks,and also he has this male friend who is ALWAYS ALWAYS with him. Like the club I work at he'll come in with his friend and before his friend lives he'll say " Hey John Doe,I'm leaving now,I think it's time for you to come too,I don't like you here after I'm gone." or the other night he told him. "Why you always spending money on her? I don't never see you spend money like that with me." I mean those are some examples and I asked some other girls around the club what they think and they think the same thing. I've never slept with him yet but it makes me feel i don't know weird? Should I just overlook it or? Plus I kiss him,not a lot but I just think of males getting AIDS/HIV it's a scary world out there!


    Your post really rubbed me the wrong way.

    1) Men (and GAY men, if that is what you were trying to hint at) having AIDS/HIV is a stereotype. EVERYONE, men, women, straight couples and gay couples, asexuals, and children can contract a disease like this.

    If you are worried in the slightest that you could contract a disease quit having sex, stop "kissing him" and stay away from needles. You cannot get HIV via kissing. It has to be breast milk, blood, pre-cum, cum, and vaginal fluid.

    If you are wanting to be sexual with this man in the future and are worried about STD's ask if you can both take a mutual STD test. Or cross your fingers and wear a condom.

    2) Grow up and just ask him. This "is he-or-isn't-he??" game is High Schoolish. No one here can determine his sexuality for you. Nor can you. You can guess all day long - you need to be open about it and ask him or suck it up and don't make a big deal with it.

    Some people aren't gay but they act extremely flamboyant. I have an Uncle who is as straight as a arrow, happily married but has a passion for decorating.

    Flip side, I have girl friends who are lesbian and are very feminine.

    You can't define and judge someone based on what society has boxed them in to be:

    "I'm a camgirl so I must be a whore."
    "She doesn't dress up and she cut her hair short - she must be a lesbian"
    "That guy wore a pink shirt - he must be gay"

    So stop being disrespectful and whispering behind this guy's back and point blank ask him what his sexual orientation is.

    Then you can decided if you feel like furthering the relationship.
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    I heart Hayden.
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    Default Re: My sugar daddy is gay?

    Also, I just had to throw this out there because logic wants it to be said:

    If he is interested in you and interested in the arrangement you two have seemed to have planned out - he likes YOU. Gay men don't like vaginas. Gay men like dicks.

    Gay men are GAY. End of story.

    But by the sound of your post and this, "Oh my god, girl-friend do you think so-and-so is gay?" thing you've got going on it sounds like you've already settled on who you think he is.

    It's extremely childish and if I heard someone I was trying to form a relationship to drop money on was spreading RUMORS about my sexual orientation I would close up shop reeeeeal quick. I would start biting your tongue around your friends.

    Could he be bisexual? Sure could. Nothing wrong with it.

    He could also be straight.

    You still need to ask him.







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    Well if it rubbed you the wrong sorry but nobody said i was talking about him behind his back and i'm not about to bite me tongue i say what i want because i can voice my opinion,just like you are. I mean it's hard to explain the situation over the internet,if you were in person i'm sure somebody would understand or at least see what i'm talking about. And also like i said in the post he may be bisexual which is not a problem to me because if you pay attention i said i'm bisexual so therefore get it straight.
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    What I wouldn't give to be some gay Sugar Daddy's beard.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hersheemelts View Post
    i'm bisexual so therefore get it straight.
    Ha this is funny, get it straight *wink wink*
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    LOL! dream job or what!!

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    Well if it rubbed you the wrong sorry but nobody said i was talking about him behind his back and i'm not about to bite me tongue i say what i want because i can voice my opinion,just like you are. I mean it's hard to explain the situation over the internet,if you were in person i'm sure somebody would understand or at least see what i'm talking about. And also like i said in the post he may be bisexual which is not a problem to me because if you pay attention i said i'm bisexual so therefore get it straight.
    I hear ya, and to be honest a couple of his habits you described do sound pretty damn gay!! lol. In fact, the reason I clicked on this thread was because it seemed so bizarre. (before I get flamed, I'm bi and totally gay-friendly - like that matters, can't believe I even need to state that).

    Like suggested above, I think you should just ask him if it's bugging you.... but otherwise, if he's happy and you're happy, and the situation is working for you two, why fuck with it. Though, take extra precaution, sexually. It's not popular to state, but the fact is that you may be dealing with someone who's possibly not honest about his tendencies, and you need to be damn cautious anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikidejavu View Post
    Ha this is funny, get it straight *wink wink*
    Hahaha! Never thought of it that way!
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    Pretty much just ignoring the thread just to say.. I love gay men as sugar daddies. They never want sex, they don't drag on you when you want money, and the clothes shopping.. My first sugar daddy was gay and taught me about clothes. I miss having a gay sugar daddy...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    Pretty much just ignoring the thread just to say.. I love gay men as sugar daddies. They never want sex, they don't drag on you when you want money, and the clothes shopping.. My first sugar daddy was gay and taught me about clothes. I miss having a gay sugar daddy...

    Wow. Well this is my first so I was kind of like uhhh okay? No problem with it but he's bi because he still wants sex..haven't had sex with him yet tho. Glad I'm not alone with this experience
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hersheemelts View Post
    Wow. Well this is my first so I was kind of like uhhh okay? No problem with it but he's bi because he still wants sex..haven't had sex with him yet tho. Glad I'm not alone with this experience
    Well if you want it to be a long and profitable sd relationship.. No sex. Sex is the signature to end a sd relationship. I know its different for others but if sex is part of the package to get the money its easier to be a escort.. less drama, same package and you can drop them quicker if they try to beg for you to lower your rates.

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    I rarely post but read often for inspiration.... But I am just going to jump in here even though it's an old thread.
    I've searched and been reading through th SD threads because it interests me right now. I always used to joke that I wanted a sugar daddy but sex would be out of the question, so he'd either have to be gay or not functional in some way and completely ok with it. I say 'joked' because I never thought this was a possibility. I read the SD 101 thread along with quite a few more...so I guess my question is; How do you get a Gay Sugar Daddy?! I'm sure it isn't easy and they are as rare as unicorns.... But omg!! This is a thing?!

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    I WANT A GAY SD TOO! I am SO jealous!!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lady_footsie View Post
    I WANT A GAY SD TOO! I am SO jealous!!!!!!!!

    Hell me too!!! I was just thinking this the other day. I have a prospect that would be a good sugar daddy with the exception that I think this f*cker takes viagra and would probably want sex all day everyday. Which Im not trying to do. I thought it would be perfect if he was celibate, impotent, - or gay. But whats the chances of that happening?
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    Haha!!! I even put in one of my SB profiles that I was happy for the terribly insecure, previously rejected or impotent SDs! Funnily enough, nobody fitting that pleasant description responded. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    .... I have a prospect that would be a good sugar daddy with the exception that I think this f*cker takes viagra and would probably want sex all day everyday. Which Im not trying to do. ...
    Strike a deal with him -- he eats you out first for as many orgasms as you want for every time he wants to fuck you.

    (I would certainly accept that sweet deal if I were given that opportunity.)
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lady_footsie View Post
    Haha!!! I even put in one of my SB profiles that I was happy for the terribly insecure, previously rejected or impotent SDs! Funnily enough, nobody fitting that pleasant description responded. Lol
    lol yes, you can't be *THAT* honest

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