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    Default Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    So we started on SM tonight, first time camming for both of us. I'm a stripper so I'm obviously more comfortable with nudity and sexuality than him with strangers.

    We've made $68 take home, did like 3 shows... a total of about 11 minutes for all of them combined. Not bad in my opinion. We've been on a few hours.

    We got one exclusive, and did party chat too. Rate is $3.49/minute for party, $4.49/minute for exclusive. We had our exclusive set at $4.99/minute but the show only lasted 2 minutes so we dropped the rate. We got a party chat at $3.99/minute but we did better once we dropped it to $3.49. Is $68 for a couple good so far?

    He's in the shower. He hasn't been able to really get an erection so we basically faked the sex and the guys bought it, but I need him to get hard...

    It's like he's camera shy. I gave him some ritalin beforehand and some red bull and he seemed excited and in a good mood, but I think he's having trouble getting hard on camera. It's kind of demanding, like "get hard NOW" "do this, do that".

    I'm used to working by myself. And I feel weird saying dirty stuff to other guys outloud lol, so I mostly type it but I do talk outloud too.

    We went to the gas station and grabbed some male enhancement pills and he got an erection off cam but once we did a private he couldn't get hard so we basically faked a blow job.

    Any ideas? I don't want our ratings to drop because he can't get hard. What should I do? He's great in bed normally, no performance issues, gets hard quickly.

    Our rating is 4.75, we started at 4. So we haven't had a bad rating yet.

    Thanks ladies!
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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    Viagra really helps but other than that its hard to say. Aderal usually does too but after a while it can hurt more than help. Mind you I legally get bot so I don't recommend getting either unless he can get a prescription ;-)
    I have heard from guys that I've worked with in the industry and they say practice helps a lot. Every guys has different things that help them get in them mood in an odd situation, you just need to help him find what his is. Practice makes perfect! I feel bad for guys. Cant really cut them any slack in that department because there is no room for faking. Thank God I'm a woman! My guy is camera shy as well and doesn't take the lame comments from guys too good so I work alone now.
    I would also consider a cock ring. You can buy them at any sex store and they help keep an erection as well if you want to go with something more natural ad not use viagra

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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    Yeah ritalin is kind of like adderall, I've taken both for a long time.

    Adderall is more potent and feels more like a meth high, whereas ritalin feels more like coke.

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    any more advice?

    I want to get back on cam tonight...
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    Well generally if you have erection issues you want to stay away from alcohol but maybe in this case he should have a few beers just to relax him. It sounds like hes having anxiety so I think that uppers are the opposite of what you want. Not tonight obviously but have him try a couple drinks or some pot and just ease him into it. Tell him to focus on you. I know when I first started camming my first private I freaked out and unplugged my cam. Once you do a few shows you relax. Be supportive and just try to keep him calm and confident.

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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    Tease him while you tease your customers! When I do couple's shows, half the time they want him to come in, they don't want him to already be there. So while I'm dancing, stripping, whatever I make eye contact with -him-, do little things I know he likes that are out of their view, etc to remind him that while they're paying me, I'm still aaaalllll his

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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    Mine does the same thing

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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    Mine's the same. Being a male porn star is hard... or not as the case may be!

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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    I just hope he can get past it. We went on chatroulette and talked about sex and fantasies with random people to ease him into it. I figured since we weren't actually having sex, just talking, that would be a good start. About three hours later we had great sex off cam, twice. It's harder for him because he likes slower bjs and kissing to get turned on, but that takes too long on cam. He was watching porn and masturbating after the first show but he couldn't really get or stay hard.

    We will try again tonight or in a day or two.
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    Default Re: Couples camming..man is camera shy?

    My husband takes a prescription for Adderall, sometimes if he takes extra, he can't get fully hard. And his balls are super tight. That's probably TMI. I would try going on without it though.

    So many guys in my room ask why my husband doesn't cam with me. I don't think they get it. Any girl with some lube and a smile can do porn. It takes a lot more for a guy. Especially in camming where he needs to be able to get and lose an erection within like 5 seconds, over and over again and still be able to pop on command multiple times a night.
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    Yes, it is hard. There is no room for faking.

    My advice would be don't even consider it... Let him know you both will FAKE it and that you will be in charge and give him instructions what positions/angles you must take and so forth (in the first post you said that you already did that, that's good.)

    Straight guys have very fragile umm... self-esteem... He can become angry very fast. So basically what you need to tell him:

    #1 They are going to pay.

    #2 What they are going to pay for is going to be a fake improvisation.

    #3 If they don't like something they can go and f**k themselves.

    #4 And last but not least s-c-r-e-w the stars, no one gives a F if they didn't like the show.

    Just my 2c

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