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    Default I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    I can admit to being a bitch at times but I didn't deserve the way an SW member/customer treated me in person... Ive decided that I want to leave SW.. I wish I didnt have to but too many of the custy's are taking personal things out on the dancers here...

    Im opening my studio in 10 days and dont need this anymore.. I want to stay but why? I used to have like 10 other girls here and a few custys and a few DJ's etc who were cool but not it's turned into an attack on the girls in the industry and an invasion by the camgirls of which Im also one...

    Just don't know anymore...

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    Im just like fuck this industry...

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    What happened? Tell us the story before you go.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    You shouldn't give an insignificant asshole that kind of power over you!
    You're allowing him make your decision to leave......fuck that. And fuck him too. We can't let the lower-life forms scare off all of the good people here, or else SW will become one big circle-jerk of douche-nozzles. Nobody wants that .

    And besides - karma always takes care of people like that, whether it be today, tomorrow, or next year .

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    Can you tell us what happened and who the member was, so we know who to watch out for?

    I agree with lopaw. If you leave, he wins.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    I wont name names... Im just kind of tired of the dancer vs customer drama...

    Ive been in the industry for 9 years and whenever I leave I get sucked back in... so now Im just kind of feeling like I need to do other things with my time...

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    I want to know who he is.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    What did he do? Did he just verbally disrespect you, or did he physically hurt you/ try to hurt you? If he did try to hurt you, I think you should at least let the site administrators know, and possibly the police if the situation calls for it.

    ( I say "just verbally disrespect you", but I don't mean to diminish the importance of that. Whether he hurt you verbaly or physically, neither is okay).
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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    A explanation is the right thing to do, if your going to make a thread about a incident.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    I think an explanation is needed. She mentions dancer/customer drama but I don't see a lot of that except with the trolls (who rarely if ever venture out of customer conversation). I see far more drama between dancers/dancers or camgirls or between male posters.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    I'm truly sorry if a customer disrespected, hurt or tried to hurt you but, honestly, the fact that it my be a guy who is on this site is somewhat secondary. While there seems to be no shortage of trolls on this site lately there is also a very long history of dancers meeting SW members at work with no problems. Did you arrange to meet this guy? Did he just show up and say that he was a member?

    I don't mean to be unsympathetic but your rant just doesn't make a lot of sense. It really sounds like you have had enough of dancing and the BS that goes along with it. While I sympathize I also feel that these issues go way beyond your involvement with SW.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    I am so sorry this happened to you... however, if you were mistreated by a male member, the rest of the community needs to know so dancers can protect themselves from similar situations. *Hugs*

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    A explanation is the right thing to do, if your going to make a thread about a incident.
    I agree, otherwise, thie OP's post is just "LOOK AT ME"

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmyLynne View Post
    I can admit to being a bitch at times but I didn't deserve the way an SW member/customer treated me in person...
    Amy, I am sorry to hear this. Under no circumstances should issues on this board translate into real world problems with a customer. I agree with others who say that the screen name of the SW member should be made known, if not to the general group then at least to the Mods.

    I will also say, however, that I am a bit surprised by this. Most stories I hear about SW blues meeting pinks usually involve blues who are on their best behavior. I know that when I met one of the sweetest pinks on this board, I was sensitive to how it would translate here and I am fairly sure that others feel the same way.

    Anyway, it is too bad that the blue in question decided to behave badly and he is lucky that you are showing such restraint.

    Quote Originally Posted by AmyLynne View Post
    I wish I didnt have to but too many of the custy's are taking personal things out on the dancers here...

    I want to stay but why? I used to have like 10 other girls here and a few custys and a few DJ's etc who were cool but not it's turned into an attack on the girls in the industry and an invasion by the camgirls of which Im also one...


    Just don't know anymore...
    I'm a bit confused. Isn't there a dancer-only section that is entirely invisible to customers? And that, of course, is in addition to the section that is visible to all, but in which only ladies may post. And why would the fact that camgirls are also using the site detract from what the dancers also contribute?

    Anyway, obviously you need to do what is best for you, but I'm not sure I understand what is driving your decision to leave. You could spend all day in the vast amount of this site that customers cannot post in and never, ever have to interact with a customer at all.

    Anyway, good luck with everything, including the new studio!
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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    Interesting. There are all types of people out there. When I showed this forum to a former dancer who is a friend of mine, she said "god, you come over so much different in person, I bet they hate you there."

    I think that basically, there are all types of people everywhere. Just because someone is nice/jerk in a forum doesn't mean that they are nice/jerk in real life. I realize that this is no consolation now. I hope that things turn out better.
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    ^^ That's kind of funny.

    I haven't run across enough of your posts to hate you or not hate you, but now I'm wondering how differently I present myself on an anonymous forum vs. real life

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    No he asked me if I was the AmyLynne from SW and when I said yes.. he started a tirade and called me the b and c words and told me I was a lowlife for marrying my husband who is foreign.. like he insinuated that my husband is illegal.. he's married to me he has a permanent visa... he knew about my family and my husbands family so obviously I feel as if this person has been stalking me...

    I will tell Pryce.. just be careful Vegas girls...

    and my husband is from Serbia...

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    ^^ WTF what a dirt bag. I've been "called out" a few times but always by dancers. I would have slugged that guy.

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    and I dont know this guy... I wouldnt know a customer anyway... but Im assuming he is one or he is a troll because he knows things Ive posted about here and knows I just had a baby and I have a 3 year old girl..

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    Well hon, you do have a public blog, and you post here, and anyone can read. I don't see this as being a regular member of the team, just one of the thousands of pathetic trolls who create a fictional drama from the real life posts here. I am sorry to hear that you were treated this way.

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    Such disrespectful behavior toward anyone is terrible. It is just one of those sad facts of the internet age that when you put yourself out there on a forum, blog, or website you can attract attention you'd rather not have. This seems especially true if you are female and cute.

    Obviously people who feel entitled to approach someone they've never met before and insult them based on things posted on a forum or blog are not playing with a full deck of cards.

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    you may want to be more discreet online if you want to avoid drama. I learned my lesson!
    Last edited by Swagz; 12-04-2011 at 04:07 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalllia View Post
    ^^ That's kind of funny.

    I haven't run across enough of your posts to hate you or not hate you, but now I'm wondering how differently I present myself on an anonymous forum vs. real life
    I'm a real life version of basement cat. I rarely make it to the penthouse.
    Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?

    Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.

    If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?

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    Default Re: I've finally met an SW custy and it's time to go...

    Why not just stop sharing so much information about your personal life?

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    Im trying to start a business and sell a book... it takes some marketing to do both...

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