Hi All,

I came across SW searching for the love of my life (a stripper). She is the one that got away (because of my stupidity / immaturity).

I met her in college when I was 19. She was a few years older and she was a stripper at the Body Shop in San Diego. A topless club located in the Sports Arena area of San Diego. I met her in my french class and I was instantly attracted to her. Beautiful dark hair and light blue eyes, small B-cups and a toned body. Yes she was attractive but that's not why I loved her and still love her. I loved her because she was one of the best people I have every met. She was very giving, kind and she had great values. She came from a poor back ground and a broken home and despite the tough circumstances she grew up in she had her barrings straight. She had goals and aspirations and wanted what we all want a better life for herself. Being young and immature I let my friends who new she was a stripper interfere in our relationship. The little jokes and pokes I was constantly getting from people because I was dating a stripper became tough to deal with and being inexperienced and weak minded I broke up with her and moved on. The biggest regret of my life is causing her to cry when I broke the news to her. She had been the perfect girl and like her mother and father I abandoned her not because of anything she did because I was to weak to handle the pressure. Anyhow, losing her is the biggest regret of my life. Since then I have dated several other ladies who are strippers and each one of them had great traits and were lovely woman but I can't shake her as she was the first love of my life.

I have tried to look for her on myspace, facebook and at the club she used to work at but no luck so far. Hoping I might run into her here. I am not expecting anything and knowing her she is probably a successful woman with a family and a great mother at this point. It would just be nice to know she is doing well.

Sorry to bore you guys with my sob story. I promise that if I make anymore posts it won't be sad sacky like this.